Whatever troll. Guess you need to get your PhD since you already understand human behavior so well.
Btw I don’t need to “convince” anybody else. SanDiegoBlack totally summed it up. His post was factual, from years of his own experience and observation (which you were gracious enough to at least not try to discount), rational, and fit both the available research (yes there is research on cuckolding) and describes me and many others to a T. I don’t have to “lie about who I am” it’s a fucking anonymous site, you get that right? Which is why so many on here will freely admit they are bi, or sissies etc. You don’t know me, even after I told you exactly who I am. That’s a reflection of you and your (I hope just episodic) ignorance.
Based on your completely inflexible, “all other opinions that lead to a different conclusion than mine are BS” we must then assume that you think the following of SanDiegoBlack:
He’s an idiot for not seeing what’s right in front of him with those 30+ couples he has played with, or
He’s really poor at observing and decoding people’s behavior and/or is being misled, or
He knows the “truth” about these guys and is just a liar and a deviant for covering up for clearly homosexual males.
I mean it has to be because of the 30+ couples the husbands all sat there watched and were turned on by him pleasuring their wives, which by your definition means he’s drowning in closeted gay dudes, right?
I don’t see you having an “aha” moment and ever apologizing to me for this crap. So continue to revel in your ignorance and narrow mindedness. By the way, you started off saying you valued people’s opinions, but you should have had a disclaimer. You value only those opinions that don’t contradict yours. So in the end, you’ve learned nothing useful. See confirmation bias.