When my wife plays, which is not often nowadays, she is really clear about what she wants..well hung men who can be aggressive, take charge, heavy cummers and can go multiple rounds. How her ‘dates’ interact with me is not super important to her.
I am not really into humiliation, but I do enjoy communicating with her bulls. I love when guys tell me what they plan to do, what they did..how good her pussy, ass, mouth feel…how he thinks of her as his married white pussy, how nasty/slutty she gets when she’s out without me. I get off hearing the ‘locker room talk” about her, but not being directly humiliated/controlled. “Your wife is a nasty slut when she wants my big cock” is hot as fuck to hear, but not directly humiliating me.