Are bulls and cucks really bi and gay men?

[equippedblk]

You were probably subconsciously bi/gay to begin with and was anti bi/gay because you knew that was who you really were. You got into cuck because you knew it was an easier way to get close to other men without it being 100% gay. To me it only makes sense that is why I don't understand why cucks and the bulls are in denial about their bisexuality. It's obvious why you have this kink!



It seems BM that are into white women are more fluid and open minded with their sexuality. It is what it is.

Perhaps or maybe less rigid in our thinking of hetero and homoeroticism as something less than the continuum that it seems to be. If a man refers to another man as handsome, is this homoerotic or are there certain features that most in society agree are attractive traits? These are difficult things to tease out, but there seems to be a tendency for many to try to take complex notions and simply boil them down to, "that's gay", etc.

Why does penis size, shape and other traits matter in hetero porn when it's clear that most consumers of porn are indeed men that probably consider themselves hetero? Is there a fascination with seeing something freakishly large or is something else going on here? Many consumers of IR porn are familiar with Shane Diesel or Mandingo, but what about the 100s of women they've did scenes with, if we're talking about STR8 guys then why isn't more emphasis placed on the value added by the women performers?

It took me a while to wrap my mind around the notion that someone was willingly encouraging me to have sex with their wife, this definitely helped expand my understanding. Allowing a hubby to fluff and clean has honestly never turned me on as I've never had an orgasm from receiving oral sex from anyone, period. Why bother then, because it isn't all about me.

 

[lovingcookie]

i dont think in such terms, more what gets me pleasure and what i desire. Men can be attractive, but never attractive in a solo
circumstance. they are attractive when they pump your girlfriend and make her moan as example.

 

[Swng Wht Cpl]

We are an occasional swinging couple, I never had homo thoughts while I may enjoy seeing my wife happy, I never had a bull interested in me either. it is true we have little experience though compared to a lot others here.

 

[equippedblk]

We are an occasional swinging couple, I never had homo thoughts while I may enjoy seeing my wife happy, I never had a bull interested in me either. it is true we have little experience though compared to a lot others here.

My point exactly, this is a mixed bag of folks with different agendas, interests, and motivations.

 

[Rene Mills]

It depends on the guys and what they are seeking. Too much is made of this. Too much labeling. This is no dissent than trying to label women that swing as whores

 

[Kim'sCucksuker]

Bulls I would say 95% no. Cucks I'd say 60% yes based on the feedback here.

You would be wrong. Bulls are tops often times

 

[Report]

I think this lifestyle shares a lot of elements with the BDSM and dominant and submissive kinks. As a longtime wannabe cuck I have thought about cleanup play and being underneath during 69, but have never watched, dreamed or thought about gay stuff. Again, this is largely fantasy played out in real life, but it touches on themes of emasculation, worship/superiority, dom/sub, etc.

 

[equippedblk]

I guess this makes me something other than easy to put in a box just because this kinky mofo wanted to get down like this and be on the business end of my BBC, oh well, it happens.

 

[SheLikesItHard]

I think this particular forum would cause you to think that.

In the real world though, a lot of guys are totally hetero but enjoy seeing girls being impaled on penises that are larger than theirs/ having sex with a woman who is "prohibited" (married/ with boyfriend).

Pushing boundaries has always been sexually exciting to both men and women. There doesn't necessarily have to be a non heterosexual dynamic to this. Although in some cases it could be a case of the guy being bi/ gay by proxy, I do think these are the exception.

 

[Report]

I guess this makes me something other than easy to put in a box just because this kinky mofo wanted to get down like this and be on the business end of my BBC, oh well, it happens.

Yeah, I don't see that as gay or bi, it's a position of dominance.

 

[Kara Sweet]

Seems this lifestyle is full of closet cases on both sides. It is one of the reasons that a lot of people in the real world thinks a Black man who exclusively dates and sex white women are trying to hide their bisexuality or gayness. I’m starting to believe that there is truth to this theory.

It’s quite obvious that cucks are at the very least bi-curious or purely gay in an arrangement with their female partner.

Lastly, guys who love being part of gangbangs screams bi or closet gay to me.

Thoughts?

Are you stupid or just that naive?

 

[FloydBW]

Seems this lifestyle is full of closet cases on both sides. It is one of the reasons that a lot of people in the real world thinks a Black man who exclusively dates and sex white women are trying to hide their bisexuality or gayness. I’m starting to believe that there is truth to this theory.

It’s quite obvious that cucks are at the very least bi-curious or purely gay in an arrangement with their female partner.

Lastly, guys who love being part of gangbangs screams bi or closet gay to me.

Thoughts?

I think as a rule you must be right.. I love to fuck their wives.. I want nothing to do with other men.. not even MFM.

