Dear white people

Yeah, financially in another country.

It's obvious you don't get it. :)
I understand why you don't get it.

Dude, I might buy your "struggle" if it were not for my career in the military and supervising plenty of black people who were highly successful in life AND if my neighbor, who was born dirt poor in the Mississippi delta (look up the Mississippi delta up) and a share cropper during his youth and lived through the Jim Crow era and the Civil Rights movement but yet somehow managed to obtain his Masters Degree and was my two ******* high school teacher prior to him retiring years ago.
We talk often and he chuckles at young black guys like you saying you got it hard, he says it's garbage and you have no idea of what having it hard means or the "struggle" for that matter. The guy is in his mid 70s and he hates this woe is me stuff more than I do and his wife is no different. They have a lovely ******* that is an RN.
Furthermore I have known other older black men through my life, like a guy named Smitty for instance who echoed the same sentiments and shared stories like "wade ins" back in his youth to gain access to public beaches where he was chased off by white people with chains. He was a righteous man and I respected him a lot and is probably long gone now but during that time I knew him he told me the biggest thing that bothered him was the fact that everything he fought for seemed to be taken for granted and squandered by the generations behind him.
Please spare me the "I do not get it." Peace.
 
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Dude, I might buy your "struggle" if it were not for my career in the military and supervising plenty of black people who were highly successful in life AND if my neighbor, who was born dirt poor in the Mississippi delta (look up the Mississippi delta up) and a share cropper during his youth and lived through the Jim Crow era and the Civil Rights movement but yet somehow managed to obtain his Masters Degree and was my two ******* high school teacher prior to him retiring years ago.
We talk often and he chuckles at young black guys like you saying you got it hard, he says it's garbage and you have no idea of what having it hard means or the "struggle" for that matter. The guy is in his mid 70s and he hates this woe is me stuff more than I do and his wife is no different. They have a lovely ******* that is an RN.
Furthermore I have known other older black men through my life, like a guy named Smitty for instance who echoed the same sentiments and shared stories like "wade ins" back in his youth to gain access to public beaches where he was chased off by white people with chains. He was a righteous man and I respected him a lot and is probably long gone now but during that time I knew him he told me the biggest thing that bothered him was the fact that everything he fought for seemed to be taken for granted and squandered by the generations behind him.
Please spare me the "I do not get it." Peace.
I'm 43 & I'm glad you've been around success stories. Black men overcome struggles often. But no matter how many Black men you supervised, instructed, managed, tutored will never allow you empathise with what Black males go thru on a day to day basis. Many have no other options in the deep south other than military or sports and it's not by the lack of systematic design/ oppression.

I applaud you're passion. I can never tell you what it's like to be white. It is what it is.

Again you took a liking to someone that has no clue what pressures Black males go thru here in America, stating what Black males need to get past of their horrid history.

I enjoyed this debate thoroughly.
 
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I'm 43 & I'm glad you've been around success stories. Black men overcome struggles often. But no matter how many Black men you supervised, instructed, managed, tutored will never allow you empathise with what Black males go thru on a day to day basis. Many have no other options in the deep south other than military or sports and it's not by the lack of systematic design/ oppression.

I applaud you're passion. I can never tell you what it's like to be white. It is what it is.

Again you took a liking to someone that has no clue what preasures Black males go thru here in America, stating what Black males need to get past of their horrid history.

I enjoyed this debate thoroughly.

Dude, the guys I told you about, born in the 30's and 40's, lived through it all. A lot of the guys I supervised came from inner cities and are older than you. We talked of everything and shared intimate details of our lives. These people were not just acquaintances but guests in my home and trusted friends. What was revealed to me was that attitude and outlook had more to do with getting on with the business of life rather than some perceived struggle by the black "community." Most around this country don't care about your race and for the most part the only thing I see at play when I hear racism cried out is to weaponize it for identity politics and to be used as social currency for victim-hood.
I'll give you last word because it is apparent we will not agree. Have you ever heard of Candace Owens? I do not see eye-to-eye with all her comments but she does make sense in a lot of matters concerning race. And, no, I do not think racism has been eradicated but anyone who thinks that will happen is delusional so either you get out there and do something with your life or live in that life of victim-hood that some seem to relish.
 
Dude, the guys I told you about, born in the 30's and 40's, lived through it all. A lot of the guys I supervised came from inner cities and are older than you. We talked of everything and shared intimate details of our lives. These people were not just acquaintances but guests in my home and trusted friends. What was revealed to me was that attitude and outlook had more to do with getting on with the business of life rather than some perceived struggle by the black "community." Most around this country don't care about your race and for the most part the only thing I see at play when I hear racism cried out is to weaponize it for identity politics and to be used as social currency for victim-hood.
I'll give you last word because it is apparent we will not agree. Have you ever heard of Candace Owens? I do not see eye-to-eye with all her comments but she does make sense in a lot of matters concerning race. And, no, I do not think racism has been eradicated but anyone who thinks that will happen is delusional so either you get out there and do something with your life or live in that life of victim-hood that some seem to relish.
I agree with you here. My main point was this. It's not easy being a man. Period. It's damn sure a little harder as a Black male. You're good with me. Thank you for enlightening me a little.
 
