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[hornyinmigrant]

This Thread exemplifies the term "selective perception" -> confirmation bias. Just because you think that the fetish Cuckolding & Interracial is extremely popular and totally rising does not mean that it actually is. You have to back every Hypothesis that you have with actual evidence. Here are the actual top searches of 2018 based on pornhubs statistics:

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The top search terms on pornhub 2018:

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The top search categories on pornhub 2018:

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(It would of course have been useful to have more stats from xHamster & xVideos to match & compare the results. However, they do not offer any.)

Cuckolding related terms are slowly rising according to a pornhub statistic of 2013 - 2016 but not on a huge scale.
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The conclusion is that Cuckolding combined with interracial Sex isn't as big as you think it is. You just surround your self daily inside that fetish which flawes your perception.


Site comparisons:

Pornhub -> 3.3 B total visitors
Brazzers -> 33.28 M total visitors
Blacked - > 9.73 M total visitors
Blacktowhite -> 1.52 M total visitors

You can use Alexa to further analyse the daily site traffic.

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Sources:

1. https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2018-year-in-review#searches

2. https://www.pornhub.com/insights/cuckold

3. https://www.similarweb.com/website/pornhub.com

4. https://www.similarweb.com/website/brazzers.com

5. https://www.similarweb.com/website/blacked.com

6. https://www.similarweb.com/website/blacktowhite.net

Even admitting that IR porn and cuckold themed videos are popular, it doesn't mean Interracial cuckoldry is a mainstream lifestyle. One of the most popular porn genres, among both men and women, is lesbian sex, but only a 3.8% of U.S. population actually identify themselves as LGBT. The efforts of the media to make minorities 'visible' and the popularity of lesbian/gay porn may lead people to believe that 23% of Americans are gay or lesbian, but obviously this is a biased perspective.

https://news.gallup.com/poll/183383/americans-greatly-overestimate-percent-gay-lesbian.aspx

All people have sex fantasies but it doesn't mean they make them real.

 

[Hansjensen]

Even admitting that IR porn and cuckold themed videos are popular, it doesn't mean Interracial cuckoldry is a mainstream lifestyle. One of the most popular porn genres, among both men and women, is lesbian sex, but only a 3.8% of U.S. population actually identify themselves as LGBT. The efforts of the media to make minorities 'visible' and the popularity of lesbian/gay porn may lead people to believe that 23% of Americans are gay or lesbian, but obviously this is a biased perspective.

https://news.gallup.com/poll/183383/americans-greatly-overestimate-percent-gay-lesbian.aspx

All people have sex fantasies but it doesn't mean they make them real.

You have a good point, @hornyinmigrant .

By the way, interracial is big business. If you look at bestseller lists, you'll see that interracial porn did not play an important role some years ago. Nowadays ist different. Here is a list from today from Xrent DVD:




In their book "Violence against Women in Porn" Walter DeKeseredy and Marilyn Corsianos conclude that there has been done little empirical research on interracial porn. They do however say that "porn films with white female and black male performers are in great demand by white porn consumers."

As @hornyinmigrant stresses this does not imply that the wives of white male porn consumers have interracial sex. But it definitely shows that quite a few white males are highly fascinated be interracial sex.

And with the upcoming of the internet it has become a lot easier for white couples to do research on cuckolding. A lot of white couples have met black bull on the internet and made new friendships with likeminded white couple. We are an example of this, but we are of course by no means representative.

If you would like to read more about alternative sex, I would suggest: "My Other Self: Sexual fantasies, fetishes and kinks" by Angela Lewis. She has also written very interesting things about cuckolding, including the psychologi of cuckolds and cuckolding.

 

[hornyinmigrant]

You have a good point, @hornyinmigrant .

By the way, interracial is big business. If you look at bestseller lists, you'll see that interracial porn did not play an important role some years ago. Nowadays ist different. Here is a list from today from Xrent DVD:

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In their book "Violence against Women in Porn" Walter DeKeseredy and Marilyn Corsianos conclude that there has been done little empirical research on interracial porn. They do however say that "porn films with white female and black male performers are in great demand by white porn consumers."

As @hornyinmigrant stresses this does not imply that the wives of white male porn consumers have interracial sex. But it definitely shows that quite a few white males are highly fascinated be interracial sex.

And with the upcoming of the internet it has become a lot easier for white couples to do research on cuckolding. A lot of white couples have met black bull on the internet and made new friendships with likeminded white couple. We are an example of this, but we are of course by no means representative.

If you would like to read more about alternative sex, I would suggest: "My Other Self: Sexual fantasies, fetishes and kinks" by Angela Lewis. She has also written very interesting things about cuckolding, including the psychologi of cuckolds and cuckolding.


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No offense, but in sexual forums some white males are verbalizing fantasies that contrast viciously with the life experience of many men of color.