 

[SwirlSexr775]

It seems BM that are into white women are more fluid and open minded with their sexuality.

Possibly in this so-called lifestyle...

However for Black men in general I would disagree. Based on being a Black man.
Especially the "fluid" aspect. Agree for the most part concerning the open- mindedness.

 

[openfreak]

We are an occasional swinging couple, I never had homo thoughts while I may enjoy seeing my wife happy, I never had a bull interested in me either. it is true we have little experience though compared to a lot others here.

I guess it's possible but I think most men into these fetish/kink are bi/gay or very curious about it. Nothing is wrong with it but many still to think so because they are still in denial about why they are really into this particular thing.

I guess this makes me something other than easy to put in a box just because this kinky mofo wanted to get down like this and be on the business end of my BBC, oh well, it happens. View attachment 7433973

Both guys in this picture is a clear illustration of examples of men who would claim they are not bi/gay but straight men wouldn't want a man's dick/balls and asshole in your face? Likewise, a straight man want not put his asshole and dick/balls on another man's face?

 

[openfreak]

Are you stupid or just that naive?

I'm realistic

 

[equippedblk]

I guess it's possible but I think most men into these fetish/kink are bi/gay or very curious about it. Nothing is wrong with it but many still to think so because they are still in denial about why they are really into this particular thing.



Both guys in this picture is a clear illustration of examples of men who would claim they are not bi/gay but straight men wouldn't want a man's dick/balls and asshole in your face? Likewise, a straight man want not put his asshole and dick/balls on another man's face?

OK it is what it is, I’ve enjoyed tons of pussy over the years & all my encounters in life has always included a woman. I’m neither judge or jury just a dude on a journey.

 

[SwirlSexr775]

all my encounters in life has always included a woman.

For the sake of simplicity (sexuality can be anything but). Could you limit your response. To this question...
"What is your sexual orientation ?"
To these three terms:
Homosexual.
Bisexual.
Heterosexual.

Respect regardless...
.

 

[Jdingo619]

Seems this lifestyle is full of closet cases on both sides. It is one of the reasons that a lot of people in the real world thinks a Black man who exclusively dates and sex white women are trying to hide their bisexuality or gayness. I’m starting to believe that there is truth to this theory.

It’s quite obvious that cucks are at the very least bi-curious or purely gay in an arrangement with their female partner.

Lastly, guys who love being part of gangbangs screams bi or closet gay to me.

Thoughts?

In 15 years in the lifestyle I have been in many threesomes with couple's, I've been in numerous gangbangs, and have ran trains on quite a few women in the and I have never ever had any personal sexual contact with any man at any time, nor have I ever had the desire to do so!

I am 100% percent straight zero options or any of this modern day fluidity!

I can stand shoulder to should with another guy while getting blown and it does nothing to me sexually, nor does it fuck up my performance, because of some kind of h0m0phobia! All I know, and all I think about in my mind is the woman and how I'm trying to get my meat sandwiched between her gums!

I have had many, and I mean many bi couple's invite me to join them for some bi-sex play! Although I have always respected their honesty and that they were always upfront about their intentions, I always very respectfully declined their offer, and yes at times I was kind of disappointed because alot of these women I really wanted to fuck, but because I am 100% percent straight and not willing to compromise just to play with the woman, I don't get to ever meet them and I am ok with that!

So one thing that you will learn in this lifestyle is that you will miss numerous opportunities that you would have liked to experience for various reasons like: being 100% percent straight, because of work, already have plans to play with someone else, not feeling well, ect! I can honestly say I have missed lots of opportunities for various different reasons and being straight is one of them!

So lastly let me just say this, as a 100% percent straight man who has been in many threesomes, have done DP'S, been in various Gangbangs, numerous orgies, and ran trains on women in the lifestyle, and has been shoulder to shoulder with other guys while getting blown, I couldn't tell you what it's like to have any time of sexual attraction or the desire to have any kind of intentional person sexual contact with another man! Even when there is unintentional contact like during a DP or during a blow job the thoughts still have never crossed my mind! If you are straight then your straight if you are bi then your bi and a straight man is not bi nor is he open to being bi for a night of fun!

Now if you see a straight guy having intentional personal sexual contact with another man and calling himself straight, like the so called straight men who do g@y porn, then you can call it what it clearly is, but I am telling you that in general most of us lifestyle Bulls are not bi, or have any desire to have any bi experiences! In fact I read many posts from couple's asking why it's so hard to find bi Black Bulls?

 

[Mini-Me]

Yeah I think most are closet gays.
Fake subs also.

They call themselfes cucks but they control everything, and do everything for the D.

 

[TxBrah]

I don't consider myself gay or bi, to be that, imo, there has to be a degree of attraction towards men. While I'm neither attracted to men nor am I interested in being submissive to another man. I think the term "heteroflexible" fits.