Sex with someone your husband does not like

[UndercoverCuck]

I think it makes my wife more aggressive and turned on, she likes to just call me jealous and her fav bull ever was one I had a problem with

 

[geoffrya]

Sammy regularly fucks a guy in same street as us despite knowing how much I hate him I can always tell she’s just fucked him by way she walks into the bedroom after seeing him

 

[neefiboy]

My wife always flirts with one of her ex-boyfriends. It drives me nuts. He is a real player, and just got a divorce as a result of having multiple affairs. His targets are set on my wife now. I heard them talking the other day, and this jerk actually told my wife he loves her! He's a really good looking guy and persistent, so I'm sure he will be plowing my wife in no time.

My wife has a problem saying no to dominant, assertive men. Her former boss used to have her give him head underneath the desk at work. I know that sounds like a made up sex story, but it's true.

UPDATE: So, I snooped through my wife's phone, and sure enough, she has multiple texts going back and forth with this guy Adam. They tell each other that they love each other. Going back for 2 years, ouch. Whenever I go out of town, she sends him a text: "My husband is out of town for 2 weeks (or whatever the time frame is), we need to get together." She calls him handsome, too much of a catch to be single, and what makes it more embarrassing for me is that she is obviously the one pursuing him. Constantly sending him texts asking to hang out, and how handsome and desirable he is.

It seems they have had drinks and dinner 5-6 times. The tone of the texts have gone from calling each other "old friend" to "flirt" and kissy face emojis and stuff like that. The most damning evidence was a text from Adam saying: "We need to hook up again. Last night was great!" And they always make sure I am out of town, before they go on their dates.

I guess I'm not a true cuck, because I didn't find this sexy at all. I was devastated and hurt. After talking about the cuckold fantasy for years with my wife, she finally goes through with it- but behind my back. What makes it even worse is that it's obviously not just a sex thing; they seem to have real feelings for each other. This guy has already been married three times, and I really don't want my marriage to break up.

Not sure what to do next. I haven't confronted her about it. But our sex life has definitely heated up, she's in the mood much more often. So there's one side benefit from her cheating, ha ha. The irony is that if we set this up together - her affair with Adam - it would be hot as hell for me. But the fact she did it on her own, makes it more emotionally cheating and is quite frankly devastating to me. Moral of the story? Careful what you wish for, I guess.

Any advice for how to proceed is welcome. Ideal situation would either be that she breaks it off with Adam, or includes me via having me "prepare" her for her dates, and sharing photos with me after.

If it’s not working for both of you. Put an end to it. That might mean she agrees to your terms. That might mean leaving but better to be alone than disrespected.

 

[neefiboy]

Same, I think. My wife had a boss and a few hot younger male coworkers I wasn't fond of, and I suspect she fucked all of them over the years. Her female work friends knew about most of it, and the other men, the whole time. (Most of these women were cheating themselves.) Meanwhile my wife kept telling me nothing happened, she was interested in cucking me, but hadn't found the right guy yet, and it had to be out of town, etc. Meanwhile half the town and our friends here all knew the whole time! I had NO say in the men she chose to fuck, as she would prefer it. Never let me watch, either. And obviously I accepted it and while I'm not happy about all of it, it still gets me off when I think about it, and probably her too.

If you get off to then at some subconscious level you might line it. If you don’t. Put an end to it. Has to work for both partners.

 

[winterfalcon]

A few years ago my wife and I were going through a rough time in our relationship, and she started having an affair with one of her regular customers at the restaurant-bar that she worked at. She was very open about the fact she was fucking someone, and there were times when she would come home close to sun up after working the evening shift. I was pretty much "you do your thing;I'll do mine," until I got hold of her cell phone and saw she was getting a lot of calls from someone at my workplace. We had it out over that, and she agreed she would back the guy off, but refused to tell me who it was. She said he was scared to death I would find out about him and her. Well, not long after that, I got involved in a workplace disciplinary matter that resulted in me playing a key role in firing a guy who had been sexually harassing a clerical worker. It was a pretty nasty termination, and he ended up leaving the state. About a year later, I received an envelope from an anonymous sender with several nude photographs of my wife both solo, the usual do it yourself porn posing, and with a guy, giving head, taking his cock in her pussy and ass. None of the pictures showed his face, but I knew it was the asshole I fired. Along with the pictures was a taunting letter, telling me how he loved putting his big cock in her, and noted how she always whIned and whimpered when he fucked her ass. Of course he had to say something about how she said he was a better fuck than me and had a much bigger cock. I was pretty pissed off when I showed her the pictures and letter, and she took it in stride....said she was vulnerable and he laid a good line of ******* on her. She said he was good in bed, little muscle guy with a big cock and knew how to use it. She also mentioned he had reached out to her shortly before the letter came wanting to hook up again...asking her to visit him inFlorida. She told him to get lost and speculated that's what prompted the letter. She knew what city he was in but didn't have his phone number. I considered paying him a visit, but....

 

[cuckandmilf]

If you get off to then at some subconscious level you might line it. If you don’t. Put an end to it. Has to work for both partners.

It was 20 years ago, and I did like it once the shock wore off. I suspected she was interested in other men when we were dating, let alone married, and I encouraged her 100%. She just waited a while to tell me for various reasons. I was also not as good in bed as I thought, and the more I think about her cucking me, the more I like it. I wanted her to tell her friends she needed more than I could give her, that I was too small, and couldn't fuck, etc. So yeah, I love that I was denied, that she sought out other men, and that she told her friends. I have a humiliation kink.

 

[neefiboy]

A few years ago my wife and I were going through a rough time in our relationship, and she started having an affair with one of her regular customers at the restaurant-bar that she worked at. She was very open about the fact she was fucking someone, and there were times when she would come home close to sun up after working the evening shift. I was pretty much "you do your thing;I'll do mine," until I got hold of her cell phone and saw she was getting a lot of calls from someone at my workplace. We had it out over that, and she agreed she would back the guy off, but refused to tell me who it was. She said he was scared to death I would find out about him and her. Well, not long after that, I got involved in a workplace disciplinary matter that resulted in me playing a key role in firing a guy who had been sexually harassing a clerical worker. It was a pretty nasty termination, and he ended up leaving the state. About a year later, I received an envelope from an anonymous sender with several nude photographs of my wife both solo, the usual do it yourself porn posing, and with a guy, giving head, taking his cock in her pussy and ass. None of the pictures showed his face, but I knew it was the asshole I fired. Along with the pictures was a taunting letter, telling me how he loved putting his big cock in her, and noted how she always whIned and whimpered when he fucked her ass. Of course he had to say something about how she said he was a better fuck than me and had a much bigger cock. I was pretty pissed off when I showed her the pictures and letter, and she took it in stride....said she was vulnerable and he laid a good line of ******* on her. She said he was good in bed, little muscle guy with a big cock and knew how to use it. She also mentioned he had reached out to her shortly before the letter came wanting to hook up again...asking her to visit him inFlorida. She told him to get lost and speculated that's what prompted the letter. She knew what city he was in but didn't have his phone number. I considered paying him a visit, but....

As much as I respect wanting to pay him a visit it won’t be worth the problems after. Karma has a way of taking care of ass holes like him You’re the better man.