What was your reason to get into the lifestyle.

lilppsub said:
What was your reason to get into the lifestyle.
For us we got into it so she could be thoroughly satisfied. I had already been a cuckold for many years in a previous relationship and absolutely loved and enjoyed it. I knew I could step aside and accept my place as the less endowed beta male, Allot less LOL.
Secondly, I was never in denial about it, I knew and accepted that I was less than adequate to satisfy most women, espically now as an adult. I really knew she needed more than what I had to offer sexually. She had three previous well hung lovers in her life and absolutely was certain that she needed that in a lover. Now seven years later she has had four black lovers and vows she will never go white again.
I knew it would end up that way and I am very proud of her. We moved three times with my job, hence three of the four black men, she really only wanted one select man as a lover.
She needed a passionate lover with a big hard cock who had skills and physical ability that I have always lacked. She needed a man with stamina because she really has endurance, she needs sex to last for hours with a good lover that match her insatiable abilities. That is really what most women probably need but some have never had it and others don't really care about it. I think it makes perfect sense for the dedicated cuckold that has accepted he is not a match to understand that once she finds what she needs to be satisfied she should no longer feel obligated to react to her inadequate cuckold as if he is still her primary lover. I understood, I gave that up when I surrendered her to an ALPHA SUPERIOR BLACK MAN who could easily satisfy her and bring her to multiple orgasms. We are still seriously committed partners with each other but the dynamics change when you enter into the interracial cuckold lifestyle. As a man I can honestly say I will always miss the feeling of going inside her with my hard penis or having access to her as my woman. That's the hardest aspect of the lifestyle, when you have to be brutally honest with yourself and respect where she is coming from. My tiny little almost four inch micro penis never did a thing to please or excite her, instead it actually frustrated her but she never complained. She really wanted to make love and be fucked so she could experience several orgasms as she had in the past. When that happens she becomes a tremendously passionate energized lover herself. Her enthusiasm to thoroughly satisfy her lover is unbelievable, she does things to him that she would have never even considered doing to me and of course I can't blame her and would never hold it against her. To hear her moans, her deafining screams and wittness how she reacts to him is a gift, they are sounds and screams I would have never experienced in my lifetime if it was just the two of us together. The other great gift is the cream pie along with the privilege to sometimes put my hand around his manhood to guide him inside of her, it's unbelievable how wet she gets. It really helped me to understand the physical difference of what she must feel when he is inside her compared to me, he's not only twice my size in length but also in thickness, his circumfrence is unbeliveable. As a cuckold, it genuinely humbles me. I never ever thought I would want to have another man's cock in my hand and certainly not ever my mouth, but now I feel privileged to orally clean or fluff him. I absolutly have no interest in outside of this specific cuckold scenario. In spite of my shortcomings, haha, I have become very useful in this three-way cuckold as a submissive when they allow me to serve. I was the one who encouraged her to go for the BBC, she allows me to jerk off and get relief and I find it satisfies my needs, especially when I'm watching them in person it is such a wonderful and exciting aphrodisiac.
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My cuck's sub side, my desire to get fucked by black men and way bigger penises than his.
 
You only live once so why have regrets? We shared fantasies and decided to go for it. For us it’s not about superior/inferior, humiliation/degrading. It’s just about sexuality. During the course of our ventures everything has been on the table at one point or another and we’ve gone with it. Truly go with flow types. It’s been fun and exciting venture.
 
Whynot1731 said:
You only live once so why have regrets? We shared fantasies and decided to go for it. For us it’s not about superior/inferior, humiliation/degrading. It’s just about sexuality. During the course of our ventures everything has been on the table at one point or another and we’ve gone with it. Truly go with flow types. It’s been fun and exciting venture.
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This is what I'm trying to say to my husband, but he isn't willing/able to take it beyond the fantasy level out of fears of messing our own relationship (and potentially, family) up. I view it as something that could be done casually but maybe I am being naive. I figure we should try anything once (or maybe twice, to be fair, so that we could learn from initial mistakes...!)
 
KatyMisbehavin said:
This is what I'm trying to say to my husband, but he isn't willing/able to take it beyond the fantasy level out of fears of messing our own relationship (and potentially, family) up. I view it as something that could be done casually but maybe I am being naive. I figure we should try anything once (or maybe twice, to be fair, so that we could learn from initial mistakes...!)
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We messed around with some couples years ago and we never had jealousy issues or insecurities issues. We’ve been together for long enough to know that trust is strong. We love pleasing each other and seeing each other turned on. If there is any doubt or reservations then definitely leave it in fantasy stage. It can still be ton of fun to explore each other’s fantasies and remain in a solid relationship without risk. We also don’t get involved in long term thing, to minimize the risk of emotions getting involved.
 
Whynot1731 said:
We messed around with some couples years ago and we never had jealousy issues or insecurities issues. We’ve been together for long enough to know that trust is strong. We love pleasing each other and seeing each other turned on. If there is any doubt or reservations then definitely leave it in fantasy stage. It can still be ton of fun to explore each other’s fantasies and remain in a solid relationship without risk. We also don’t get involved in long term thing, to minimize the risk of emotions getting involved.
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A strong relationship and a happy lifestyle can bring you a happy couple life. All this if there is a equality between you, husband and bull.
 
