I have had several relationships with girls. The last ones were the longest and lasted 2 years. I dated a wonderful woman who was 3 years older than me. Our sexual relationship was going well. I can even say that it was this woman who had a great influence on my sexual habits and preferences.
I was very liberated thanks to her, because she always encouraged my desire for sex and told me that I was a good lover, and she would teach me how to do better. Now I understand that she made me her own. That is, I am a good lover for her, but not for other women. Perhaps I was too naive a guy. Or perhaps the fact is that this woman was older than me.
We met on the same forum and corresponded for a long time before setting up our first date. We were in no hurry to move to a new level of relationship, because we were serious right away. We kissed probably only 2 weeks after the first date. I understand that my ex-woman wanted confidence and seriousness from a man.
I realized that I love her and also waited, did not rush things. Of course, I'm not made of steel, and she really excited me. I know that women have some ideas about time that after a certain number of dates or time that you date, a woman can have sex and all that.
When our meetings began to be more intimate, she became active and did not hesitate to touch my cock and massage it. One day I was ready for sex, but she apparently wasn’t ready. We kissed and caressed each other passionately, my cock was already hard. And my ex-woman gives hand job.
She caressed my dick for a while. I was ready to move on to sex, but she enjoyed it. She knew exactly how to give a man a handjob. Moreover, it was her initiative. I just relaxed and came. I don't remember what kind of date it was. But this was probably 2 months after the first meeting.
I've never had this before. But I don’t have much experience either. Then she did this several times. I became a hand job lover. And then a month later we had sex. All this leads me to the fact that I am now dating another girl. And everything is completely different. I understand that this is a completely different female with different habits. But still I have a question.
We met Sarah on the forum. At first, we just talked in the comments on general topics. I personally wrote to her asking if she wanted to communicate in person. So we started corresponding on social networks. And then I invited her for coffee. I feel I really liked her. We even had mutual friends.
I feel like I really love this girl. Our relationship has already lasted 3 months. Maybe I’m in a hurry this time comparing this relationship with my previous woman, but we kissed, but things don’t lead to sex at all. Yes, we hug, kiss, I get feedback from her. But I already want more.
I didn’t ask her for giving a first date handjob. Didn't get into her panties. I waited patiently all this time. She feels that I am excited, and my cock is erect, but does nothing with it. Or am I already confused about the fact that women and handjobs are one thing in a sexual relationship?
We had frank conversations about sex. Sarah is 21 years old and has been in intimate relationships with three guys, according to her. She prefers classic sex. All the guys had no relationship problems, nothing that would break her heart. But the last guy left her for their mutual friend. I asked her if this was a problem for her? She replied no. But they don't communicate anymore. I was afraid to ask her about the time she had sex with her exes and gave them a handjob.
Perhaps there is something I don't know about her. After all, there are women who do not like to look at a man’s penis. I read about this on one forum. Although it’s difficult for me, as a man, to understand where such women’s fears lie.
I started thinking about it, maybe my girlfriend has something similar. Maybe she is afraid to touch and look at male organs? After all, what else could be the problem with giving a guy handjob? I’m not even talking about the issue of oral sex, I don’t even know if she wants to suck me off. It's just that when women give handjob for men it seems like a more innocent activity.
I understand that every woman is different, and everyone has their own calculations about when to give sex to a guy and all that. Surely there is a time after which you women give a handjob to your boyfriend. I've been saying this about relationships for some time now. I'm not talking about first date handjobs.
Recently we had such a story. We were relaxing at a party with our mutual group of friends. We drank, but not that much. We were alone on the balcony and talking. Sarah was so fun and sexy. I really realized that I had a feeling of love for this girl.
I was already very active towards her about sex, but from her movements I realized that she was rejecting this possibility and was not ready yet. Okay, I'll put that aside for now. So at the party. We chatted, then started kissing. I feel like she's a very hot girl, and doesn’t mind my touching her ass and thighs, as well as caressing her breasts.
She is very pliable and gentle, passionate and an excellent kisser. This time I thought we could go a little further. Since it was warm weather, I was wearing shorts. In general, we passionately caressed each other for a very long time, she allowed her top to be lifted, and I stroked and caressed her tits and nipples, which were erect and hard.
I decided to go a little further. My cock was already hard, and the desire was very strong. I thought that just a couple of minutes and I could cum. I really wanted her love and affection, so that she would give me pleasure. I was also ready to do this for her.
I know she definitely felt my hardness in my shorts, because we were so close. But she still didn’t touch my cock. Then I decided to take this step. I took my cock out of my pants and took her hand and extended it towards him. She took it with her hand, and we continued kissing. Of course, I thought about the fact that she would give a handjob at least a little. But she just held it with her hand and that’s it.
Then she removed her hand. I thought maybe she doesn’t know how to give a guy a hand job. Although she did not seem so inexperienced, and she did not say that she was not experienced. Then I said that she could move her hand back and forth. I took her hand again and put it on my cock, but she didn’t do anything again, and after a while I removed it.
We stayed on the balcony for a little longer. I hid my hard dick back in my shorts and didn’t try to get it out anymore. I realized that I wouldn’t have any handjob today. To be honest, I didn’t really understand what happened?
Perhaps she thinks it's too early for giving handjob for me? I know that she is not innocent, and she has experience in sex. So my question is, are there any female nuances for this? Is there some time after which a woman knows how to give a man a handjob? What I mean is that you are already dating, not that a guy slips his dick into a woman's handjob on the first date.
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