It is funny, As I guess I was a long time cuckold ( Although I did not consider Myself a cuckold as I still had sex with My Wife and other Woman when the chance arose).
However, from us being swinging ( White on White ) couple, to the time My Wife discovered BBC ,I never felt any fear of losing Her to some one else.
When at around 50 ish, She experienced Having sex with some large black/ coloured guys, and really enjoyed the experience,to the point She found Her sort of permanent black boyfriend,whom She started after a while to see on Her own, ( I would normally drop her off and pick Her up ).
At first it was the same night, which developed over time to Her staying the night, and very occasionally for the weekend ( If He had something ” Special “ lined up for Her ).
Over a period of time She clearly came under His spell, and I definitely noticed a change in the way She talked about Him, this always instigated feelings of fear and jealousy in Me, which always became worse if We shared Her together occasionally.
Seeing the enthusiasm She put into the sex act/acts with Him in my company, definatley, made Me sometimes question our lifestyle.
However it was always outweighed by the pleasure of sharing Her pleasure, which She always agreed was immense,and She openly admitted She enjoyed being sexually challenged, in various ways.
Another thing was the age gap between them ( 17 years ) and the fact He was married with 2 young girls, whom He adored.
But I always felt strange when I picked Her up from one of Her night,s out.
And pulling up outside and the two of them, come out of the apartment they had just spent the night together,and Her put Her arms round Him and kiss Him before getting in the car to come home with Me.
But She was alway,s without fail ,prepared to share I guess, most of the details of what had gone on and without fail want to have sex with Me when She got home.
It was alway,s a risk !!!
But in our case,after pretty much a lifetime of kinky sex, She decided ( I had nothing to do with it !!! ) at the age of 62 to stop, and never go back to it.
From that day onwards, I am pretty certain She has not had sex with anyone else but Me.
Anyway we are both to old now anyway.
To anyone considering this lifestyle,My advice is “ Honesty” on both sides, It has worked for Us.