Why to men allow their wives to cuckold?

For a lot of guys it s just candaulism .
They like to show off what they have .
And if other guys are attracted to her - its a compliment for the wife but also for the husband .
Same for sex - if she would fuck other guys - they got a hard cock because of her .
And at last - whatever she do with others - do not forget she choose you as husband and partner for life .
All these things make me feel proud of her and yes i feel proud also because she s my wife .
 
It's very liberating for couples who aren't jealous people. It's a turn on sexually, But obviously the possessive male wouldn't suit sharing.
We’re regular swingers and I just love sharing my wife with other couples both the male and female also separately sometimes too and the occasion single bbc but the dynamic of 4
people all fucking each other together openly and bareback too is just a different world for us
 
I must say being cuckold / watching my lovely wife with other men was all my idea, and took a lot of fantasy role playing to finally nudge my wife over the edge to do the real thing .. which she loves .. but would stop in a heart beat if ever I wanted her to ... The timing and choice of her taking a new lover is solely hers.. which adds to the excitement .... and she always insists that I will be there too once she has decided to take a new lover to bed..

Looking back on my desire to watch her is a combination of

- Love to see other men desire her.
- Love to see her sexual excited by a new lover .. and discovering his body and cock.
- Love to see him enjoying her body, giving her pleasure and receiving pleasure from her
... and his surprise at her skills, and how her pussy feels
- Claiming her back after as I enter her well used, body, seeing her relief as I enter her.

Looking back I can identify where this has come from. I went to a boarding school and was exposed to hard core pornography when I was 10 and had absolutely no idea about the mechanism of sex (beyond the basic .. to make a baby man puts penis inside woman's vagina) . The images left me excited and shocked . I remember actually trembling when I saw the first picture, and have probably never experienced the same feeling again as the first time I saw those photographs of a beautiful naked woman, with a large cock disappearing into her split pussy (not even round!!) stretched around his cock, with some of the shaft showing, and the large balls tight in the scrotum. In other pictures I saw his entire hard cock, and shocked by the size and shape of the glans, and large balls at the base of the thick shaft.

Identifying the root of my desire (fetish) was also instrumental in my wife deciding to participate. She knew this was about an earlier significant experience in my life that had wired my brain in a particular way .. and not something that was an excuse for me to see other women.. At that point she decided to take a leap of faith and trust me when I said regardless what happens I would never blame her.... and also trusted me when I said I knew her body and how much she would enjoy herself.
Same for us I openly and actively encouraged my wife to fuck another man while I watched and then to go further she did it bareback which is a whole new level completely allowing another mans sperm into a place that was initially reserved for me but nowadays she’s been filled that many times it does t matter any more
 
For a lot of guys it s just candaulism .
They like to show off what they have .
And if other guys are attracted to her - its a compliment for the wife but also for the husband .
Same for sex - if she would fuck other guys - they got a hard cock because of her .
And at last - whatever she do with others - do not forget she choose you as husband and partner for life .
All these things make me feel proud of her and yes i feel proud also because she s my wife .
Wonderful that you are proud to be married to a slut.
I am also very proud to be married to my slut wife.
 
Allow? Allow!???? A man has no control over his wife. She is his superior or his domme. She can do what ever she wants and to ask why he allows her is very sexist, going into the direction of toxic masculinity.
You stated her decision. Thats wromg it needs to be mutual.mot all.details but you communicate with each other a man_ cuckold ^ stag you should not say who she can.fuck date or what she does witj them.or her dress etc
.My wife is demanding in somd ways/ Dress me . Shave my pussy...Pay for the hotel ..We are going shopping for my fuck date AND YOUR PAYING. ALL THESE THINGS THE WOn Should be in charge as long as thd mutual.things agreed to are kept ..My hotwifd does thise things but lockimg up my cock and all.othet aspects of her time with anoter man she has total.control.as it should be
 
This is the reason why.
 

