Are couples into having "Boyfriends?"

[JenNWayne]

Thank you! That always seems to be the case.

Aww, you two make me wish I could put u two together if I knew the chemistry would be volcanic!

 

[sbcplseeking1]

How often would you want to have time with the right boyfriend?

I'm poly so I don't see there be a how often as opposed to how about we have an actual relationship....

 

[JenNWayne]

I'm poly so I don't see there be a how often as opposed to how about we have an actual relationship....

Ohh, awesome. Do u think w live in bf would be good, with the right guy, of course?

 

[sbcplseeking1]

Aww, you two make me wish I could put u two together if I knew the chemistry would be volcanic!

So silly. If the chemistry was volcanic we wouldn't need you to put us together.

 

[sbcplseeking1]

Ohh, awesome. Do u think w live in bf would be good, with the right guy, of course?

I'm poly, yes. I had a live-in gf.

 

[JenNWayne]

So silly. If the chemistry was volcanic we wouldn't need you to put us together.

Course not, heehe, but I'd love the idea of being able to know I helped it happen, and happen, and happen NM...at incredible length

 

[NashvilleRasta]

Guys seem to want the numbers on these sites and we've stopped entertaining anybody that wants a FWB/fling. While sex is cool, we believe it to be MUCH better when there is a connection. Add in any kink, such as cuckolding, and the possibilities are endless with an established trust. Now find me a guy that can hold a conversation about anything outside of sex, is local, wants a long term relationship, isn't into some bs "dom" attitude, wants to actually get to know somebody by dating and open to developing the relationship for all involved instead of just for him with "her pleasure in mind" and I'll give you the winning numbers to the lottery. hahahaha

Ok, I apologize for being pessimistic.

how do you figure its the guys that want numbers? i would say there are probably 10 REAL guys for every 1 REAL female/couple on here so if anything its the females/couples that can afford to play the field while most guys will probably be lucky to find one match

 

[sbcplseeking1]

Course not, heehe, but I'd love the idea of being able to know I helped it happen, and happen, and happen NM...at incredible length

Awkward...............

 

[xbbc561]

I'm poly so I don't see there be a how often as opposed to how about we have an actual relationship....

That's where I thought maybe I should focus my attention on. Poly dating sites? but I don't know any or any that wants to play into interracial.

 

[JenNWayne]

Awkward...............

Lol, don't mean it quite so literally

 

[sbcplseeking1]

how do you figure its the guys that want numbers? i would say there are probably 10 REAL guys for every 1 REAL female/couple on here so if anything its the females/couples that can afford to play the field while most guys will probably be lucky to find one match

I did not say women didn't have it easier, as far as offers ad potential lovers. But every time I sign up on a site I get "hey want to fuck?" "Hey I'm a dom looking for a sub Asian to service me." "Hey, we should grab dinner (and/or drinks) and if we like each other grab a room." "Hey, I have a layoff in your area, want to fuck?" Not exactly promising prospects if you ask me.

 

[sbcplseeking1]

That's where I thought maybe I should focus my attention on. Poly dating sites? but I don't know any or any that wants to play into interracial.

Don't get hung up on the interracial part. It's the person people want, if they want the ethnicity they have a different fetish.

 

[JenNWayne]

I did not say women didn't have it easier, as far as offers ad potential lovers. But every time I sign up on a site I get "hey want to fuck?" "Hey I'm a dom looking for a sub Asian to service me." "Hey, we should grab dinner (and/or drinks) and if we like each other grab a room." "Hey, I have a layoff in your area, want to fuck?" Not exactly promising prospects if you ask me.

This!

 

[sbcplseeking1]

but at least you have the opportunity to weed the idiots out

if the only REAL female/couple in my area is a moron, guess what, i am ******* out of luck

I'd be happier if I only had to weed out one moron as opposed to thousands.....

 

[xbbc561]

I did not say women didn't have it easier, as far as offers ad potential lovers. But every time I sign up on a site I get "hey want to fuck?" "Hey I'm a dom looking for a sub Asian to service me." "Hey, we should grab dinner (and/or drinks) and if we like each other grab a room." "Hey, I have a layoff in your area, want to fuck?" Not exactly promising prospects if you ask me.

