I canceled the appointment because they didn't pay for the room

[James227]

Again you are making assumptions and placing demands. The assumption that you should not pay for anything and demanding everyone else (the couple) does. Sorry to break it to you, but that's not how it works. As I mentioned before. You and they failed to set the ground rules as to who is paying what.

We have meet guys at a hotel before. And they payed. We were to meet guys at hotels (never went through due to illness) and we were going to pay. There is NO dynamic demanding the couples husband or boyfriend pays every time. That's being in the lifestyle with a conceited mind set .

DISCUSSING and AGREEING to who does, pays is what stops any misunderstandings and stops countless threads like this one being made where you are looking for the validation from others for your actions.

Sorry, but you both brought this situation on yourselves.

Yes, I am aware, we did not discuss "privately" the issue of who would pay, but it didn't even occur to me? Our man was a Cuck husband who accepted his lifestyle even in its very radical aspects, and I'm sorry I didn't consider the possibility that this man would want half the room money lol

 

[James227]

Complaining that a cuckold didn't know any better and that you had to cancel the meeting is childish and unreasonable in my opinion. When you clearly should have said what your expectations were.

In my 20 years of experience meeting cuckold couples I have seen a wide range of "cuckold couples" who have a wide variety of interests and desires. As a Bull that takes the lead. Guide them and mold them into what you want.

Also. Being respectful, gracious and humble are good traits to have when entering into this lifestyle. For you to think that you are the gift is just as important as the cuckold giving you his wife. Your not entitled to anything.

A lot of guys take themselves way too seriously and forget that this is about having fun and new experiences.

I'm absolutely sure of your experience, brother. You're also absolutely right about "the cheating husband doesn't know any better" lol. I am aware that couples have a desire to be guided by the black bull. I'm not complaining, I haven't lost anything, after all, the number of cheated couples is increasing day by day, isn't it? lol. Only this couple I mentioned was weird. I guess he had a special sensitivity about paying for the room, that's okay

 

[cuckcplSTL]

We’ve paid for hotel rooms before for the dude to bring a limp dick to the party…..I’m supposed to pay for that???!!!! gtfo We’ve learned the (not) hard way

 

[retiredarmy]

I'm honestly the same way. I prefer the husband to pay for the room because then I know they'll actually show up. I had a situation in the past where I paid for a room and the couple decided an hour before the meetup that they changed their mind. Wasted some money that day, and from that point I swore off paying for rooms. If the husband pays for the room and everything goes well, I generally pay them back after.

Yup that has happened to me 2 times in the passed. That's why now if they not getting the room. we need meet at my house or their's if they don't want to do any of those. Then I'm not going to meet up. Nothing worst then making plans with someone they back out at the last minute

 

[ChicagoBLK]

We’ve paid for hotel rooms before for the dude to bring a limp dick to the party…..I’m supposed to pay for that???!!!! gtfo We’ve learned the (not) hard way

With a body like that... damn. How could you not be ready?

 

[cuckcplSTL]

With a body like that... damn. How could you not be ready?

Thx for the compliment

 

[retiredarmy]

We’ve paid for hotel rooms before for the dude to bring a limp dick to the party…..I’m supposed to pay for that???!!!! gtfo We’ve learned the (not) hard way

I don't know how he could had a limp dick. Looking at that body especially that ass. I definitely would have be hard and ready all night

 

[NavyVetBbc]

Yeah I get that. Cause the way I think if they pay for the room they are going to show up. But if they on that you pay for and I will give you half when we show up *******. Naw buddy it is not going down. And they suppose to have to room anyways . So the wife can already be waiting on you to show up.

Nah facts never again I paid for a room before and waited and waited , so I ended going to a bar finding a hot wife instead of them. I make them pay for the rooms now IN ADVANCE.

 

[retiredarmy]

Nah facts never again I paid for a room before and waited and waited , so I ended going to a bar finding a hot wife instead of them. I make them pay for the rooms now IN ADVANCE.

Never had it happen until I got here in Oklahoma. Lots of flakes and fakes here

 

[Rene Mills]

Threads like this are helpful for everyone. Guys can learn who they will never meet and I can see the same thing. Compatibility is a big deal.

 

[guyanesecouple]

Threads like this are helpful for everyone. Guys can learn who they will never meet and I can see the same thing. Compatibility is a big deal.

this is soooo true !

 

[NavyVetBbc]

Threads like this are helpful for everyone. Guys can learn who they will never meet and I can see the same thing. Compatibility is a big deal.

It really is.. it doesn’t take much to reach out and communicate, instead of wasting each other time.

 

[James227]

Threads like this are helpful for everyone. Guys can learn who they will never meet and I can see the same thing. Compatibility is a big deal.

An experience that proves that the room fee issue should be discussed first

 

[umtwin]

I recently arranged to meet with a married couple from Long Island. They were going to come to Brooklyn and we were going to do our job in a hotel room. One day before the appointment, her husband offered to pay me half the price of the room? Fuck you, what nonsense are you talking about! It's not about money, luckily I have a good job and I always have money. But this is against my principles. Her husband has to pay for the room. And I said the meeting would not happen

Agree

 

[darkmeater]

My rule is simple
25 & under - I pay for everything. High end hotel, drinks, meal and sometimes I give her some shopping cash not much but like $400
25 & Over - I pay for my flight but she/cuck pays for hotel & Uber, drinks & meals

 

[James227]

We’ve paid for hotel rooms before for the dude to bring a limp dick to the party…..I’m supposed to pay for that???!!!! gtfo We’ve learned the (not) hard way

Oh sad. I wish you had made sure about that man's dick before

 

[party4candi]

If his wife is super hot, I’d make amends. Find a way to split costs until you’ve developed a relationship, don’t demand anything.

 

[AnnieS]

This is one of the dynamics of lifestyle. If the meeting is to take place somewhere like a hotel, the husband should always pay for it

Disagree. Maybe on a first encounter, but after that with some mutual respect, there should be some type of mutual cooperation.

 

[just_jenna]

Wow! This entire thread reads how y'all ain't doing nothing!
I'm a female, if a man can't take me to his house our I can't take him to my house,.then he's paying the hotel bill, tf!?! He bought dinner, I'm the dessert! Enough said! This isn't a business deal, who gets to put who's on their expense bill!! Ughhhh, c'mon y'all get it together! It's SEX/FKN at the end of the night who cares! Y'all got your rocks off! Unless y'all suck in bed, is there a refund process, LOL

 

[hungteacher]

I recently arranged to meet with a married couple from Long Island. They were going to come to Brooklyn and we were going to do our job in a hotel room. One day before the appointment, her husband offered to pay me half the price of the room? Fuck you, what nonsense are you talking about! It's not about money, luckily I have a good job and I always have money. But this is against my principles. Her husband has to pay for the room. And I said the meeting would not happen

Good for you!!

Fully support how you handled it.