KatyMisbehavin said:
This is what I'm trying to say to my husband, but he isn't willing/able to take it beyond the fantasy level out of fears of messing our own relationship (and potentially, family) up. I view it as something that could be done casually but maybe I am being naive. I figure we should try anything once (or maybe twice, to be fair, so that we could learn from initial mistakes...!)
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If your husband is not on board, there will be nothing that you can do about it. Either accept it or what else is your course? Will you be in your marriage the way it is? Will you leave him for a lifestyle? Or "simply" cheat on him? 🤔
 
mywayintermsofsex said:
If your husband is not on board, there will be nothing that you can do about it. Either accept it or what else is your course? Will you be in your marriage the way it is? Will you leave him for a lifestyle? Or "simply" cheat on him? 🤔
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Yes. It is true but if you want to.try a bbc or you tried one and he hooked.you what can.you do.to.continue? It is very hard to.say no. How can you explain to.your husband you want to.fuck.a bbc or.you have a bbc and need him ever week.
It is hard but how husband can understand this situation and accept it?
 
john1984 said:
Yes. It is true but if you want to.try a bbc or you tried one and he hooked.you what can.you do.to.continue? It is very hard to.say no. How can you explain to.your husband you want to.fuck.a bbc or.you have a bbc and need him ever week.
It is hard but how husband can understand this situation and accept it?
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The best way to make him understand is to show him. And you will see his reaction. - A boner never lies. ;) Most guys will be willing to at least try it under the right conditions.

A Woman needs to listen closely to why he is reluctant. Then work on establishing ground rules to follow that are acceptable by him in order to get step by step closer to your goal. She needs to reassure him that she loves him and their relationship will always come first and no rules will be violated.

Basically it is just the same like when the man would have brought it up - just the other way around. ;) The difference is, the chances of a Woman "convincing" her husband or boyfriend are much greater than the other way around because most Women are good "convincers" while most men are not. :| *sigh*
 
mywayintermsofsex said:
The best way to make him understand is to show him. And you will see his reaction. - A boner never lies. ;) Most guys will be willing to at least try it under the right conditions.

A Woman needs to listen closely to why he is reluctant. Then work on establishing ground rules to follow that are acceptable by him in order to get step by step closer to your goal. She needs to reassure him that she loves him and their relationship will always come first and no rules will be violated.

Basically it is just the same like when the man would have brought it up - just the other way around. ;) The difference is, the chances of a Woman "convincing" her husband or boyfriend are much greater than the other way around because most Women are good "convincers" while most men are not. :| *sigh*
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I love this idea, but how do I show him? Just set it up without him knowing and go for it when he gets home? If it doesn't go well then how is that different from cheating? And it would be extra hurtful bc I deliberately did it RIGHT in front of him without his consent...
 
KatyMisbehavin said:
I love this idea, but how do I show him? Just set it up without him knowing and go for it when he gets home? If it doesn't go well then how is that different from cheating? And it would be extra hurtful bc I deliberately did it RIGHT in front of him without his consent...
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You need to use him and a dildo to act out the fantasies or the porn that gets him off. Let him know how hot it makes you and how hot it could be if it were real. Reward him with something he doesn't normally get like swallowing or anal for everytime you roleplay.
 
KatyMisbehavin said:
I love this idea, but how do I show him? Just set it up without him knowing and go for it when he gets home? If it doesn't go well then how is that different from cheating? And it would be extra hurtful bc I deliberately did it RIGHT in front of him without his consent...
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If it is without his consent, it is cheating. That's per definition. You are too much focusing on the "technical" part i said. Make him feel comfortable in your relationship and make him understand that you will never leave him for a dick! Make him understand that you can distinguish between love and lust and that you don't fall in love over sex easily. Make a great sex life with him first, and maybe he will open up to "more naughty" ideas based on that. ;)
 
mwlscouple said:
We started out by playing with other couples so the wife could explore her bi side. The male half of a couple we met happened to be black and he was the first black man she had ever been with. She enjoyed him so much that she now prefers to play with black men when she plays.
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My wife has been a hotwife for 3 yesrs moe shes talkimg about tryimg a black man.any idess jow to start he black.journey
 
mywayintermsofsex said:
If it is without his consent, it is cheating. That's per definition. You are too much focusing on the "technical" part i said. Make him feel comfortable in your relationship and make him understand that you will never leave him for a dick! Make him understand that you can distinguish between love and lust and that you don't fall in love over sex easily. Make a great sex life with him first, and maybe he will open up to "more naughty" ideas based on that. ;)
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I agree my wife is a hotwife. We have been in the lifestyle for aboutb3 years she enjoys her sec life outside of our maariage as eellmas our married sex life it has made us a stronger better couple Since she fucks other men it has changed us both she fucks outside of our marriage sometimes she want me to.make love to.her or fuck.her..She loves it when.i go to.make love ti.her she says NO YOU ARE GOING TO FUCK ME OR I WILL.GO OUT TO FUCK SOMEONE ELSE
 
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