I did not say women didn't have it easier, as far as offers ad potential lovers. But every time I sign up on a site I get "hey want to fuck?" "Hey I'm a dom looking for a sub Asian to service me." "Hey, we should grab dinner (and/or drinks) and if we like each other grab a room." "Hey, I have a layoff in your area, want to fuck?" Not exactly promising prospects if you ask me.

Yeah...doesn't sound promising lol.

That's my issue with that whole thing. Again, I'm not judging anyone. I've been there before, but it starts to feel insignificant. It feels empty. More than likely, you're getting the spiel that they've told other parties. So you're hearing nothing personal. That's a person looking for sex. I am not looking for sex, rather looking for the person I get to have sex with! Anticipation, lust and so forth.

In my instance in the past, the same couple might be into me, really enjoy their time with me, then go find another dude, enjoy time with him and ask me back sometime later especially if they had a bad time with him. Eh, that doesn't really feel like I was that significant. I mean, if I told a wife of a couple I was into her, really wanted her, but the next day she wasn't available and I got someone else. The attraction is not going to feel as significant. Just my opinion. It would sound like I just told her sweet nothings because I wanted to get my rocks off.


I got an email from a couple near me saying they wanted to link up and were interested in meeting me. It comes to the week of the meeting and they tell me they're waiting to hear back from another guy they've previously seen. Sorry, but count me out. Who does that?

 

[sbcplseeking1]

Yeah...doesn't sound promising lol.

That's my issue with that whole thing. Again, I'm not judging anyone. I've been there before, but it starts to feel insignificant. It feels empty. More than likely, you're getting the spiel that they've told other parties. So you're hearing nothing personal. That's a person looking for sex. I am not looking for sex, rather looking for the person I get to have sex with! Anticipation, lust and so forth.

In my instance in the past, the same couple might be into me, really enjoy their time with me, then go find another dude, enjoy time with him and ask me back sometime later especially if they had a bad time with him. Eh, that doesn't really feel like I was that significant. I mean, if I told a wife of a couple I was into her, really wanted her, but the next day she wasn't available and I got someone else. The attraction is not going to feel as significant. Just my opinion. It would sound like I just told her sweet nothings because I wanted to get my rocks off.


I got an email from a couple near me saying they wanted to link up and were interested in meeting me. It comes to the week of the meeting and they tell me they're waiting to hear back from another guy they've previously seen. Sorry, but count me out. Who does that?

Agreed! I'm not judging either simply saying my expectations have changed now that I am older. Plus, my husband is a great lover and when we're not having sex, my toys work wonders. This is more of an intellectual, mental sort of exploration on our parts. It's difficult to explain in text but I think you understand.

 

[xbbc561]

Agreed! I'm not judging either simply saying my expectations have changed now that I am older. Plus, my husband is a great lover and when we're not having sex, my toys work wonders. This is more of an intellectual, mental sort of exploration on our parts. It's difficult to explain in text but I think you understand.

Yeah, I get you.

To be honest, if I wanted sex. I could have it. I'm not the most chiseled guy or what have you. I am well hung though and I'm a good lover. I get offers from couples, there are BBC parties in my area I could attend and lay pipe.

But..its just not my type of thing. I've grown to like the like the friendship and connection.

 

[TerryBLACK]

I would love to be the "boyfriend" of a couple. Any couples in the SoCal area interested, please reach out..

 

[sbcplseeking1]

Yeah, I get you.

To be honest, if I wanted sex. I could have it. I'm not the most chiseled guy or what have you. I am well hung though and I'm a good lover. I get offers from couples, there are BBC parties in my area I could attend and lay pipe.

But..its just not my type of thing. I've grown to like the like the friendship and connection.

Holy *******, I'm deleting my account on here!!! haha. My sentiments exactly. Sex is too easy and not stimulating. It really all feels the same, basically, and I can get myself off with smaller men or larger men. But not one guy has made me feel better than those I have established a connection with. Even with a huge size difference.

 

[JenNWayne]

Holy *******, I'm deleting my account on here!!! haha. My sentiments exactly. Sex is too easy and not stimulating. It really all feels the same, basically, and I can get myself off with smaller men or larger men. But not one guy has made me feel better than those I have established a connection with. Even with a huge size difference.

Sex is far more a mental thing then people admit. If he makes you WANT him deeply, not just at a glance....