I didnt give him much choice.
What Compelled You into Becoming a Cuck?
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Perhaps not well known but many Indian tribes were aware of the value of new genetic additions to the tribe. One expression of this knowledge was the "sacrifice" of captured warriors from other tribes but not before they had sex with maidens from the conquering tribe. Today , we see similarities in the treatment of local women by invading armies. In wW2, invading Japanese, German, and Russian soldiers took advantage of women in local towns and villages leaving behind their DNA in women who remained alive. We still see this in areas of conflict today
Mine started with the wife and I watching porn and talking during sex and from that the Wife one day asked if I would let her fuck a black guy from the gym it she wanted to do it one one with him then if she liked it I could watch her with other guys she loved it guy from gym was fucking her 4/5 times a week sending her home used real good they kept going for about a year and during that time I took her out a had the pleasure of watching her with other bbcs
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My ex-wife kept cheating on me. When I asked to stop doing it, she didn't say no, but then told me 'we should take some time out' and 'perhaps we should see other people' etc. So through fear of someone running off with her and for me going back to a life of masturbating, I decided to just let her have her fun. and learned to live with it. After a while I got turned on by it and even used to cover for her so she could see guys on the side.
The more she seemed out other guys, the more submissive I became. The more submissive I became the more she seemed out other guys. I guess in the end it was a downward spiral, she never liked beta men and after a while she realised thats what she was married to.
It was a self discovery for me which i've embraced ever since and its who i am, but she couldn't deal with being married to me the more I did embrace it. She left me in the end and for 12 months after that she went and did paid amateur porn and fucked probably 20 different guys in that year.
The more she seemed out other guys, the more submissive I became. The more submissive I became the more she seemed out other guys. I guess in the end it was a downward spiral, she never liked beta men and after a while she realised thats what she was married to.
It was a self discovery for me which i've embraced ever since and its who i am, but she couldn't deal with being married to me the more I did embrace it. She left me in the end and for 12 months after that she went and did paid amateur porn and fucked probably 20 different guys in that year.
Not an unusual story. Did she return ? Wives often/sometimes leave us to spend more time / have more sex with their lovers. Just as often , these relationships are short term and the black stud leaves / moves on. Wives then find themselves abandoned and eventually return to us. Sometimes they need us to go out an collect them and bring them back.
No, she never did come back. But she went through partners and guys like there was no tomorrow. Her life has somewhat turned to *******. She fell pregnant to a guy who left her, after selling the house I bought for her from the divorce settlement. She/they pissed up every last cent from that house that she owned outright. So now she lives with her family and raises this guys kid who has now moved OS and doesn't send her a cent. As much as she used to mock me being a submissive beta with a small dick, and aside from sex, she didn't have a care in the world with me. I begged her not to chase Alpha's as I knew they fuck her up in the end, but she wouldn't listen and I guess now is paying the price.
My ex-fiance used to cheat on me too, and would leave me for another guy almost everytime, but sure enough, as soon as they'd split, she come back to me. Obviously she'd give me plenty of pussy until she met the next guy and would leave again. Funnily enough she fell pregnant to the guy she left me for and 12 months later they split. She did ring me when she was 4 months pregnant and said they were having a few problems, knowing if she came back before the world knew she was pregnant, we'd just tell everyone it was mine. But by then i'd met my current wife and told her it won't work out if she wanted to come back. Not too sure where she is now though.
I want to start off by saying I love my wife dearly and never thought this would be a thing in our relationship, ever! During all the years of our marriage the thought of my wife with another man wasn't even a thought. My wife is a good looking woman and I wanted her to myself and at times got jealous of guys who paid attention to her, especially black men.
Everything changed for me after I discovered interracial porn at the video store. I was in awe of the sight of a white woman in tha arms of a well hung black man but did not arrive at the idea of my wife doing this until about a year into it. When the idea first creeped into my head I was ashamed and felt guilty but nevertheless I fantasized about her doing the same things with a black man and his huge cock as the women in the videos.
It took off after the internet came along and I saw actual couples engaging with black men and saw just how amazing it was. The more I watched the more I wanted my wife to be with a black man. But I wanted it to be intimate, I want to see her lose herself in his blackness and his size and to watch her view him far differently as a man than myself.
