Yes. Awkward. In my case , Susan was already hooked on BBC and she brought me into the lifestyle. Our early conversations were tense and stressful but she convinced me the we would both enjoy what she was doing. Back then I had no understanding of white women as sluts for BBC. We have come a very long way since then.
What Compelled You into Becoming a Cuck?
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Similar in many ways to our “talk,” when I finally mustered the courage. And similar reaction from my wife.
It’s great to have open and honest communication with your wife, lover and best friend in the world.
My wife cheated on me with several affairs. I first blamed myself because I was a workaholic. On the third affair. I was ready to leave. We had a very heated discussion. She told me I couldn't satisfy her. She said she needed the satisfaction she got from larger cocks. She said she loved me but she had to have that need satisfied. I didn't want to lose my children so I stayed. She told me she was not going to stop seeing the coach at the high school where she taught. He was black and very well endowed. I began to fantasize about watching her with him. One night they agreed to let me watch. I could not believe she could take any thing that large. I was totally in awe of his size and stamina. After they were finished , he told me I had to clean up the mess. Once I accepted her needs and she was going to do as she pleased, I became a cuck.
Couples have to discuss their needs and desires before it gets to the point of crisis.
Communicate before you fornicate.
You guys are lucky it worked out, especially for the sake of everyone in your family.
Happy and retroactively relieved for you.
Yes. And surprising how agreeable they are to your ideas about sex with other people. Of course, susan had been enjoying BBC for some time before our conversion. So she was very agreeable and it was for me to make changes and adapt to a new lifestyle of sharing her.
I totally agree, we have discussed it so many times, that sex is not an issue in our relationship. Its one less thing we worry about, if she has a need or itch that needs to be scratched, then she goes out and does it. My ex and I argued so much about sex, unsatisfying, lack of size, stamina etc etc but my current wife have never argued about sex, because we dealt with it from the start. We even see it as an insurance policy for later in life, in case i'm dealt health issues and can't have sex at all, she knows because we've actioned her sleeping with other men its not a difficult topic later in life if she still requires good, constant sex.
I'm sure there are lots of men who later in life deal with erectile issues from diabetes, prostate cancer etc. and are unable to have sex, yet don't know how to deal with the wife having, wanting sex with someone else. It would be an emotional minefield for those who are confronted with it after 20/ 30/ 40 years of monogamy.
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For me it started after seeing my first interracial scene. Then many more followed until it is now the only thing I watch. It didn't take long to find my way into the cuckold niche. Then my wife and I decided to have an open marriage. I soon realized I got more enjoyment out of her rendezvous with her lover and that I didnt even care to seek out other women. I was perfectly content getting her pussy ready for her lover and jerking off to the videos she would send me from her phone of his cock going in her pussy. Thats when I realized I was a cuckold. I tried to deny it and felt a lot of disgust about my realization but now I have accepted it. However, my wife now has no desire to fuck anyone else but me. I am trying to get her to desire other men by keeping my cock out of her till she just cant take it anymore. It's really hard to do but so far we are about 2 months into sex free. My wife used to be close friends with a girl who was very supportive of my wife fucking other men and she and I tried to get my wife to go black but now they don't even talk much anymore.
Susan was having sex with black men months before I knew about it. There was a group of young white wives who had sex parties with young black men and susan was drawn into this group. Like me , their husbands were away on assignment so they had free time for sex with other men. The parties served to rotate both the wives and the available black men so these wives were exposed to a large group of black men. Some wives became dancers/strippers at some of the clubs for black men. Some were lured into lives as prostitutes. More than one became pregnant by a black man. Took awhile to learn all the details but clearly Susan was in the middle of something far beyong anything I ever knew about or ever had dealings with. Things were very stressed for awhile until one of the older black men opened my eyes to how things were and my choice was to leave or stay and accept things as they were. I stayed
Like myself, my wife ex wife didn't give me a choice of whether she stops cheating on me or not, she gave me the choice of deal with it or if i don't like it, leave. So I learned to deal with it, but I will offer this advice to younger cucks, once you've allowed that to happen, you will have lost any control to change it back and you will ultimately live with less and less sex as time goes on. Once them having sex with others while you go without becomes the norm, its hard to reverse or renegotiate it.
