That would explain why they were triggered by my questionWont happen,this page is a business and porn addicted delusional gay white men keep it going.
That would explain why they were triggered by my questionWont happen,this page is a business and porn addicted delusional gay white men keep it going.
We didn't pay to become Gold.I think its safe to say the website is overrun by white men pretending to be women, couples, or black men. My question is why are those of you who are legit women and couples wont simply verify your profile? Some of you will pay to become Gold members but wont verify. It would be the easiest way to distinguish yourself from the posers in order to clean up the website. Whats your reason for not verifying yourself?
He's a Liberal, we have learned to expect that type of response from snowflakesGo fuck yourself.I hate arguing lames,go bug somebody else loser.
I will offer a somewhat different answer than the others. Very simply, I have not, do not, and will not post a picture of myself online, in no way shape or form. Not on Spacebook,, Instaspam, Tweeter, etc... Period, end of discussion. I clearly state in my profile and other postings that I am not interested in "hooking up" online. I am a 50 (ish) year old, severely menopausal woman that got along just fine before the internet changed the way everyone gauged their own self-worth. I come here to offer advice from the mistakes that my husband and I made along the way, and possibly share ideas with like minded people.
If this makes you not want to talk to me, or take my opinions seriously, then that is your prerogative. I am not about to risk my professional license and practice just to satisfy someone from the interwebs that I will never meet in person. I have been a member of this site for 5 or 6 years and if you look at my posts you will see my intentions.
I do agree, that if a member is actively seeking men or women on this site, then verification of some sort is a necessity.
There it is. Let the Becky bashing begin.
I think its safe to say the website is overrun by white men pretending to be women, couples, or black men. My question is why are those of you who are legit women and couples wont simply verify your profile? Some of you will pay to become Gold members but wont verify. It would be the easiest way to distinguish yourself from the posers in order to clean up the website. Whats your reason for not verifying yourself?
Each to their ownI will offer a somewhat different answer than the others. Very simply, I have not, do not, and will not post a picture of myself online, in no way shape or form. Not on Spacebook,, Instaspam, Tweeter, etc... Period, end of discussion. I clearly state in my profile and other postings that I am not interested in "hooking up" online. I am a 50 (ish) year old, severely menopausal woman that got along just fine before the internet changed the way everyone gauged their own self-worth. I come here to offer advice from the mistakes that my husband and I made along the way, and possibly share ideas with like minded people.
If this makes you not want to talk to me, or take my opinions seriously, then that is your prerogative. I am not about to risk my professional license and practice just to satisfy someone from the interwebs that I will never meet in person. I have been a member of this site for 5 or 6 years and if you look at my posts you will see my intentions.
I do agree, that if a member is actively seeking men or women on this site, then verification of some sort is a necessity.
There it is. Let the Becky bashing begin.
White male accounts can’t be verified anyway. The success rate hugely improves for those that can verify and want to connect. That is why we have the “verified only” forums and increased privacy settings.We haven’t verified because we haven’t really seen any reason to. We live in an area with no real experienced bulls seeking anything long term. Let alone one that’s verified. Verifying doesn’t necessarily raise a success rate. Honestly even verified couples and bulls can and do the same things the unverified do. At the same time though we aren’t trying to fool anyone. I’ve found normally once I go into detail about what we are seeking the game players or non serious ones stop talking shortly after.
We’re not a white male account. We are a married couple and the white male just happens to be the one helping find the male which is very much a part of this lifestyle. I get that verified accounts have a few extra privileges. However paying for those privileges we can do ourselves through regular communication doesn’t guarantee enough of a difference to do it in our opinion.White male accounts can’t verified anyway. The success rate hugely improves for those that can verify and want to connect. That is why we have the “verified only” forums and increased privacy settings.
Those who aren’t verified here can’t even see all the real people in their area!
Your account is male, which you chose. White male accounts cannot verify.We’re not a white male account. We are a married couple and the white male just happens to be the one helping find the male which is very much a part of this lifestyle. I get that verified accounts have a few extra privileges. However paying for those privileges we can do ourselves through regular communication doesn’t guarantee enough of a difference to do it in our opinion.
I get why you have it and what it’s for. Was merely stating that for us, we don’t feel we need it.
It does say male. I’m not sure how to change that to couple. The pics she gave me to post here aren’t me. I’m simply the short term screener.Your account is male, which you chose. White male accounts cannot verify.
Verification is free.
It can only be changed to couple with her verifyingIt does say male. I’m not sure how to change that to couple. The pics she gave me to post here aren’t me. I’m simply the short term screener.
Oh I see. Thank you. That helpsIt can only be changed to couple with her verifying
It took some time before I was brave enough to get verified. I had great encouragement from my husband and others may not. Still not sure how to know what's real on here and not.I think its safe to say the website is overrun by white men pretending to be women, couples, or black men. My question is why are those of you who are legit women and couples wont simply verify your profile? Some of you will pay to become Gold members but wont verify. It would be the easiest way to distinguish yourself from the posers in order to clean up the website. Whats your reason for not verifying yourself?