It is a big step and changes things. I was nervous too when we first started and wanted hubby at meetings. About six months ago, hubby was corresponding with a new guy and he asked hubby could meet for drinks Friday night. Hubby was going to be out of town and the guy told him he would love to keep me company. I was nervous about it but also wanted to meet him after seeing his photos and videos. I said yes as long as hubby would be available by phone
That day at lunch Mike called to tell me where to meet him and to make sure I was ok. After talking he agreed to pick me up at the house as the ******* were not going to be home. After 20 plus years, it was strange going on a date with another guy. It was a nice night and finally Mike asked if I wanted to go back to his place. I was very excited and liked how it felt be in a guy's arms without a third wheel behind us. When we went in he showed me around, poured us wine and we sat down. I had texted hubby a few times as we agreed and told him then it was not going to be long before we were having sex. It was not long before we were in his bed passionately going at it. It felt so good being free and the sex was different. When we finished, I saw my phone blinking and hubby had texted. We had been fucking for over two hours. I sent text back saying "all ok give me time to enjoy this moment". He was full of questions when I did call.
I have met Mike solo several times as well as two other black bulls. Mike invited two of his friends over one night which drove hubby crazy waiting at home while 3 BBC fucked me.
I enjoy it now but also know hubby deserves to have fun too and still like him watching at times
That’s an incredibly hot situation you’ve described. Incredibly hot.
I had a similar situation with a girlfriend years ago who carried on an affair with a Black coworker of hers. She was helping my IR kink. I never saw them together, there were no pictures or vids, but it was the most intense sexual times of my life, just knowing my sweet girlfriend was with him and they were fucking.