Meanwhile dominant BBC bulls have no issue emasculating and humiliating white cuckolds...
You got it backwards dude. White cuckolds WANT too be emasculated and humiliated. They get off on that *******. And don't tell me otherwise because I met too many of them lol lol..

You think black men wake up thinking, "today is a good day to go punk a white dude in front of his woman '" :D
All this Lifestyle ******* was started by White Dudes. Black guys BEEN fucking white chicks for decades!
(well... I HAVE) well before internet porn made this *******' trendy', smh...
We are just willing participants in the Game.
 
Well, one fact remains... Black men really only 'need' a white guy to make more white women for us. All you know it all hubbies, chicks, and BFs can kick rocks
Trust me when I tell you, we been fucking white women for a loooooong, loooooooong time :devil: (I ran out of Os lol)
And will continue to do so absent your involvement. So respect the OPs commentary and have a big steaming cup of STFU.

-BIG MIKE
 
Thats a pretty good series. Lol. But on a more serious note, I wanted to give a little message/advice for the white people on here.. When referring to black MEN, can yall please stop calling them boys. I get it, that u don't necessarily mean it in an offensive or derogatory way. But because of the history and the negative connotation it held for our ancestors, it's jus not cool to call us that. This is jus my opinion. It may be brothers on here that disagree with or think I'm making a big deal for no reason. This is an adult site and there shouldn't be any boys on here. I dont think i need to explain the time's we're living in. I've seen it used on this site so many times:
"question for u black boys"
"come get this pussy black boys"
"do black boys like...etc"

This isn't about a dominate or alpha male type of thing either. We're men.
♂️.. here here.. I’m from the U.K. been on this planet 42 years and I have never liked that word used in that term.
 
Respect. In my world, I treat people with respect and when you know that something is offensive or will hurt someone, you just don’t say it. Period. In my circle of friends, there is a group of young Black men. They are always together. At a get together a while back, I asked someone where the boys were. I wasn’t thinking. I said boys because they are 20 years younger than the rest of us. Period. One of my friends called me out and took me to the mat and reminded me that I can call them most anything but that. She was correct, and I felt so embarrassed by my comment, albeit unintentional and said without malice. It will never happen again. When you know better, you do better. And to me? It’s not the same thing as calling my bull my bbc or any other term we use in our sex lives. BBC and bull are terms of endearment
 
I'm consigning bro since I like his energy.
Well, one fact remains... Black men really only 'need' a white guy to make more white women for us. All you know it all hubbies, chicks, and BFs can kick rocks
Trust me when I tell you, we been fucking white women for a loooooong, loooooooong time :devil: (I ran out of Os lol)
And will continue to do so absent your involvement. So respect the OPs commentary and have a big steaming cup of STFU.

-BIG MIKE

I see ya bro, spit it how you live it lol, hold up, let me adjust your crown for ya, it's tilting a lil bit.
 
...... he told me the biggest thing that bothered him was the fact that everything he fought for seemed to be taken for granted and squandered by the generations behind him.
That is just an unfortunate trait of human nature. We cannot possibly understand tribulations we have not experienced. To make it worse, those who were born with benefits provided by the sacrifice of others, only know their own struggle and we end up with privileged youth like my group, whining about microaggressions.

History study is meant to temper this, but History has been corrupted.
 
You know people don’t like history all that much. Especially stuff that happened far away, take for example the barbery pirates of North Africa that over a short period of time like 100 or so years captured and sold 1000000 plus white travelers and sold them into slavery in North Africa and Arabia. Where the males were castrated Arab style as in all the male bits removed and the women into harems. This part of American history is part of the USMarine Hymn. It was so bad that the US government along with several European governments sent their navies to while the pirates out.

A good book on the subject is “The Wind and the Lion”

Another reminder is the history of the Marine Officers Sword.

Like I said people don’t like history unless it favours them.
 
Thats a pretty good series. Lol. But on a more serious note, I wanted to give a little message/advice for the white people on here.. When referring to black MEN, can yall please stop calling them boys. I get it, that u don't necessarily mean it in an offensive or derogatory way. But because of the history and the negative connotation it held for our ancestors, it's jus not cool to call us that. This is jus my opinion. It may be brothers on here that disagree with or think I'm making a big deal for no reason. This is an adult site and there shouldn't be any boys on here. I dont think i need to explain the time's we're living in. I've seen it used on this site so many times:
"question for u black boys"
"come get this pussy black boys"
"do black boys like...etc"

This isn't about a dominate or alpha male type of thing either. We're men.
I hear you and your dislike of the term “Boy”

W work for a multinational company with twenty one factories in the USA and Two in Canada. Five years ago I had the pleasure of being on a training exchange to a plant in the USA on November 11th. At 11 am I pulled the E stop on the line I was working / training on. I pushed play on my I pad and played the “Last Post” before the first eight bars had finished I had three members of management come by and loudly tell me to start the line with the phase why did you stop the line Boy, followed by unless someone is hurt never stop the line Boy. During the two minutes I kept the line down I pulled out my dog tags. They tried to move my hand from the e stop twice. Durning this time I was called Boy twice more.

