When we started in the hotwife lifestyle several years ago, my husband was with me and watched, took pictures, and video recorded me playing with another man. I sometimes played with a man alone, but not very often. However after the first few years, I started to meet other men alone as it was not always possible for my husband and I to go out together. My husband loves to watch me but he also loves for me to play alone and wait at home to hear about it when I return home. My husband also enjoyed me going out to lifestyle clubs alone to meet men and couples. For the last few years I have always played alone.