Turning a fantasy into a reality

Dicknjane123 said:
My wife finally had her first bbc this week after wanting it for a couple of years, watching ir porn and using bbc dildos and I gotta say it was great for everyone!
I was nervous AF before and when we got there but once they started I soon joined in too!
Long story short we feel closer than ever since and our sex drive has rocketed! We're having meet number 2 tomorrow afternoon!
I'm 33 she's 30 we've got ******* and Ben together 12yrs this month.
My advice is if you're close and trust eachother GO FOR IT!
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Being as close as you pair are I think is the key. It appeared to be a joint journey together and I just knew you would pull it off and be stronger together. Well done
 
Silvaa said:
Well on the plus side it is something she seems into as well so at least both of you are finding enjoyment in the fantasy. In my opinion you two need to have some great sex and then sit down and honestly discuss if you would enjoy a threesome together. Keep it simple at first with just adding another man to the mix. Yes he can be black but do not necessarily make it about cuckolding or anything too kinky at the moment other than just having a threesome. If you both want to proceed find a willing man and proceed. This is going to show you the most important thing about all of this. You are going to see an actual other man having sex with your wife. She will be letting a man have sex with her as you watch. How that effects both of you will tell you how to proceed. You might be all in and wanting more. Maybe you want something a little softer than all out sex. Maybe you will find out it something better as a fantasy. Do it together and make the decisions together.
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i love the way U think, ur great
 
My wife fantasy came through couple months ago she always wanted to be gangbang by five BBC‘s she said a room full of black man turns her on I she is a woman will always love attention No her sex sessions are two BBC’s it’s some thing that she can’t do without no majority of the time when she’s having sex with a black male she prefer twi to satisfy her Since she have gone black and it brings out something inside of her her sex appetite it’s amazing
 
KeikoandSarge said:
If I can make just one suggestion, don’t push too hard on the transition from fantasy to reality. She definitely sounds intrigued by the idea, but let her slowly make that transition with your loving support. Enjoying the fantasy, dildos, porn, dirty talk, etc….savor it all. These are great and extremely hot memories you are making together, take your time and enjoy it together. Good Luck!
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I think you need to heed this advice. Very important what's being said. "Savor" the moment, don't gulp it down. The build-up can, and should, take months, if not years.

I suggest instead of having a black man show up at the hotel room while she's restrained to a bed, let her be swooned at a hotel bar. Let there be conversation, intrigue, eye contact, sexual tension. Let that build on it's own. Let the man (hopefully a smooth talker) do his thing. That stuff right there will be etched in her mind for life. You have to nurture the mental aspect of this as much as, if not more so, than the physical.

You could suggest a black friend or acquaintance come "seduce" her at a lounge. I'd steer clear of actually sitting at the bar (too many eyes, too many ears). More like a high-top or cocktail table IN a bar. Let him work his magic, if he has any. And even if nothing materializes that evening, it'll still be an exciting building block for the next step.

Save the blind-folded, handcuffed idea for one of the middle rounds.
 
whitepvnda said:
So me and my wife she's in her late 20s I'm in my early 30s .. we been together for 12 years and have young children . We have a already great sex life . I had a fantasy of watching her with a BBC for around 5 years . I told her this may just gone and opened up . We previous got a black dildo last year so she had a idea already . I'm not a cuckold just Purley love to watch her get fucked and join in as a threesome . Anyway she was abit confused at first but then come round to it and we started watching IR porn together and then she started talking dirty to me when she was riding the dildo about BBC . She even says now after we fuck she means what she says when we do it . She says stuff to me like she would love to be creampied and then me go in after it would really turn her on . After we finish she laughs and says I wouldn't really do it or atleast now anyway as we are young. This honestly turns her on more then anything I've ever seen the wettest I've seen her and creamy I've seen her . She said it turns her on the most when we talk about it. She wasn't even into black guys before I told her my fantasy but she says she loves it because it turns me on too . She said to me last night jokingly we should make a date with a bbc when we next go to the hotel she laughed and said no I'm joking but you would like that wouldn't you .. the reality has hit me now I didn't ever think she would be this keen on bbc 😂. I like it . We have a very solid relationship and we can be open with each other about anything . I'm just thinking I love the idea of it but would I regret it after is that already a red flag? Or am I being selfish and should just let her have fun ? She's only been with me in 12 years and slept with 1 person before she met me so I feel she's entitled to want to feel them urges . I slept with alot of women before we met . I partly find that's why I find it hot her fucking someone else cos she's only ever really been with me ?
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Me and my wife are around our 50s. I know what you going trough. My wife know about my submissive and cuckold feelings for at least 10 years. It's no secret between us my average dick is to small for her. She only get a descend orgasm from her big dildo. I can't fuck her for more than a minute and have to be carefull not to cum to quick. Whe both love cuckold fantasy and every time when she's horny she admit she want to go for it and whe have great sex and orgasm about it. But the next day it seems she not ready for the real thing... . I still keep hoping one day she will be ready and go for it. She know it is in her hands.
 
