This is just my opinion of course. I am not a jealous guy and I think that husbands (Regardless of your race) need to work on not being jealous. Being jealous is not a good thing an nothing good ever comes from it. If you love your wife, then you should allow her the freedom to enjoy herself sexually, even if it means she sometimes has sex with other people. I really enjoy watching her receive pleasure from other men. It is a huge arousing turn on for me. And she knows that because I am not jealous, she does not have to feel guilty or feel like she has done anything wrong. She just gets to enjoy herself. We also have a great sex life. I don't feel threatened by other men fucking her and I know that she will not leave me.