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I have always been attracted to cheating women. Almost from the time I started dating. I have been married twice and both wives cheated on me. I am still married to my second wife now for over twenty years. I can guess why I am so accepting of women in my life cheating on me, but honestly I don't really care what the reason or reasons may be. As I aged I freely accepted my place as a cuckold and have learned to enjoy it very much. It brings an intensity of sexual pleasure nothing else ever has.
I’ve been powerfully attracted to beautiful and sexually experienced cheating women—especially baby-wanting wives of other me since I was 18. I much prefer to fuck them rather than virgins and am always headily flattered when they orgasm under me more often and strongly than they say they do with their husbands, especially when they gasp that I’m “a beautiful piece of arse” while I’m fucking them. My spunky black versatile bisexual boyfriend thinks so too and has persuaded me that I am. Viz:
 

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I am all about my wife’s pleasure, she likes bigger cocks which I do not have. She’s known about my kink of watching her get fucked for years, and she would love to try a bbc. Watching her get fucked by a bigger penis, especially black, is something I find very erotic and pleasurable. And she gets what she wants at the same time.
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We started out swapping with friends in our area, We we’re about 29/30,ish at the time ( circa 1975/76 )
We found that some of the couples we became involved with,had problems,after with their relationships ( Usually the Husbands !!! ), not once was it the Wife.
We have, never had a problem with us having sex with other people, Me other Woman And Her other Men,
As our trust in each other developed, neither of us were jealous types, So we both felt free to have sex with other people, either together or singles.
If we had been out with someone else the discussion between us about either of our night out on our own ,always led to some really good sex anyway, I guess the sense of competition against another man /woman always made both of us try harder anyway.
Now I was never considered tiny ,and was blessed with a reasonable sized cock anyway,
and according to my wife,an enjoyable size.
We started going to swingers clubs, which in our day were in their infancy circa 1977/78.
We found that We enjoyed these immensely, and My Wife became a really popular Woman with both Men and other Woman.
We often found other swingers that were holding parties always gave us an invite.
It was when my Wife was around 48 years old and Me 51, that we were invited to to a swingers party in Tottenham Nr London, But with a difference.
It was a BBC only party.
We discussed it between us as we had only done white on white swinging before.
My Wife who done the arranging, Turned to me while on the phone and said.
” How would you like to see Me. Fuck some Black Guys “
She said She only had to look at my face , to know what my answer would be.
So we made an arrangement to meet 3/4 other couples in a pub, before going on to the venue.
The Woman Who was arranging It ,was there with Her husband when we got to the pub, none of the other couples were there yet.
She said to my Wife you are going to enjoy yourself tonight, She was so right.!!!.
Now I must say my Wife was one very fit lady, who for Her age was superbly fit, through swimming gym running etc, on top of that was one of life,s beautiful woman.
So eventually We went to the flat, where the party was being held.
There we’re a large crowd of Black/Coloured guys there all naked, my Wife whispered to me, “ Christ I thought you were big , but there are some huge guys here “
So My wife immediately was made to feel welcome, and asked what She liked, She immediately said “ Just fill me up with cock “.
Now my Wife had had tattoos done some years earlier, along with a pierced clitoris.
She had it done when we were younger, and was among one of the first to have it done in our scene.
So when the guys at Tottenham undressed Her and saw the tatoos and piercing ,they all wanted to fuck Her.
She was at this event a very popular lady, and was well used during the time We were there ( About 6 Hrs ) , Most of the guys and there were a lot fucked Her, and watching Her take some really huge cocks in all Her openings, I found amazing to see Her take it all, some times giving me a grin while She was fucked.
But the thing about this night that Has stuck in my mind, was as She lay on a mattress, and had many guys during the evening,
Was the amount of cum that had run out of Her from Her arse and Pusey.
There was a massive cum stain underneath Her, And this was all different viscosities some watered , some thick.
Now as another couple of guys started fucking Her one of the guys whom had just pulled out of Her bent down with me too watch and ran His finger round the wet patch that wa about 18ins or so in diameter, looked at me and said “ Fuck Man You are one lucky guy, You have got to bring Her back, She is so fucking Hot “
I felt so proud and also turned on by what She had done that evening.
On the way home I asked Her if She was OK.
She replied that She was sore but had Had a great time,and She didn’t want White on White swinging anymore.
We went back to Tottenham a few times but on our own, and there were less guys.
My wife was now confirmed black cock only, apart from me.
So as for Me I found that as I got older my interest in other Woman waned and I found that my Wife’s adventures more exciting.
I was never into touching or being sexually involved with other men.
But did like sometimes being inside Her and feeling another well endowed man enter Her as well, quite a turn on.
But that’s as far as it went.
We are now well into our seventies and well and truly retired.
But boy do I wish I could turn the clock back 👌👍
You guys really paralleled my wife and myself except we started with a black gentleman in 1977. She was not quite 26 and he was massively endowed. We kept up the relationship for 13 years ( there were other fellows along the way). I echo your sentiment, if only we could turn back the clock. It was very taboo when we started, especially the time we thought she was pregnant. It appears to be much easier to make connections now.
 
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