Yes, as a cuckold I am even passed the humiliation phase and just accept my submission to my lady and alpha males. Most of the women ive been with have all been out of my league and very attractive. Though they choose me, I know they deserve more than I can ultimately give them, and inviting other bulls into the picture to satisfy them sexually is a given. They are too pretty for just me and ultimately deserve large massive cocks and alpha males to mate with and fuck them like I cant. Deep down inside, pretty, attractive white women feel they deserve to fuck the best males and know they can get them. So instead of them cheating or suppressing their sexual urges, I am just opening the door for them. Its creating opportunities for them to have sex with different men and to let out any frustration by allowing them to tell me how much bigger their cocks are and to basically feel ok about wanting other men. I had a gf in college who was a pre-hotwife. Back then, she cheated on me constantly because she just wanted other men and bigger cocks. It was a precursor for me to realizing im a cuckold. my ex-wife cheated on me right before we married as well. Her just feeling i wasn't around, and she was to pretty and both needed and deserved to get fucked. She ultimately cuckold'd me. We would do coke and talk about it. She didnt feel like she deserved more than one man, but ultimately, had something inside her as a woman, that she needed more than just me. With the desire out there, she was free to realize her need for bigger cocks to fuck her. We settled on black men as a compromise and there was no looking back. She dominated me when her bulls were over (role reversal) as I am usually dominate. Her and her hulls humiliating me verbally and physically which is part of it. It was ok and felt right but she needed to get it out. She needed to tell me while she was getting fucked how much bigger their cocks were and how much they pleased her to help normalize this lifestyle. I ate their creampies and sucked a boyfriend or twos cock in front of her to show her my submission to them both. Humiliation? Sure. But it was bigger than that. For her it was a psychological appeasement that I accepted her choice of the bull as the alpha male and as my sexual replacement. At the time we may have played with the humiliation aspect but the bulls were never too dominate overall. They came over at arranged times and we got to know each other. When one was over she kissed them and was affectionate just like they were a husband or boyfriend. They could take her or her them when and where they wanted. Though to emphasize the bond, and this may be where I remember the feeling the humiliation , they would normally have sex where I could see it like on the living room floor on on the table or kitchen very non-nonchalantly and didn't want me to interfer or notice as if it happened everyday.