Not a dime. I do well in my own right as her Dom. I share her as I see fit and with whom WE choose to allow to use her. She is my wife, my best friend and I respect her and love her. If either of us say no, it’s a no.
My wife is also my sub who enjoys a good spit-roast, DP with a gentlemen with a BBC who can be discreet. Conversation is a must, we treat those with respect as we also demand respect. We have a good time, and are laid back. That’s what works for us.