Ex military. In boot camp all the showers are open bay. It was impossible NOT to see another man's penis when all 80 of you had to be done, out and dressed in 20 minutes. Nothing about a turn on there.but you are turned on by seeing a Black dick regardless if you want to touch it or feel it. Seeing another man's penis (Black man penis) is part of the turn on for you. That's not something that turns on straight men.