I prefer my husband be there to watch…but there are a couple special regulars who I will see on my own.
My wife only dates alone it’s how she wants it and she’s in chargeIt's different for everyone. Some husband's have never met you before and want to meet you first to see how you are then have solo dates. I've had men drop their wife's off for a massage date and sit out in the parking lot until we're done or go home and come pick her up when we're done.
Just depends on the couple.
She's free to test her limits and share the details later. No doubt she does things when alone with him that she hasn't done with you. Love it.While we prefer MFM play as well, we generally only play w long time trusted bulls. I absolutely love to watch and document. It’s my porn for when I travel. BUT, I do travel a lot and wouldn’t want to deny her fun when I’m gone for a few weeks. There is also a different interpersonal dynamic between a MFM and solo play. During a MFM, the wife must focus on 2 men even if I’m only watching. The bull also knows I’m there and doesn’t have the full freedom to be himself w her. During solo play, they can be more intimate (in the moment and not long term poly type intimacy). I know this because I do request she record her dates. If I’m traveling she will tease me w screen shots and short clips. I’m not a cuck at all, but she enjoys having that little bit of power over an otherwise alpha male (me). Seeing her happy makes me happy. When I get home I get the whole video and edit it all into a hot movie. We have only done solo play w trusted bulls we’ve had several prior MFM dates.
Enjoy an example of the type of screen shots I get.
We gone see?Yes. Only rule is pictures and videos sent to hubby during the date.
Did you prefer the alone sessions more then the ones where hubby was present? If so, please explain why?My Bull has had me alone, not frequently, but he has.
Jen likes both really depends on the mood. Alone can be erotic for us both !Did you prefer the alone sessions more then the ones where hubby was present? If so, please explain why?
They were 'different' in their own unique way. Hubby and I are in this together so I love it when he is there as I know he's getting satisfaction as well.Did you prefer the alone sessions more then the ones where hubby was present? If so, please explain why?
And for the majority here is positiveThe answer would be no for me
Yeah sorry I would either watch it join in not serviceAnd for the majority here is positive
Nellie and I have talked about this a lot. When I am there, she is always aware and there is "an element of performing as ON STAGE" that is exciting. When she is alone on dates, she misses me but feels slightly more free to just enjoy the moment or the atmosphere or just being out on a date. It is all good and I damn sure enjoy both. My imagination runs wild and my love for her increases each time. The reconnection is always so pure love as she tells me everything from her perspective. I am just bursting with pride for her.They were 'different' in their own unique way. Hubby and I are in this together so I love it when he is there as I know he's getting satisfaction as well.
But when my Bull has me alone (for various reasons) it was 'different' exciting, yes. But still missed hubby. Kind of hard to explain, but I'd really have to say 'Yes and No' to your question.
Yes love to hear that. We need to talk , both Naperville here.