Why do many girls say "size doesn't matter", while the opposite is mostly true?

[curiouscat2]

Just a fun thread I've been wanting to ask people on sex forums for sometimes now.

Every girl/woman I interacted, knew in real life, or even chatted on the internet, read in articles or so very usually tends to say that it doesn't matter.

But obviously, or at least in my tunnel vision, it is not true at all. For example, all the trends lately about BBC, it literally has the word "big" in it. I know with this kink and lifestyle it's more than just the size, but I mean it's part of what most if not all hotwives here are looking for too right? So what's up with the typical "size doesn't matter, it's more about the skill than the tool itself" answer? Are they too shy to admit it? Or is it a stigma to answer it frankfully? Do they wanna preserve some kind of respect and security for (small) men like me? Or am I just overthinking about this?

For a little context: I've dated a few women in my life, most never directly complained about my small dick but I can clearly see that they were never satisfied with me the same way countless women enjoyed and orgasmed with their BBC/BWC partner(s).

 

[Happy sussex]

Until I experienced sex with my BBC lover I had never had sex with a guy who had a large penis my husbands is about four inches erect , my black lover’s is just over nine inches in length and so much thicker.
Since I now have had the pleasure of a large penis fucking me , size does matter as my husband’s small white penis does no longer satisfies my sexual desires and has never given me a vaginal orgasm as my bbc’s larger penis gives me.So for me size matters for satisfaction as my BBC’s penis touches parts of my vagina and goes so much deeper than my husbands could ever do.
Also the colour contrast his black body against my white body seeing his black penis entering my open wet pink pussy is a turn on as well both for myself and my husband.

 

[curiouscat2]

Until I experienced sex with my BBC lover I had never had sex with a guy who had a large penis .
Since I now have had the pleasure of a large penis size does matter as my husband’s small white penis does no longer satisfy my sexual desires. So for me size matters for satisfaction.

Interesting. So do you think it's more about the fact that most women haven't got a chance to try mating with BBC yet, or it's that they want to save some face for the less fortunate men?

Would love to hear more insights and perspectives from the hotwives, cuck hubbies to the bull themselves.

 

[tomtomjim]

Interesting. So do you think it's more about the fact that most women haven't got a chance to try mating with BBC yet, or it's that they want to save some face for the less fortunate men?

Would love to hear more insights and perspectives from the hotwives, cuck hubbies to the bull themselves.

wife has had huge white cock and indian cock and black cock and average from all as well , cock is just part of sex

 

[Charles Hardwood]

Every time I hear this question there is always group of white guys around asking or eagerly curious about the response with a smug grin on their face

I have seen this conversation with my white friends but not my black friends; probably because when it's already a reasonable size there is no doubt or need to ask.

 

[DeeAnnaMontana]

Size didn't matter to me, when I first married my husband and for 20 years after. I love him and sex wasn't the focus of our relationship, but it was a healthy part of our relationship. I hadn't had very much other experience before I met him, so it wasn't a big deal to me. When I was seduced by my first black lover and had that first night with him - the sex was FAR beyond anything I had experienced previously! The intensity of my orgasms and the fact that he made me orgasm 5 times that night, brought me into a whole new sexual realm, so to speak! Over time I discovered that it takes a thick cock to get me off like that. Not necessarily long, but wide girth will do it for me, every time. I think most women will say size doesn't matter, because they want to make their husband/boyfriend feel better, and not focus on that. I still have good sex with my husband, occasionally, but it's not as yummy as it is with my lover who has a big cock...

 

[tomtomjim]

Every time I hear this question there is always group of white guys around asking or eagerly curious about the response with a smug grin on their face

I have seen this conversation with my white friends but not my black friends; probably because when it's already a reasonable size there is no doubt or need to ask.

size matters more to men and often men with big cocks have fragile egos and think big makes up for it. my cock pleases me and does not need to please anyone else

 

[curiouscat2]

Every time I hear this question there is always group of white guys around asking or eagerly curious about the response with a smug grin on their face

I have seen this conversation with my white friends but not my black friends; probably because when it's already a reasonable size there is no doubt or need to ask.

I don't have any smugness in me at all. Call me a porn addict or something but since I found out that big cocks can make women cum in ways I couldn't do I'm kinda blackpilled. What baffles me is how that typical answer is all on the front page.

At this point I'm just so convinced that no matter how good a guy is in bed, he's still ruined if he raelly has a baby dick.

 

[Charles Hardwood]

size matters more to men and often men with big cocks have fragile egos and think big makes up for it. my cock pleases me and does not need to please anyone else

Ok

 

[tomtomjim]

Ok

do you think women pick husbands for their dick size , some women have huge pussy whie other women are tight. i would hope women like you for you

 

[Charles Hardwood]

do you think women pick husbands for their dick size , some women have huge pussy whie other women are tight. i would hope women like you for you

My main focus of my comment was the humor, of course there are other things besides dick size that are factors in any male & female.

