When you invite someone out as a general rule of hospitality you should always be prepared to pick up the tab. Understand something that couple's have to make a good impression with the bull also.
The bull knows his role as a potential suitor for a hotwife and he knows it's most important for him to make a good first impression and to also put on an even better performance in the bedroom no matter whose around but this is where some couples themselves tend to drop the ball. Couple's have a responsibility to also to make a good impression and this is why you have couples who get ghosted or flaked on because something about that couple didn't vibe with the bull and they gave him the impression that they were not to be taken seriously. I am at least personally respectful and mature enough to say to people "that's really not my thing" and "I wish you guys all the success in the future" and move on! I have never ghosted or flaked or have had likewise happen to me.
It is very rare that I have specifically went to meet a couple for a meet and greet and we immediately went from there to play. Honestly if it's just a meet and greet honestly the bull may not even be expecting to immediately go from there and play and you may not get his best performance. As a military guy I can tell you that there is a difference between how your adrenaline is flowing when you go out on a mission and how your adrenaline flows going from a moment of leisure. What I'm saying is the best fight that you are going to get out of a soldier is when he knows he's head directly into combat. He's juiced up and he's ready to kick ass and take names. To be honest I never expect to go from a meet and greet to play because I always see a meet and greet as just that. I just want to show you that i am real and that i am exactly who I say that I am. If you intend on going from the meet and greet to play if all goes well then be sure that the bull is informed that it can go down like that.
I have been contacted by couple's and they paid for the first hotel encounter of course because all I did was show up to the room and send the wife over the moon. I have also been invited to meet and play with either a hotwife by herself or a couple and I myself went out and got the room and they came and met me. I have had couple's and hotwives get the room and when I showed up I reimbursed them.
If you want the guy to pay just say it up front. In fact I would have hoped it would be discussed during our chatting online so that I know what to expect. I absolutely have no problem paying and I'm going to use that pussy like I paid for it too!
