Cry me a river get over it already ...
Dear white people
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Didn`t you feel it a useless attempt in the first place, if you expect those you address to not "be able to empathize" or "have an understanding"? Then why your post at all?
i am pretty sure i know the mentioned user no better than you, so may i wonder what makes them my "buddy"?
In order to give a comprehendable statement that would help others here to address you / talk to you in an acceptable manner... why not simply tell us how/what you`d like to be called, instead of giving a list of terms that you don`t want to...?
Lmao noo you're not.
Ummm okay? Sure, tell me what I am.
I get where Tray is coming from, and I don’t see how there’s irony or a comparison.
1.there isn’t a negative racist history around the word cuckold the way there is for the word boy to a black man.
2 a person chooses to be a cuckold and (I’m assuming) finds enjoyment in It. They brand themselves with the name and it isn’t derrogatory in that sense or have a racist undertone
1.there isn’t a negative racist history around the word cuckold the way there is for the word boy to a black man.
2 a person chooses to be a cuckold and (I’m assuming) finds enjoyment in It. They brand themselves with the name and it isn’t derrogatory in that sense or have a racist undertone
Exactly.
You kiddin` me? Okay, maybe not racist but <insert any other suitable -ism here>.
The historical connotation of the term "cuckold" is anything else but positive. just sayin`
cuckold is intended to be derogatory.
"sexual superiors" ...is that a lifestyle or slang term? *lol*
hmmm You guys have big cocks and big balls act like it. Last thing I need is my image of a big black strong man being sensitive to any names, particularly being sensitive about the word "boy". Real men would let me call them anything I want for my nice little white girl pussy. lol come on... you are getting pussy. Do you have any idea what Ive been called on here? How many men on here would let me call them "boy"? haha Has there been a loss of testosterone in men over the years?
Tray,
Before the black populous can really begin moving forward in society, they're going to have to start putting their past "behind" them instead of continually bringing it up. Black folks ( I hope that word 'folks' doesn't sound demeaning to you as well) continue looking at themselves as black people, not just people. No doubt the white populous has failed to do their fair share in helping the blacks to catch up in society, BUT ... your worst enemy is yourself. A lot of black men come HERE, not necessarily to find white females to have beautiful sex with, but to have the opportunity to take another stab at getting back at a white MAN ... by fucking his wife. Black men have just got to look beyond their history and drop those tons of bricks they carry around on their backs ... until you do, your race will push at the white man, and the white man will push back. Quit expecting RESPECT and start expecting simple politeness ... in today's society, its about all you can expect.
Before the black populous can really begin moving forward in society, they're going to have to start putting their past "behind" them instead of continually bringing it up. Black folks ( I hope that word 'folks' doesn't sound demeaning to you as well) continue looking at themselves as black people, not just people. No doubt the white populous has failed to do their fair share in helping the blacks to catch up in society, BUT ... your worst enemy is yourself. A lot of black men come HERE, not necessarily to find white females to have beautiful sex with, but to have the opportunity to take another stab at getting back at a white MAN ... by fucking his wife. Black men have just got to look beyond their history and drop those tons of bricks they carry around on their backs ... until you do, your race will push at the white man, and the white man will push back. Quit expecting RESPECT and start expecting simple politeness ... in today's society, its about all you can expect.
Easy words to utter. No one tells a Jew to forget the holocaust. We're told to forget our past often yet FOLKS will display their "loser" (Dixie) flag and only want to admit it's a "Southern Pride or Heritage" flag. Systematically, slavery has now evolved into free labor of private prison companies.
I do agree that my people do have to get over our horrid past and that many black men are attempting to get retribution thru sex with white women. (Which is absurd)
But we could pull ourselves up with our own bootstraps if we were given bootstraps in the first place.
Just my 40 acres on the matter.
eyespy07
Male
Normally, I steer clear of posts like this but I get where Tray is coming from. Let me see if I can shed some light on the subject. Now, this site reaches a wide audience, in fact a world wide audience of ladies or couples that are curious/interested in black men and their supposed or actual superior prowess in the bedroom. For some, (I guess) this is their first ever encounter (online) with a person of color (Black/African man) so they might not be aware of how they come across in their posts or maybe even PMs.
In the West, predominantly in the USA, the word "boy" when directed at a black man is very racially charged word much like the "N" word. I believe this harkens back to Jim Crow era and laws that enforced racial segregation in the US South well into the mid 1960s. So, no matter how young or old you were, if you were a black man, you'd be referred to as "boy". Examples: "Boy, come here." "You lost, boy?" "You ain't from around these parts, are you boy?" "We don't serve your kind around here, boy." etc., etc. So, imagine if you're with a woman and she let's that word slip out or even the "N" word. To me, that would ******* the sex vibe dead much like if a woman hates to be called a "slut" or "bitch" even if she was having the best and messiest sex of her life. Unless race play was part of the sex scenario, this would most certainly be a major turn off.
For me, I despise excessive political correctness and I definitely have a thick skin. However, in this case, it's worth being aware of what's being said or written. Now, some people may notice the double standard and this is something that's part of the current Black or African American urban experience. As in, if you're a brotha it's ok to talk to another brotha that way. It is what it is. Examples: "Sup ma ni**a, what's good?" Or "Hey man, your boy Kanye, he done lost his mind." So on and so forth. In conclusion, to avoid any issues, stick to the word man.
Hope this explanation helps.
In the West, predominantly in the USA, the word "boy" when directed at a black man is very racially charged word much like the "N" word. I believe this harkens back to Jim Crow era and laws that enforced racial segregation in the US South well into the mid 1960s. So, no matter how young or old you were, if you were a black man, you'd be referred to as "boy". Examples: "Boy, come here." "You lost, boy?" "You ain't from around these parts, are you boy?" "We don't serve your kind around here, boy." etc., etc. So, imagine if you're with a woman and she let's that word slip out or even the "N" word. To me, that would ******* the sex vibe dead much like if a woman hates to be called a "slut" or "bitch" even if she was having the best and messiest sex of her life. Unless race play was part of the sex scenario, this would most certainly be a major turn off.
For me, I despise excessive political correctness and I definitely have a thick skin. However, in this case, it's worth being aware of what's being said or written. Now, some people may notice the double standard and this is something that's part of the current Black or African American urban experience. As in, if you're a brotha it's ok to talk to another brotha that way. It is what it is. Examples: "Sup ma ni**a, what's good?" Or "Hey man, your boy Kanye, he done lost his mind." So on and so forth. In conclusion, to avoid any issues, stick to the word man.
Hope this explanation helps.
Holy crap. Stop.
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