 

[avaadore]

My main focus of my comment was the humor, of course there are other things besides dick size that are factors in any male & female.

I wouldn't worry about explaining anything to him honestly, he's far more concerned with other men's dicks than is normal even for a fully gay man lol

 

[tomtomjim]

My main focus of my comment was the humor, of course there are other things besides dick size that are factors in any male & female.

i am teasing and to be honest many men pick big cocks for their wives

 

[Charles Hardwood]

I recently found out that back in old Roman times that a small dick guy was perceived to be intelligent, strong, and witty, while a big dick guy was seen as dumb, weak, and laughable. Which makes me wonder: is this idea that most black men in comparison to white men have big dicks more a fact than a popular opinion? In that era was the condescension towards black men so deep that they turned a good thing into the complete opposite?

 

[ArgentineCpl]

I recently found out that back in old Roman times that a small dick guy was perceived to be intelligent, strong, and witty, while a big dick guy was seen as dumb, weak, and laughable. Which makes me wonder: is this idea that most black men in comparison to white men have big dicks more a fact than a popular opinion? In that era was the condescension towards black men so deep that they turned a good thing into the complete opposite?

The reasoning you do is really interesting and yes, what you say makes a lot of sense. I think about that a lot too. In our case, it is a simple fantasy that has brought us to this website, although it is inevitable to ask ourselves, at this point, how true it is that simply black men have bigger penises than white men. If it is a myth or if it is true. All we can tell you is that perhaps it is that question that has made us come to this site, in addition to curiosity, by the way, of many other aspects. Black guys just look sexy to my wife today but we are aware that a lot of that reasoning has to do with our attraction to this topic. it's just an opinion

 

[RangerCuck]

Size didn't matter to me, when I first married my husband and for 20 years after. I love him and sex wasn't the focus of our relationship, but it was a healthy part of our relationship. I hadn't had very much other experience before I met him, so it wasn't a big deal to me. When I was seduced by my first black lover and had that first night with him - they sex was FAR beyond anything I had experienced previously. The intensity of my orgasms and the fact that he made me orgasm 5 times that night, brought me into a whole new sexual realm, so to speak! Over time I discovered that it takes a thick cock to get me off like that. Not necessarily long, but wide girth will do it for me, every time. I think most women will say size doesn't matter, because they want to make their husband/boyfriend feel better, and not focus on that. I still have good sex with my husband, occasionally, but it's not as yummy...

I'm inclined to believe this si the far more common scenario. Most women who claim size doesn't matter either just have not had an experienced, well-endowed lover, or are serving platitudes to placate their current BF/husband. There are no doubt some for whom larger cocks are painful or don't do anything for them, but the majority of women just haven't been in a situation where they've been served by a large cock.

 

[bLk4thaWomb502]

it really DONT matter, if you know how to work a dick, then you good. Ive been with women who have had husbands with 10 inch dick, but they are so use to the size and stroke they get bored with it, and call me late nights... just happens. I think some women like to just see something bigg in them... but women that actually want to feel, know its all about the motion, and Im not BIG, just avg.

 

[WeWannaTryBBC]

Size didn't matter to me, when I first married my husband and for 20 years after. I love him and sex wasn't the focus of our relationship, but it was a healthy part of our relationship. I hadn't had very much other experience before I met him, so it wasn't a big deal to me. When I was seduced by my first black lover and had that first night with him - the sex was FAR beyond anything I had experienced previously. The intensity of my orgasms and the fact that he made me orgasm 5 times that night, brought me into a whole new sexual realm, so to speak! Over time I discovered that it takes a thick cock to get me off like that. Not necessarily long, but wide girth will do it for me, every time. I think most women will say size doesn't matter, because they want to make their husband/boyfriend feel better, and not focus on that. I still have good sex with my husband, occasionally, but it's not as yummy as it is with my lover who has a big cock...

You pretty much nailed it. Exactly. My girlfriends and I talk about this. As women we don't wanna make men feel bad about their lack of size. And also there's a societal stigma if a woman comes out and admits she likes big dicks. "Oh she must be a hoe or loose etc"

Another factor is...lets face it. Big cocks are pretty rare in general. Like 80% of the male population is either small or average. So if we come out and say we like em big, that disqualifies the vast majority of potential partners. In my position, I'm in my 50's so at this point I dont really care, I know what I like and not looking to settle down or have ******* etc lol so its different.

 

[Blackmist369]

Interesting. So do you think it's more about the fact that most women haven't got a chance to try mating with BBC yet, or it's that they want to save some face for the less fortunate men?

Would love to hear more insights and perspectives from the hotwives, cuck hubbies to the bull themselves.

I think its both.

 

[Dman1992]

it is very obvi y sluts say that. They dont want to admit that they judge there happiness by the size of a cock.
White pussy needs to be filled and sluts need to know their place.
black cock fills that need and lets sluts know they are slaves to the black man