When she was starting to have feelings she would ask to be alone with her lover during and eventually for me to sleep in another room so they could have the room to themselves for privacy while she explored her feelings and to see how it felt telling him her feelings about him and testing the waters a bit for what he was feeling and where he was willing to let things go.. after that phase in time eventually would pass, however many days, weeks, meetings at our house or he alone with him I would eventually be invited back regularly into the fold to witness them together again and so so I could hear her tell me things in front of him how things were changing and shift into more of a nurturing caring helping mode for them to make love and be more at ease openly having sex in our bedroom or around the house regularly and me getting less of my needs met and more of them getting their needs met as a regular couple together, from say, helping them have more straight savage emotionless sex with me also getting mine. I would still sleep alone more but when we all slept together I would more help and be more hands on and up close so he could cum inside her pussy more comfortably with my help so either way, but if we slept apart I would also reclaim her the next morning after he left and tell her how good his cum tastes in her pussy and how she looks more relaxed and happier when he is there and after he leaves. Its also just as much of a turn on for her to tell me things she tells him when im not around, awkwardly being shy to admit at first what she tells him about us and hearing while I was asleep and being woken up down the hall that in between the moans and screams they were both humiliating me to each other and how much better he pleases her than I do. Its easier to hear after than when im there watching them together and they say it but i do enjoy him telling me he is going to get her pregnant and having her tell me she wants him to cum inside her and have his baby