Hmm... Great questionAny of Mom's bulls play with you too???
Hmm... Great questionAny of Mom's bulls play with you too???
Keep.him.turned onake him.dressd you .put him.in.chasity.a few days before your datr .Dress in lingerie those fays hes locked up.stsy that.way in your home dontblet him.touch you. .Just before you leave if he trues to touch you kiss you tell.him.NO the next man that touches me wont be YOUDefinitely NOT considering cheating... I hear what you are saying about trust, for sure. At the same time, does anyone really set out to cheat? I am not excusing myself here but under the right circumstances anyone could potentially find themselves susceptible, wouldnt you agree? Maybe my fascination/curiosity itself is becoming the problem... We've been married for twenty years and I am not going to deny that just doing it without his knowledge crosses my mind on a fantasy level from time to time, but to actually go there is not something I am setting out to do.
As far as his benefit goes, that is a fair point. He loves his cameras, so I have tried to suggest that he might enjoy the filming aspect of having me as his star the way some of the other wives in here do - it just couldn't be on as public a level for us as some make it. He hasn't expressed any interest in other women, so full swinging doesn't seem like an option. Anybody have other ideas for how he could benefit?
The major trust roadblock at this point is not knowing how either of us will react after (or as) it happens. I can't honestly tell him how I will respond since I haven't ever done anything outside our marriage, but my sense is that I can keep feelings in check. One rule, based on the podcasts I've listened to, would be to not have "regulars" where you are more likely to catch romantic ideas. Its kind of a circular argument though - it seems to me that we just have to try opening up and then decide if its for us or not, otherwise we can't know what it means for us. But, is the damage already done for him just by trying it once? Am I doing damage just by asking repeatedly? Its all very difficult...
Nothing wrong with knowing and understanding that I don't think.I have a tiny dick and here in London UK, white girls preferring black guys is very common. Alot of girls see my size and laugh or refuse to fuck me. Always made me feel inferior and I accept it
Agree....Nothing wrong with knowing and understanding that I don't think.
Every guy has different tastes, regardless of race. Some black guys like conservative and some like slutty. Some in between. Depending on their personality, they will ask, or tell you well in advance what they want you to wear. Some will even take you shopping and buy you what they want you to wear. If he doesn't ask or tell, then it's up to you. You can't always believe everything you read, and you should not generalize what most or all of any race prefers. I have read countless times that black men are larger than white men, and many on here swear every back guy is a BBC. Definitely not trueSounds great for you..My wife has been a hotwife for 3 years .We have read alot of IR info she decided she wants tontry so.soon.itd going to.happen
. We have read Black.guys like the white women.to.dress cetain ways for them..Any idea what she should do dtess etc
As not only does she plan on getting well fucked by him but she wants to spend the weekend with him.ad a couple etc
Any ideas for her would be grrst
Yeah, and ALL Black guys love booty while white guys love boobs more? It's ridiculous! Everybody has his/her taste on a personal level. It would be nothing but stupid to suggest or think otherwise.Every guy has different tastes, regardless of race. Some black guys like conservative and some like slutty. Some in between. Depending on their personality, they will ask, or tell you well in advance what they want you to wear. Some will even take you shopping and buy you what they want you to wear. If he doesn't ask or tell, then it's up to you. You can't always believe everything you read, and you should not generalize what most or all of any race prefers. I have read countless times that black men are larger than white men, and many on here swear every back guy is a BBC. Definitely not true
I think this is a great way to look at it. looking back, the same happened to me. I was shy and always ended up as a friend. probably why I went bi eventually. it was easier to pick up dudes than gals and now I'm just a culkhold sissy as instructed by my wife.Looking back on it I think my high school crushes started me down this path also, by friend zoning me while they openly fucked other guys
Length isnt too important. I like thick ones.Hmm. How big a bbc need to be to make the steps?
Of course- thats Adonis in mt album.And did you conquer that?
Difficult decisions for sure I think it depends on everybody's individual relationships. It's great that you're thinking about it and being open with your husband. Wish my wife had the same mindsetDefinitely NOT considering cheating... I hear what you are saying about trust, for sure. At the same time, does anyone really set out to cheat? I am not excusing myself here but under the right circumstances anyone could potentially find themselves susceptible, wouldnt you agree? Maybe my fascination/curiosity itself is becoming the problem... We've been married for twenty years and I am not going to deny that just doing it without his knowledge crosses my mind on a fantasy level from time to time, but to actually go there is not something I am setting out to do.
As far as his benefit goes, that is a fair point. He loves his cameras, so I have tried to suggest that he might enjoy the filming aspect of having me as his star the way some of the other wives in here do - it just couldn't be on as public a level for us as some make it. He hasn't expressed any interest in other women, so full swinging doesn't seem like an option. Anybody have other ideas for how he could benefit?
The major trust roadblock at this point is not knowing how either of us will react after (or as) it happens. I can't honestly tell him how I will respond since I haven't ever done anything outside our marriage, but my sense is that I can keep feelings in check. One rule, based on the podcasts I've listened to, would be to not have "regulars" where you are more likely to catch romantic ideas. Its kind of a circular argument though - it seems to me that we just have to try opening up and then decide if its for us or not, otherwise we can't know what it means for us. But, is the damage already done for him just by trying it once? Am I doing damage just by asking repeatedly? Its all very difficult...
Enjoy the sex and the fun but don't give up on the possibility of a relationship, I'm sure you'll find one if that's what you truly wantBecause I'm the token black guy for southern Utah. Relationship prospects are pretty slim, but there's lots of women who are 'curious'