Most men aren't into cuckolding and get caught up in the NRE, especially is the wife has "good pussy." Hell I truly think most men use cuckolding as a way to date and find a gf. Problem is when the wife is lured away who becomes the cuckold? Him..... haha
Are couples into having "Boyfriends?"
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Most men aren't into cuckolding and get caught up in the NRE, especially is the wife has "good pussy." Hell I truly think most men use cuckolding as a way to date and find a gf. Problem is when the wife is lured away who becomes the cuckold? Him..... haha
My wife has a bf she enjoys a lot, he knows she isn't leaving or anything like that. No drama, but has a great relationship with her.
Is it common, maybe. Not for us. When we decide to meet with a guy. We go together. Almost a date night between us three. To see if there's anything between the man and my wife. Sexually chemistry. Personality fits. Stuff of that nature.
As the night goes on we lay out our boundaries and how we go about cuckolding.
Some men are snakes no doubt, but so are some of the couples. Just not a relationship on solid ground.
Good luck with everything.
As the night goes on we lay out our boundaries and how we go about cuckolding.
Some men are snakes no doubt, but so are some of the couples. Just not a relationship on solid ground.
Good luck with everything.
Ha. I find the exact same thing. Only from couples. My profile says I'm looking for friendships and to form a long term thing. I'll get several messages from couples wanting to hook up "now" or the next time they are in town. Out of all the profiles browsed, One may be into what I'm looking for but several miles away.
I've been fortunate to be involved in such a relationship, but it came to an end after she passed and the husband got remarried to someone not interested in this lifestyle.
Couldn't agree more!
Very true. I have met some untrustworthy couples. Usually these couples are saying whatever it takes for me to go bareback because I insist on condoms. "We're not seeing anyone else. We want you to be our regular." etc but they will slip up and say they were seeing other men and condoms aren't a part of their play session.
I'm not here to judge how anyone has fun. If a couple wants to play bareback. So be it. It feels better anyway! lol. I just don't like the fact that someones willing to lie to me to get my guard down. I'm super careful. I don't play just to play. I like to form connections.
Cuckolding is the best part for me! I like being watched and I like seeing everyone aroused in the moment. It's fun being watched. I also like watching too, seeing a couple make love after the wife and I do or taking turns. Its much more fun than regular sex. I've tried conventional relationships since then and found vanilla too boring lol.
The couple thing just has all the dynamic of what I'm looking for. Friends, a lover in a wife and people to spend time with. Its the perfect sensual storm for me.
Very well put!
******* more men need to think like you because that is EXACTLY what we think! It's a friendship outside of the bedroom with whatever little hints dropped, based on the three of them involved. In the bedroom it's something everybody has agreed to and is fluid, can evolve and just be stress free. If it gets to the other factors everybody reads or sees in videos cool but damn everybody wants the extreme right off the bat and wth???
I've had one steady boyfriend ad one long term-ish lover. I've had two long term girlfriends (one being my longest extra-marital relationship). All very hot!
Now all we get are the same responses you seem to get.
So right!! I won't deny there are ideas in the extremes that are tantalising but not something you would probably do, especially not early on. I'm married to his gf, he dates my wife ,
Yeah... I've paid money to these swing sites and none of them have what I'm looking for. Or even close to my area.
safe to say, I'm not renewing my membership when its over.
So right!! I won't deny there are ideas in the extremes that are tantalising but not something you would probably do, especially not early on. I'm married to his gf, he dates my wife ,
OMG, right!?!?!?
In the same boat!
Don't blame u! Plenty of wonderful wives who would enjoy being with u
Just based on this, I'd be interested but like most men I meet that have high potential.....you are on the opposite coast. You give me hope there are more men like you out there.
How often would you want to have time with the right boyfriend?
With the cpl I was with, it was very easy to blend in. I knew their *******, they were grown and my age. We got along well, even though they didn't know about my relationship with their parents. We hung out, went on vacations together. lots of sex of course lol, and it was fun.
Thank you! That always seems to be the case.