Not the first time I have seen this "rational" approach to the lifestyle. Another common response is better to proactively approach her sexual desires/ needs often for BBC than to have her cheating because she becomes hooked on BBC or some black stud seduces/ compromises her. Sex with black men is huge today amoung white women and white husbands need to get onboard with it. Better to be part of the folks who get to enjoy the game than not get tickets.
An observation. As with Susan , things got started because she wasn't getting sex as I was away. However, many young white cucks have poor sexual knowledge and poor sexual performers and not the least , many have small cocks. Along comes BBC for the young white wife and the game is over just that quickly for the young white cuck husband. Neither is he prepared to deal with the sexuality of the Alpha black male so there is more intimidation there. Best that these young white cucks study up on methods and actions of black sexuality that they may perform better even given their reduced capacity equipment.
Best of luck with your upcoming activity.
Yep, we see it as the devil you know than the devil you don't. Plus confronting it early on stops any resentments festering over time, which usually ends in an affair which most times has emotional baggage. For us, if she needs sex with our friend or any one else for that matter, we treat it like a night out at a nice restaurant, not something you do every night, but something different and to look forward to once a month or so.
Yeah, my wife thinks that most submissive men with small dicks struggle to accept the reality and reconcile emotionally with it. Its just a fact of life, you never have been or will be high on the desirability scales when it comes to sex. Most young bucks have to deal with anger, jealousy, frustration etc. until they do reconcile with it, once they do like I did, that moment of truth will finally set them free.
Even the fact that all the small condoms on the market never use the word small in their packaging, just furthers men and their deal. They need to understand it, accept it and be ok with it. Most cucks we know are high achievers, on good money, nice car, home and funnily enough smoking hot wives. So its not all bad, but from puberty through to your 30's if you're smill dicked, it is a rough and bumpy road ahead.
My only regret was, i never bought shares in the Kleenex company when i was younger, i have soaked so many in my left hand that many times, i'd own the company by now
All women are different. Some have stronger sex drives than others. Have met a few women that have sex every day. Often several times day. And with different men. So the occasional, once a month doesn't work for them. Most of these husbands welcome the other men. These women are just sexually exhausting. Like some modern day Amazons. Have heard some young, virile, muscular, athletic black males say she wore them out. But that seems to be her thing. Dominating men. Especially young black men with huge sexuall egos. Young white men need not apply
Our friend who she hooks up with, has a sex drive thats off the scale. He is a semi-pro ironman and he needs to fuck twice a day, everyday, and his wife just couldn't do it any longer and it was affecting both their mental health. Neither of them wanted him seeing ******, or risk having an affair, and they'd read about hot wives and cuckolds so they advertised him as a bull for willing housewives/couples.
We met them for dinner, the moment he saw my wife, he was dying to get her back to their place and fuck her senseless in front of me and his wife. That happened the day we met them and have become really good friends for over 18 months now. So even communication in our friends marriage helped them solve their problem from the opposite side.
Before I even met my wife I had fantasized about my previous girlfriends with other guys, so of coarse it continued with her. Also before I met her I heard her x-hubby was really hung! A few years into our relationship I was working her pussy with a big dildo, I asked her if she ever had a guy this big. She reluctantly admitted to me her X was hung, and hearing her say it really turned me on! From that point forward I wanted her to describe her sexual encounters with him to me in detail, was so hot hearing her say how awesome he was in bed! Then we started watching Interracial DVDs and LUVed watching her cum watching those BBC's in action. She admitted to me how much it turned her on and I have been slowly cultivating her desires for BBC ever since! She has encouraged my Bi desires as well to the point where I have carried them out and occasionally enjoy them with her permission! I think the overall thought of watching her in action, taking pictures or video while she does it and then me servicing them both in any way they desire makes me a cuck deep down!
Happy to hear you were able / are able to help that couple with their issue. Amazing how this lifestyle presents opportunities. Susan was introduced to a woman with a similiar issue. Her husband was a pro athlete with a large sexual libido. She wasn't able to meet he needs and she was worried about their marraige. ( Susan already knew this guy was having sex with Susans friends ). Susan gradually brought this wife into the lifestyle such that she accepted her husband having sex with other women. He was a large black man with an enormous black cock that all the white women enjoyed. Occasionally, Susan would introduce this wife to other men to help bring her along further into the lifestyle. Now the black husband has a stable of white wives he enjoys and the wife has several boyfriends that bring her satisfaction too. Susan says that he is an amazing stud.
True but some couples today start out this way. Women today enjoy BBC and continue even after they are married and with husbands consent too.