Mainstream beauty standards in the West still idealize whiteness and there is an undercurrent perception that white women who had sex with black men are somehow contaminated, so they are reluctant to date a black guy for the social backlash. Moreover, even the most sexually successful black males often have problems to get a quality white couple for a long term relationship. The sterotypes about black masculinity can be exhausting... American hip hop culture, ghettos, black professional athletes... Yeah, it can help to get white pussy, but you must fit with them even if you come from Africa where culture is very different. And you'd better don't mention you come from a Muslim background.

Make no mistake about the fact that I’m a confident guy who knows who he is and what he wants. However, the belief that I'll be every white woman’s first choice is delusional. As many other things in life, black men have to work harder and be more talented to get the same goals than white men.

 

[Hansjensen]

No offense, but in sexual forums some white males are verbalizing fantasies that contrast viciously with the life experience of many men of color.

Mainstream beauty standards in the West still idealize whiteness and there is an undercurrent perception that white women who had sex with black men are somehow contaminated, so they are reluctant to date a black guy for the social backlash. Moreover, even the most sexually successful black males often have problems to get a quality white couple for a long term relationship. The sterotypes about black masculinity can be exhausting... American hip hop culture, ghettos, black professional athletes... Yeah, it can help to get white pussy, but you must fit with them even if you come from Africa where culture is very different. And you'd better don't mention you come from a Muslim background.

Make no mistake about the fact that I’m a confident guy who knows who he is and what he wants. However, the belief that I'll be every white woman’s first choice is delusional. As many other things in life, black men have to work harder and be more talented to get the same goals than white men.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

You state that there is an "undercurrent perception that white women who had sex with black men are somehow contaminated".

Where I live, most women find black men attractive, and many of of wife's friends would love to have intercourse with a black man. They envy my wife Christina. They don't tell this to their husbands because they are afraid of offending them. Where do you live?

 

[hornyinmigrant]

Maybe in Scandinavia this wonderful situation happens, but not in Southern Europe. Slavic women are cute but have a lot of prejudices too. At least this is my experience...

 

[Goliathc]

Maybe in Scandinavia this wonderful situation happens, but not in Southern Europe. Slavic women are cute but have a lot of prejudices too. At least this is my experience...

Been in Italy, Spain, and Croatia and you're right. Only the Czech, among the Slavs and East Europeans, are more open minded. Large cities in North America and Britain are a completely different story.

 

[RandC]

It seems like alot of white males have a desire to their wife totally and completely satisfied sexually just once in their lives.

 

[Apostle]

You dont need any research, its called masochism.

Best answer and comming for a Swede, thats impressive.

 

[Goliathc]

It seems like alot of white males have a desire to their wife totally and completely satisfied sexually just once in their lives.

mmh, not me. I just enjoy the show.

 

[RandC]

mmh, not me. I just enjoy the show.

Thats the bonus!

 

[Hyperxxxguy]

there is no doubt about the existence of the alpha and the beta
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[Lv2cleanup]

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[Hansjensen]

It seems like alot of white males have a desire to their wife totally and completely satisfied sexually just once in their lives.

I prefer my wife to be satisfied permanently.

 

[StaggenVixenn]

The alpha beta dynamic doesn t work with humans because we don't follow the same social circles throughout our entire lives. An alpha jock is only an alpha in physical activities, but if you put the same jock in an intellectual scenario, they become the beta, in that scenario. It doesn t always break down to physical, or else you're judging a fish by how well it climbs a tree.

 

[Jules4R]

I think it was Stephen Hawkins that defined intelligence as the ability to adapt.

I’d like to think most cuckolds are intelligent men willing to adapt to today’s very different world. Men have always been able to punch above their weight with regards to a sexual partner based on financial and social status, even though they may fail miserably in the bedroom. Nowadays women are financially and socially independent and sexually liberated and pretty much able to please themselves in all aspects of life without the need for a man to look after them, and their men know it and fear it. So we've adapted to allow our women to go and satisfy their biological need to 'mate' with big strong alpha males on the basis that they will always come back to us. The deal or adaptation is that us men provide them the safety of the home, the family and the consistency but most importantly the outward facing profile to the world that they are good faithful wives and mothers. Obviously the stigma of women who sleep around being labelled sluts is still very much a thing, for now.

As long as us cuckolds continue to get our sexual gratification from our women we are happy to not only allow them multiple sexual partners (on the basis that they stay with us and take care of our sexual needs) but we actively encourage it. I think we may encourage it because, of course, it makes us horny as hell! Why does it do it for us sexually? I think this is where evolution comes into it with sperm wars and the male need to impregnate the most dominant and healthy females. Jealousy and voyeurism and exhibitionism are all traits many of our ape ancestors display. We are biologically programmed to be turned on by watching a female that we want to mate with be mated by another male, especially a larger better male than us. Maybe feeling inadequate and embarrassed makes us try even harder to impress and impregnate the female? Maybe we have evolved so that shame and embarrassment makes us try harder to impress the female who then allows us to mate with them on the basis that we hang around to look after them and their offspring?


