Guys,
I am a black man that has been doing this since around 1992.
I have been the thug punk. I have been the ass that doesn't give a *******.
I have fuck wives and did not care if husbands knew.
I am older, I have learned.
If this is truly a fantasy or something that you want to happen with your wife then I have only a two words.
BE HONEST!!
If you actually care about your woman then involve her in your fantasies. Communication is the key to both your relationship and if you are lucky with a bull.
I can only bullet list from my experiences.
1. Don't ask a black man ( or any other) to seduce your wife without telling her. It won't work usually. She will get pissed. Wonder why you think she can be used. It will not be good for you, so don't. Just don't.
2. Communicate your desires. Let her know what you are comfortable with. Let he know what you would like her to experience.
3. Be honest with yourself. When a bull is fucking your wife, it's done, it's over, you can't take it back. You can't hold her responsible or lay guilt trips.
4. Set expectations. make sure you BOTH understand where the comfort level is. This helps the both of you and keeps your bull from getting confused.
5. Be picky. Don't jump at the first bull (unless it feels right for the both of you). Unless you are into the one and done (which is fine), don't feel pressured into something that you are not BOTH ok with. Let me just say, that the bull will walk away without issue and you will be left with the aftermath.
6. KNOW your bull. yes this takes time. but you'll find that you will all get much more out of it. You will build trust and understanding. it will eventually become second nature.
I have had many experiences for which I am thankful I have had the pleasure of being with multiple ladies around the world.
I have settled as I have gotten older with couples that I have known for quite awhile. I have met them through friends, or friends of friends. I have
been blessed to experience this lifestyle. These are not just lovers, but also friends.
So again. hubbies, take your time, communicate...
And enjoy the ride.
J.
I am a black man that has been doing this since around 1992.
I have been the thug punk. I have been the ass that doesn't give a *******.
I have fuck wives and did not care if husbands knew.
I am older, I have learned.
If this is truly a fantasy or something that you want to happen with your wife then I have only a two words.
BE HONEST!!
If you actually care about your woman then involve her in your fantasies. Communication is the key to both your relationship and if you are lucky with a bull.
I can only bullet list from my experiences.
1. Don't ask a black man ( or any other) to seduce your wife without telling her. It won't work usually. She will get pissed. Wonder why you think she can be used. It will not be good for you, so don't. Just don't.
2. Communicate your desires. Let her know what you are comfortable with. Let he know what you would like her to experience.
3. Be honest with yourself. When a bull is fucking your wife, it's done, it's over, you can't take it back. You can't hold her responsible or lay guilt trips.
4. Set expectations. make sure you BOTH understand where the comfort level is. This helps the both of you and keeps your bull from getting confused.
5. Be picky. Don't jump at the first bull (unless it feels right for the both of you). Unless you are into the one and done (which is fine), don't feel pressured into something that you are not BOTH ok with. Let me just say, that the bull will walk away without issue and you will be left with the aftermath.
6. KNOW your bull. yes this takes time. but you'll find that you will all get much more out of it. You will build trust and understanding. it will eventually become second nature.
I have had many experiences for which I am thankful I have had the pleasure of being with multiple ladies around the world.
I have settled as I have gotten older with couples that I have known for quite awhile. I have met them through friends, or friends of friends. I have
been blessed to experience this lifestyle. These are not just lovers, but also friends.
So again. hubbies, take your time, communicate...
And enjoy the ride.
J.