whitepvnda said:
So me and my wife she's in her late 20s I'm in my early 30s .. we been together for 12 years and have young children . We have a already great sex life . I had a fantasy of watching her with a BBC for around 5 years . I told her this may just gone and opened up . We previous got a black dildo last year so she had a idea already . I'm not a cuckold just Purley love to watch her get fucked and join in as a threesome . Anyway she was abit confused at first but then come round to it and we started watching IR porn together and then she started talking dirty to me when she was riding the dildo about BBC . She even says now after we fuck she means what she says when we do it . She says stuff to me like she would love to be creampied and then me go in after it would really turn her on . After we finish she laughs and says I wouldn't really do it or atleast now anyway as we are young. This honestly turns her on more then anything I've ever seen the wettest I've seen her and creamy I've seen her . She said it turns her on the most when we talk about it. She wasn't even into black guys before I told her my fantasy but she says she loves it because it turns me on too . She said to me last night jokingly we should make a date with a bbc when we next go to the hotel she laughed and said no I'm joking but you would like that wouldn't you .. the reality has hit me now I didn't ever think she would be this keen on bbc 😂. I like it . We have a very solid relationship and we can be open with each other about anything . I'm just thinking I love the idea of it but would I regret it after is that already a red flag? Or am I being selfish and should just let her have fun ? She's only been with me in 12 years and slept with 1 person before she met me so I feel she's entitled to want to feel them urges . I slept with alot of women before we met . I partly find that's why I find it hot her fucking someone else cos she's only ever really been with me ?
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Oh this post does remind me of my wife and I , when we started in the lifestyle.
We have never regretted it one bit, We have shared some pretty wild times over the years.
However We absolutely thought the world of each other and have been together for over 50 years
 
WhtAcpt said:
I think you need to heed this advice. Very important what's being said. "Savor" the moment, don't gulp it down. The build-up can, and should, take months, if not years.

I suggest instead of having a black man show up at the hotel room while she's restrained to a bed, let her be swooned at a hotel bar. Let there be conversation, intrigue, eye contact, sexual tension. Let that build on it's own. Let the man (hopefully a smooth talker) do his thing. That stuff right there will be etched in her mind for life. You have to nurture the mental aspect of this as much as, if not more so, than the physical.

You could suggest a black friend or acquaintance come "seduce" her at a lounge. I'd steer clear of actually sitting at the bar (too many eyes, too many ears). More like a high-top or cocktail table IN a bar. Let him work his magic, if he has any. And even if nothing materializes that evening, it'll still be an exciting building block for the next step.

Save the blind-folded, handcuffed idea for one of the middle rounds.
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Good advice, U just may have helped a few if not more white wives get totally hooked with her first adventure, and that helped the hubby with a burning fantasy he feels he must make a reality make the best of it. wives love 2b seduced witch sets her married pussy on fire. TY for helping many
 
Mike 321 said:
My wife fantasy came through couple months ago she always wanted to be gangbang by five BBC‘s she said a room full of black man turns her on I she is a woman will always love attention No her sex sessions are two BBC’s it’s some thing that she can’t do without no majority of the time when she’s having sex with a black male she prefer twi to satisfy her Since she have gone black and it brings out something inside of her her sex appetite it’s amazing
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I agree with you,please see some of our posts on this subject, My wife amazes me.👌😁
 
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