My wife is a very sexual creature and she is very real about her emotions so I know whatever happened between her and a black man would not be for my edification. If she loved the fact he was black, that he was bigger than me and a better lover you better bet that she would mean every bit of it and that my friends would be so erotic to know that she could find a black man to be her lover while maintain our relationship.
We are of the same mindset in this and she accepts my feelings as well as the idea she could find a black man more desirable in bed than me. We are both pragmatic in how we see sex and intimacy and have discussed the notion while she loves me she could still harbor be intimate with a black man who is a great lover. We are not naive to believe that she could not find sex with a hung black man more pleasurable than with me so that is why we are into this, especially me.
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While slinky1 experience is the more common situation today other couples end up like Rebecca Dream and her husband AL where she continues to live with a black lover and his friends and the white husband has found a new companion who is ready to take a break from the lifestyle. Rebecca has the best of both worlds now as her black lover gives her the emotional support she needs while taking her to parties where she enjoys meeting new black men. Her white husband acccepts the slut she has become and allows her to live the lifestyle she has chosen but has found a new women to meet his needs too. Given that all this began in the 1990s and has continued until now , it shows not only one possible inevitable outcome but that there can be a reasonable solution amoung all parties involved. Rebecca continues enjoying her BBC lover and AL finds comfort and support with a woman who has chosen to. Retire from being a whore for BBC.
Not an uncommon experience for wives who leave their husbands for black men. They often end up pregnant. ( The mission of the bull ) and the bull leaves them for his next white woman to impregnate. Perhaps what is newer to the scene today is the number of white women who want IR babies and are happy with just the stud/ bull services and the black man moving on. Still , all of this leaves the white husband who does not accept / enjoy his role as submissive cuckhold ( and there are still many who do not ) in a. Uncertain position. Slinky1 has chosen to move on to new women and this seems to be the common sense solution. There are still many more women than men and even more "white pussy" looking for sex today. Sometimes very blatant and very forward about it too. No more hours spent getting to it. Now its get dinner over quick or hope movie is not too long so she can have sex soon.
Wonderful that both of you have shared such communication that brought you to this understand. Usually this takes years and many up and down relationships and perhaps black men before a couple truely opens up to each other about their "inner" sexual needs and desires which for so many women so often includes sex with other men and perhaps much more so than many husbands realize. Often the true slutty desires of the wives come as a bit of a shock to many husbands.
I've answered this question numerous times in various forums before on this site, however here we go again!
My interest in interracial sex started when I was in my early teens (13 in fact). I was at a summer cadet camp at a military base, along with several of my friends. One evening after a baseball game we headed to the showers and, as with all military facilities, privacy being of no concern, the showers were in one large room with about 40 showers. The only privacy being a 2ft X 2ft divider about an adults waist high. There was only one person in the showers when the five of us entered, he was a black guy in the furthest right corner and turned back on to us. That was the very first time either of us ever saw a black person in the nude, there were no black people where we grew up so our only exposure, up until this time anyway, was through TV, magazines etc., consequently we were rather fascinated. The guy, to us at that time, seemed to be much older than us. In retrospect probably 19 or 20 years old. He evidently didn't hear us enter the room as he didn't look our way at all, perhaps due to the shower running. As we stood there in a brief moment of awe, he turned exposing his erect manhood as he masturbated furiously. We were truly in awe at this point as neither of us had ever witnessed anything even close to this in our entire young lives. This experience left a lasting impression on me, in fact it became a daily conversation amongst us for our remaining stay at the camp. It's amusing to look back now but I clearly recall, while his black cock seemed incredibly huge to us at the time, by the time we left camp some amongst us were swearing it was over two feet long! No doubts about it! Long story short, this experience later on left me thinking what it would be like to see a big black cock like that get into a white pussy! That fantasy later carried over to married life, a fantasy I'd later learn to get my wife to share, never thinking of it ever becoming a reality! Cuckolding never ever being in our vocabulary!
We had been married almost 8 years and were on a combined vacation/convention trip at the time. The evening of our arrival we attended a pre-convention cocktail party and, as fortune would have it, I met up with an old university friend and roommate of mine, Edwin. I should add that we lost contact with each other many years previously and shortly after graduation. Naturally I introduced him to Pam and spent the entire evening getting reacquainted and discussing old times, etc. The next night the three of us went out to dinner, did some club hopping and drinking, ending up at our hotel suite for a night cap which ended up with Edwin balls deep in Pam! While it was a mesmerizing experience for Pam and I, and Edwin no doubt, cuckolding was not a term we referred to.