For most of the the people of the west this is Remberance Day. A time to rember those that died during the 1st World War and those that died during all Wars to follow. I am over 60 and the person calling me “Boy” was not yet a gleam in his fathers eye when I started working for the company which allows people time off to serve their country.

Time lost 2 minutes or three parts. Time I was off the line being disciplined 90 minutes where I was called “Boy” 18 more times by a gentleman with a military academy ring on his finger. He had not yet asked me why I shut the line down. He even called my plant manager to inform him of the lost time I had caused.

My manager asked him when this happened. Then informed him that it was remberance day a day to honour those injured or those that paid the price for freedom. And that the unit I had belonged to was a reserve unit that in the First World War (no I was not a member then) had lost in each of the five biggest battles 1/3 of the men dead and over 1/3 wounded. That in the Second World War we had been involved in the Italian Campain with over 1/3 lost and over 1/3 wounded. How did my manager know this well he was a captain with my unit.

He explained that I had five over sea tours to places he did not thing most Americans could fine on a map.

What I took away from this is that some people to show their superiority call people “Boy”. As for the gentleman with the ring, well he served with a supply company in the mid west for most of his time. You know a nine to five military man. As I left I gave him a salute you know the rank not the man salute.

In short some people are just rude.
 
Thats a pretty good series. Lol. But on a more serious note, I wanted to give a little message/advice for the white people on here.. When referring to black MEN, can yall please stop calling them boys. I get it, that u don't necessarily mean it in an offensive or derogatory way. But because of the history and the negative connotation it held for our ancestors, it's jus not cool to call us that. This is jus my opinion. It may be brothers on here that disagree with or think I'm making a big deal for no reason. This is an adult site and there shouldn't be any boys on here. I dont think i need to explain the time's we're living in. I've seen it used on this site so many times:
"question for u black boys"
"come get this pussy black boys"
"do black boys like...etc"

This isn't about a dominate or alpha male type of thing either. We're men.
I dont think that many of the white folk on this site would describe the Black males as boys.
Certainly in our arousal we acknowledge the Black man as alpha and we the beta. So don't think of them as boys.
 
You got it backwards dude. White cuckolds WANT too be emasculated and humiliated.
That's not necessarily true. We seem to have a large number of married & single white males on this site who are bisexual and use their white female partners to be close to other males, particularly black males. That said, cuckolds, in general, do NOT necessarily choose to be cucks, or even know that they ARE cucks ... their female partners more often than not simply cheat with other males, making them cucks. Again, on THIS site its with black males. The original definition for a cuck or cuckold is simply a married man who's wife has sex with other men. Whether the married man is aware or not of this activity, the pure fact that his partner is having sex with other males when she's suppose to be in a monogamous relationship with her husband, MAKES the husband a CUCK. Its that cut & dry. Adding things such a "breeding" or "humiliation" or "cuck restrictions" is a personal choice to those involved, and to be quite honest, as insulting as the rest of this thread. Maybe we ALL need to put our RESPECT jackets on when posting, here.
 
That's not necessarily true. We seem to have a large number of married & single white males on this site who are bisexual and use their white female partners to be close to other males, particularly black males. That said, cuckolds, in general, do NOT necessarily choose to be cucks, or even know that they ARE cucks ... their female partners more often than not simply cheat with other males, making them cucks. Again, on THIS site its with black males. The original definition for a cuck or cuckold is simply a married man who's wife has sex with other men. Whether the married man is aware or not of this activity, the pure fact that his partner is having sex with other males when she's suppose to be in a monogamous relationship with her husband, MAKES the husband a CUCK. Its that cut & dry. Adding things such a "breeding" or "humiliation" or "cuck restrictions" is a personal choice to those involved, and to be quite honest, as insulting as the rest of this thread. Maybe we ALL need to put our RESPECT jackets on when posting, here.
Maybe you shouldn't take my ******* out of context.
How about reply post my ENTIRE comment as a reply to the person I was talking talking to, rather than parsing my words to fit your point?
You're neither a Bull nor a cuckold, so... .. Kinda talking out the side of your neck here Champ.

You want of them 'smart' dumb MFers 🙄
 
Now I wonder why I'm not the least bit surprised at your insult? Peace ... lets move on, please!
Hey I call it how I see it.
I read a lot of your *******.
You hover between Informative, to condescending, to humorous... to just flat out talking *******.
Get MY ******* right if you want to comment on me.
I'm just the MFer to go head on.
👍🏽✌🏽
 
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