There have been a number of experiments that demonstrate that women will chose larger triangular shaped men with big penises over smaller out of shape men with small penises. So there is something there whether women admit it or not. Us c's instinctively know that despite what our women say to us, they would love us to have a bigger penis. I know J can handle and does enjoy a big penis. When we have played around with her black 9 inch King Cock dildo she can take it all the way - balls deep - with ease and it makes her pussy cream and her body buck with pleasure within minutes. I can't do that to her with my penis, so she must be thinking to herself that in an ideal world she'd be fucking a man with a huge penis instead of me, but she loves me and I look after her and provide her with safety and security, herein lies the dilemma. So as intelligent people the cuckold and his cuckoldress wife both adapt to this new type of lifestyle, and everyone's happy.

Long story short, I think it's a modern day life adaptation meets biological need (evolution driven).

 

[Hansjensen]

I think it was Stephen Hawkins that defined intelligence as the ability to adapt.

I’d like to think most cuckolds are intelligent men willing to adapt to today’s very different world. Men have always been able to punch above their weight with regards to a sexual partner based on financial and social status, even though they may fail miserably in the bedroom. Nowadays women are financially and socially independent and sexually liberated and pretty much able to please themselves in all aspects of life without the need for a man to look after them, and their men know it and fear it. So we've adapted to allow our women to go and satisfy their biological need to 'mate' with big strong alpha males on the basis that they will always come back to us. The deal or adaptation is that us men provide them the safety of the home, the family and the consistency but most importantly the outward facing profile to the world that they are good faithful wives and mothers. Obviously the stigma of women who sleep around being labelled sluts is still very much a thing, for now.

As long as us cuckolds continue to get our sexual gratification from our women we are happy to not only allow them multiple sexual partners (on the basis that they stay with us and take care of our sexual needs) but we actively encourage it. I think we may encourage it because, of course, it makes us horny as hell! Why does it do it for us sexually? I think this is where evolution comes into it with sperm wars and the male need to impregnate the most dominant and healthy females. Jealousy and voyeurism and exhibitionism are all traits many of our ape ancestors display. We are biologically programmed to be turned on by watching a female that we want to mate with be mated by another male, especially a larger better male than us. Maybe feeling inadequate and embarrassed makes us try even harder to impress and impregnate the female? Maybe we have evolved so that shame and embarrassment makes us try harder to impress the female who then allows us to mate with them on the basis that we hang around to look after them and their offspring?


There have been a number of experiments that demonstrate that women will chose larger triangular shaped men with big penises over smaller out of shape men with small penises. So there is something there whether women admit it or not. Us c's instinctively know that despite what our women say to us, they would love us to have a bigger penis. I know J can handle and does enjoy a big penis. When we have played around with her black 9 inch King Cock dildo she can take it all the way - balls deep - with ease and it makes her pussy cream and her body buck with pleasure within minutes. I can't do that to her with my penis, so she must be thinking to herself that in an ideal world she'd be fucking a man with a huge penis instead of me, but she loves me and I look after her and provide her with safety and security, herein lies the dilemma. So as intelligent people the cuckold and his cuckoldress wife both adapt to this new type of lifestyle, and everyone's happy.

Long story short, I think it's a modern day life adaptation meets biological need (evolution driven).

Thanks for your very interesting post ?

 

[Ted & Jenn]

From an individual perspective you maybe right - but I don't want anyone finding out I'm a crackpot, we can't be having that!

But from a wider social perspective evolutionary psychology/biology may be able to explain how cuckold phenomena exist.

I have a feeling though that whatever way they look at it, cucks like me don't come out smelling of roses!

We are what we are. And I could delve into some painful and humiliating episodes in my life to explain why, but in this forum I prefer just to surface the fetishes my wife and I act out.

 

[Ted & Jenn]

Maybe in Scandinavia this wonderful situation happens, but not in Southern Europe. Slavic women are cute but have a lot of prejudices too. At least this is my experience...

I'm sure being treated as a cliche sex machine for the white women isn't all positive, though it may have some fringe benefits. Important to separate fetish play from real relationships... and its real relationships that build society

 

[Lv2cleanup]

We are what we are. And I could delve into some painful and humiliating episodes in my life to explain why, but in this forum I prefer just to surface the fetishes my wife and I act out.

Words!

 

[StanleyCush1]

I think this alpha and beta terminology, which I had never even heard of for almost 60 years of my life. Is being closely blown out of proportion ever since the porn industry took advantage of the internet. Saying blacks are alphas and whites are betas is beyond truth. Who is more alpha the man who robs a home or the man that shoots him in the head as he is doing so?