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More husbands doing this today. With so many women doing it now , better that the husband take part or be left out. So many women enjoying BBC , better to get on the train. Then there is the view that what is she missing if she doesn't.
bdowned
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One of the things I like most about this site is it asks questions that I would never hear in "polite" society.
As with Drillher4me, I have answered part of this question in other forums. Before we married, my wife was actively dating other men of all races but she preferred men with darker skin and larger cocks. My rather obvious stimulation when hearing her tell me about her dates fascinated her. My submissive behavior around her, what I thought was acting like a gentleman, but perhaps a bit more, evolved into a D/s relationship even before we were married.
But, the point I want to make here is I think it is genetic for me. I have three older brothers, two now deceased, whose very Catholic wives cheated on them, all of then, with black men. They weren't cuckold lifestyle relationships as we define them here, though classically they were cuckolds.
The widow of my oldest brother commented to me recently after a few glasses of wine, that all of the brothers had small cocks. She knew that from talking to my wife and my other sisters-in-law. She only wished she could have had a relationship with her husband as my wife and I have.
As with Drillher4me, I have answered part of this question in other forums. Before we married, my wife was actively dating other men of all races but she preferred men with darker skin and larger cocks. My rather obvious stimulation when hearing her tell me about her dates fascinated her. My submissive behavior around her, what I thought was acting like a gentleman, but perhaps a bit more, evolved into a D/s relationship even before we were married.
But, the point I want to make here is I think it is genetic for me. I have three older brothers, two now deceased, whose very Catholic wives cheated on them, all of then, with black men. They weren't cuckold lifestyle relationships as we define them here, though classically they were cuckolds.
The widow of my oldest brother commented to me recently after a few glasses of wine, that all of the brothers had small cocks. She knew that from talking to my wife and my other sisters-in-law. She only wished she could have had a relationship with her husband as my wife and I have.
Yes. Sex with black men has been around awhile. But it was very discrete then. Usually a huge secret. Doing some family research, I uncovered that one of my aunts ( she was old when I was just a boy ) had a black lover. It was known but it was all hush hush. Some in the family knew why her husband was separated but most , like me, did not. Seems she got pregnant by the black man and lived away until after the baby was born. This was back in the 1940s.
bdowned
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Discreet is the word. I don't think my oldest brother had a clue. They lived in two-family house they shared with a black family. I don't know the details of why their neighbor became a single ******* of two children, but my sister-in-law helped him with the children. He worked an overnight shift. He would come home an hour or so after my brother left for work. In between, my sister-in-law would get his and her children off to school. They then had the day to themselves. Sex was inevitable. She was a very happy woman and my brother had dinner on the table when he got home.
I cheated on my bf with a BBC when i traveled once. I told him months later. Instead of getting angry, he supported me and told me to let him know in advance next time. Then he asked to watch. Now we we always do it together and he cleans me up.
I’m not a beta male at work at home I’m the alpha my wife hasn’t even considered leaving we always had great sex before during and now after the first 3 bbcs it hasn’t been often only maybe if we’re away on vacation as we are discreet sorry that your wife left you but the first time that my wife did it was more for her experience since she was a virgin when we met and the times after is for both of us as I always am involved banging her I don’t ever play with the other males but I definitely enjoy watching her pleasured
I can tell you the talks were very awkward at first and I was so nervous my voice was shaking. It was my wife who actually calmed me down in this as I started talking and saying I wanted to watch her with a black man.
The scary part was when I attempted to express I was in awe of the size of a black man's manhood and how much bigger black men were than me, I was a nervous wreck. She saw me struggling and said to me you can tell me "anything." It helped but I was still nervous.
I finally got around to saying to her to I wanted to watch her with a black man because he can pleasure you in ways I cannot and I felt she would look amazing in the arms of a black man.
Once it was out there my wife was very candid with me and "confessed" she was not averse to any of my feelings and admitted she found black men very alluring and that the size thing was something she understood and was just as interested too
