Are couples into having "Boyfriends?"

as time went on and as I grew older, I hated the thought of being a "number" or being viewed as just a "bbc" I didn't like that I was interchangeable with others just because we share the same tone of lower appendage. I have never treated couples like they were numbers or any woman I was with. I always gave my full undivided attention. So when I get messages like "i'm in queue"

Eh, no thanks. You're not the only one around. I'll be alright. lol.
 
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xbbc561 said:
as time went on and as I grew older, I hated the thought of being a "number" or being viewed as just a "bbc" I didn't like that I was interchangeable with others just because we share the same tone of lower appendage. I have never treated couples like they were numbers or any woman I was with. I always gave my full undivided attention. So messages like "i'm in queue"

Eh, no thanks. You're not the only one around. I'll be alright. lol.
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Right!

And let's face it (getting back to your other response), having a great body is cool but it's not my type. I'm not Barbie and my husband isn't ken but we aren't sloppy still. Even then, should we click maybe we go to the gym together and everybody gets back in shape. I've had lovers in their 60s and currently have a sub I dominate that is in his late 70s! Age, looks, it's all relative but get me mentally and HEY NOW! haha
 
sbcplseeking1 said:
Right!

And let's face it (getting back to your other response), having a great body is cool but it's not my type. I'm not Barbie and my husband isn't ken but we aren't sloppy still. Even then, should we click maybe we go to the gym together and everybody gets back in shape. I've had lovers in their 60s and currently have a sub I dominate that is in his late 70s! Age, looks, it's all relative but get me mentally and HEY NOW! haha
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sbcplseeking1 said:
Right!

And let's face it (getting back to your other response), having a great body is cool but it's not my type. I'm not Barbie and my husband isn't ken but we aren't sloppy still. Even then, should we click maybe we go to the gym together and everybody gets back in shape. I've had lovers in their 60s and currently have a sub I dominate that is in his late 70s! Age, looks, it's all relative but get me mentally and HEY NOW! haha
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haha, yes. Mental is where the fireworks pop off!

Let me know when you move to florida ;)
 
xbbc561 said:
Yeah, I get you.

To be honest, if I wanted sex. I could have it. I'm not the most chiseled guy or what have you. I am well hung though and I'm a good lover. I get offers from couples, there are BBC parties in my area I could attend and lay pipe.

But..its just not my type of thing. I've grown to like the like the friendship and connection.
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The connection awesome especially as you get more and more comfortable with each other inside and outside the bedroom and find out what she likes and apply it next time. Plus, sometimes it's just cool to chill and grab a ******* and talk ******* with the couple.
 
My wife had a three year full blown relationship with a guy. Only problem is he lived in London and us in Spain. She visited him every two weeks for long weekends. They even went on holidays together. They did speak every day they were apart by telephone (for hours).
She fell in love with him. Changed her life in almost every aspect.For me it was the best time of my life too.
Knowing my wife was his girlfriend was heaven.
 
We've discussed it, and decided we only want the sex side of it, none of the other bits. We are all for having an ongoing regular bull and allowing him certain benefits that she wouldn't do with others or access to her whenever he wants it. Even if thats a booty call at 2am, so he'd get the luxury of girlfriend sex, but without all the other bits we don't feel we can be bothered with or have the time.
 
So far all we seem to have met are numbers guys. And i will be honest and say that they have ALL known from the start that we want somethimg regular and long term. So become friends, meet all three of us or just the Bull and my girl. Sadly, weve yet to meet a guy who wants that, even though they've all said it is what they want.
To me guys...... these bullshitters are doing the real genuine Bulls a huge dis service by being this way. Weve never asked to be exclusive but i find it extremely rude that a guy might say Yes we have to do that again, or something like that. Then they disappear.
 
slinky1 said:
We've discussed it, and decided we only want the sex side of it, none of the other bits. We are all for having an ongoing regular bull and allowing him certain benefits that she wouldn't do with others or access to her whenever he wants it. Even if thats a booty call at 2am, so he'd get the luxury of girlfriend sex, but without all the other bits we don't feel we can be bothered with or have the time.
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That's completely understandable. It's not for everyone and I understand the risks and complications that may arise from having such a relationship.
 
GAVnGIN said:
So far all we seem to have met are numbers guys. And i will be honest and say that they have ALL known from the start that we want somethimg regular and long term. So become friends, meet all three of us or just the Bull and my girl. Sadly, weve yet to meet a guy who wants that, even though they've all said it is what they want.
To me guys...... these bullshitters are doing the real genuine Bulls a huge dis service by being this way. Weve never asked to be exclusive but i find it extremely rude that a guy might say Yes we have to do that again, or something like that. Then they disappear.
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I'm sorry you had to experience guys like that. There are guys like me that want something regular out there. I'm willing to go exclusive and had done so in the past. At this stage in my life, I am turning down NSA hookups with attractive couples and wives. I am not desperate for a hookup. I know what I want. I'm sure many guys would look at me crazy, but at this point, I'm not willing to settle for less than what I'm looking for. A connection.
 
GF would prefer a quasi-boyfriend and I would also prefer that for her also. She doesn't want someone that lives in another state or services couples either. She's thinking within an hours drive at the most.
 
sbcplseeking1 said:
Guys seem to want the numbers on these sites and we've stopped entertaining anybody that wants a FWB/fling. While sex is cool, we believe it to be MUCH better when there is a connection. Add in any kink, such as cuckolding, and the possibilities are endless with an established trust. Now find me a guy that can hold a conversation about anything outside of sex, is local, wants a long term relationship, isn't into some bs "dom" attitude, wants to actually get to know somebody by dating and open to developing the relationship for all involved instead of just for him with "her pleasure in mind" and I'll give you the winning numbers to the lottery. hahahaha

Ok, I apologize for being pessimistic.
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i often hear about the bull being the obstacle or reason agreements like these don't come to its full potential. Speaking from my personal accounts I have to point my finger at the husband because in the end they weren't completely insynch.
I don't mean to come off as being condescending but in sharing my perspective. The wife would become so aroused an next thing u know we'd be lost in a passionate kisses. It so happens that most of the time thats a boundary for the husband. Pure intimacy so to speak. I try to be as thorough as can be when I'm communicating with a couple about what might be expected. Recently I've had to stop a few times in the heat of the moment and leave because it's not my intention to be an impediment. When I'm in the throes being deep in her pussy... ULTIMATELY I HAVE A MISSION TO ENDURE ITS JUST A PLEASURABLE FOR HER AS IT IS FOR ME! Things become intense very fast at times so a level head an patience is paramount....alot more needs to be said to real do this conversation the time it deserves, however.
But yeah, it's definitely possible to all co-exist in an agreement having all parties in full participation.
I want great encounters at all times.
 
xbbc561 said:
Hi all,

I'm fairly new to the site and loving the community so far. I've been in the lifestyle for about ten years now. I've gotten a chance to meet some fantastic couples for some fantastic times. Although, its fun, what I am really looking for is to see a couple on a steady basis and form a bond. Its the appeal of having a secret relationship which heightens the intimacy.

Thing is, I signed up on several websites. Most couples are looking for numbers.

Is there any websites that cater to more what I'm looking for that you guys can recommend?
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My wife always has a couple of steady boyfriends for Her ‘playdates’
She will supplement them from time to time with someone that catches Her eye as things can change even with Her ‘steadies’
In my Cuckoldress case She has had to cut some boyfriends loose as they became too attached
 
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