Thinking back on our lifestyle I was totally humiliated one very unforgettable evening , it was in our early days , Kim and I had only been together for six months , at a swingers party that was full of black studs and Kim was being entertained by three , I happened to go by the bedroom she was in , looking in she screamed , take a look looser this is what a cock looks like , I have never forgotten those words , even today she apologises for her remarks ,but it still hurt .