Bringing black dildo into bedroom

Haha what is silly big then? Outlaw looks HUGE

Keep in mind that 1/4 inch can be a world of difference with a dildo. The Outlaw was too big for my wife, both length and girth. We were at the point where she only wanted it very occasionally. We downgraded to the Bandit which is the perfect fit for her. She can take all the length and that 1/4 inch less girth is just the right fit to stretch her comfortably and give her that full feeling. Now every session involves the Bandit! Once or twice I didn't use it and she complained. 🙂
 
We have enjoyed one we just found on Amazon. Black, long, and realistic. But quality is important. Use the right lube for silicon toys.

Great points already mentioned, warm it up and lube it up well. Make sure she is properly prepared and it’s a mutually fun experience and not just you coming at her w this “weapon”!

Enjoy some IR porn together. Tease her and even start sex w her. Then turn it into an MFM scenario. While she plays w you and maybe gives you oral, slowly penetrate her w the BBC. Very slowly at first and she may never take all of it. While it will give her physical pleasure, the fantasy and you being w her and sharing this together will be the most beneficial.

Don’t become obsessed w this scenario and bring it out every time. Go at her pace. Be patient and supportive as she may need to clear her mind of decades of stigma. Remind her that this is only to make your relationship stronger and more fun.

My wife and I enjoy using it on our hotwife playmate. Both are BBC lovers.
thanks 4 ur reply! great advice right there.

i recently visited an adult store and saw this particular dildo:


it comes in 3 sizes:

7.5" total length (insertable 5.2")
8.5" total length (insertable 6.1")
9.5" total length (insertable 6.8")

when fully errect i'm around 6" total length. which of the above would you recommend I go? i would like my wife to go bigger than me but not too big. i am in two minds between the 8.5" and 9.5"
 
thanks 4 ur reply! great advice right there.

i recently visited an adult store and saw this particular dildo:


it comes in 3 sizes:

7.5" total length (insertable 5.2")
8.5" total length (insertable 6.1")
9.5" total length (insertable 6.8")

when fully errect i'm around 6" total length. which of the above would you recommend I go? i would like my wife to go bigger than me but not too big. i am in two minds between the 8.5" and 9.5"

Your call, but go for the middle ground of 8.5. Pretty realistic and common for our BBC friends. Enjoy some BBC porn and you will often see women can’t take the entire length when it’s too long. And it goes back to my point of not trying to bury it all in her during play. Its length and girth. Also, too big and it may be intimidating.
 
thanks 4 ur reply! great advice right there.

i recently visited an adult store and saw this particular dildo:


it comes in 3 sizes:

7.5" total length (insertable 5.2")
8.5" total length (insertable 6.1")
9.5" total length (insertable 6.8")

when fully errect i'm around 6" total length. which of the above would you recommend I go? i would like my wife to go bigger than me but not too big. i am in two minds between the 8.5" and 9.5"
 
I made the decision to go with Realistic black dildos that are molded after actual Black Porn Stars. 2 reasons why:

1. Get the material to be as realistic as possible, so that it feels more like a real Big Black Cock to my wife.
2. I have pulled up porn, of the actual pron star of whom it was molded, so that my wife can SEE the man behind the dildo that is being used on her while watching the video. This creates more of an association/connection with an actual person that has a BBC and is fucking my wife's beautiful married pussy.

We have the following Realistic Black dildos molded after BBC:
-Mr. Marcus 9 inch
-Jason Luv 10 inch
-Rod Piper 10.5 inch
-Also recently ordered a realistic Black dildo from Rea Doll (Rockwell)
What is the name or model of that amazing toy?

Just be confident and buy her one... or two.

I first bought my wife a Vixen Outlaw and then a The Legend from Fukena which is much larger and realistic imo... we have so much fun.View attachment 7360099
She looks HOT ! All the bbc dildos from Doc Johnson are in our toy collection . They are amazing and great quality .
 
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