I think it’s based on preference. The thing to remember is there’s reality and there’s fiction, and there are a lot of white boys who fantasize about this lifestyle rather than participate in it, so they feed into internet propaganda. The hot wife, stag/vixen, and interracial cuckolding lifestyles are all fetishes and kinks, and hard and soft limits should still be respected. We’re still people. Feelings and boundaries should still be respected.