Women are turned on emotionally not physically. Get hold of her emotions and her body will follow. If you're making the right motions and talking sweetly to her while you do it and holding, caressing her, etc....she'll flood and explode! Big cocks are bullshit because all that means for her is worrying if it's going to hurt or having to position herself so it wont hurt etc. I've heard women say they just laid there until it was over. All the talk about big cock superiority is: 1. ignorant people 2. people trying to promote porno 3. women who are trying to mess with your mind or make fun of your ignorance.
Why do many girls say "size doesn't matter", while the opposite is mostly true?
- Thread starter curiouscat2
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all the sensitive stuff physically for women is up front and the rest is psychological.
Not true, the cervix is very sensitive, as is the fornix.
Size matters for sex. I don't necessarily let size determine who is my boyfriend because that is a relationship and a relationship is about far more than just sex. But if all I'm looking for is sex, size matters for sex. I need a thick one to really feel amazing for me. Length isn't as important as long as he knows how to use it. My bf is lacking in the size I really enjoy but that doesn't mean I will dump him, it means we talked and found out what works for us so both of our needs are met.
So anyone who says size does not matter might just be talking about a relationship, or perhaps size just does not matter to them. For me size never mattered until I had sex with a guy with a huge one who made me cum a ton just from penetration. No other man at that point had done that, and I think that was partly because of his size.
So for me, size matters for sex, but if you are in a relationship size is much less of an issue.
So anyone who says size does not matter might just be talking about a relationship, or perhaps size just does not matter to them. For me size never mattered until I had sex with a guy with a huge one who made me cum a ton just from penetration. No other man at that point had done that, and I think that was partly because of his size.
So for me, size matters for sex, but if you are in a relationship size is much less of an issue.
Same. My bf's is short and skinny. It does nothing for me. It doesn't change that I love him and that he is my partner, it just means penetration is off the table since I get nothing out of it. But we do plenty of other things that he does very well so we play to his strengths and I have partners who can take care of the rest.
Penetration is off? Is this sexual play or you mean the guy just never gets to?
I meant all the erotically sensitive. I've never known a woman to have a cervix orgasm!
curiouscat2
Male
This might just be me but honestly I feel ashamed when I can't get my partner off with penetration. I know there are other ways to make a girl orgasm but it's so embarrassing when 10 minutes of me sticking it in does next to nothing and I still have to do the job with my mouth or finger(s) to satisfy her. At some point I realized one of my ex-gf preferred her dildos over my actual dick and it has been mentally taxing for me ever since.
I'm a woman and I've had a cervical orgasm.
We play together, just no piv. But we do blowjobs, handjobs, oral, other things that we both can enjoy. He gets off, and I get off.Penetration is off? Is this sexual play or you mean the guy just never gets to?
I have never gotten off from penetration with him, so we found other ways for us to get off.
curiouscat2
Male
I have another question, how does one cope with having a tiny dick if he's not into cuckolding though?
Like in this lifestyle I know it's fetish and pleasure to humiliate hubby/bf's little dick and compare it to something superior. But outside of SPH and cuckolding I don't really see other options where a tiny dick adds much value to bedroom actions.
It's good to see genuine feedbacks from the ladies here but it just assured me further that if my partner is the kind of women who is experienced in sex then our sex life might turn out to be sour.
Like in this lifestyle I know it's fetish and pleasure to humiliate hubby/bf's little dick and compare it to something superior. But outside of SPH and cuckolding I don't really see other options where a tiny dick adds much value to bedroom actions.
It's good to see genuine feedbacks from the ladies here but it just assured me further that if my partner is the kind of women who is experienced in sex then our sex life might turn out to be sour.
WeWannaTryBBC
Couple
Depends on what you agree to before the relationship. Also SPH/cuckolding doesnt HAVE to be the route you go. My BF loves seeing me take BBC but he's not a cuck and there's no humiliation. He just genuinely gets horny watching it.
Like in my case when I got divorced from my sexless boring marriage, I determined I wanted the BBC lifestyle and anybody I dated would have to be cool with it. Its my fave hobby. It would be like dating someone who loves to play golf or knit or play video games etc and then tell them they cant do it anymore, lol..
As far as dick size, I like size. My current BF is not HUGE but he's slightly above average and loves the BBC life. But of course I got a dick pic before even entering into that phase of talking to him in a romantic manner. In the age of cell-phones I don't see why any woman who likes bigger dicks would not get a pic first to know what she is getting into. Baffles me when I hear women complain "I met this great guy I really like him but then we had sex and he turned out to have a super small dick!!" lol. Thats one of those things u would check first. duh
I've never met a couple that liked humiliation. Not that they're many, anyways... I believe it's just one of many kinks in the lifestyle. Pinning down, gard fucking, spankings and pulling hair, yes. The guys would just enjoy watching.
It was never about the size of his cock. He's slightly below average and I've watched him do "good deeds" that pleased her
amen
I've had big white dicks and small black ones. Dont categorize.
My dear it`s not categorizeing when someone tells the truth lol
