We had a very dear black friend and ultimately a wonderful lover who was an older widower, he was 62. He had never had any children and sometimes talked about all the things he'd missed and that his family line would end with him. I offered to have his baby if he liked. At first, he was very excited and was ready to start trying, lol!!! He changed his mind when he said he thought about it and given his age he didn't feel like he'd be able to be the dad he wanted to be and he had some health problems. So I stayed on the pill but we still tried, lol.