Turning a fantasy into a reality

whitepvnda

whitepvnda

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So me and my wife she's in her late 20s I'm in my early 30s .. we been together for 12 years and have young children . We have a already great sex life . I had a fantasy of watching her with a BBC for around 5 years . I told her this may just gone and opened up . We previous got a black dildo last year so she had a idea already . I'm not a cuckold just Purley love to watch her get fucked and join in as a threesome . Anyway she was abit confused at first but then come round to it and we started watching IR porn together and then she started talking dirty to me when she was riding the dildo about BBC . She even says now after we fuck she means what she says when we do it . She says stuff to me like she would love to be creampied and then me go in after it would really turn her on . After we finish she laughs and says I wouldn't really do it or atleast now anyway as we are young. This honestly turns her on more then anything I've ever seen the wettest I've seen her and creamy I've seen her . She said it turns her on the most when we talk about it. She wasn't even into black guys before I told her my fantasy but she says she loves it because it turns me on too . She said to me last night jokingly we should make a date with a bbc when we next go to the hotel she laughed and said no I'm joking but you would like that wouldn't you .. the reality has hit me now I didn't ever think she would be this keen on bbc 😂. I like it . We have a very solid relationship and we can be open with each other about anything . I'm just thinking I love the idea of it but would I regret it after is that already a red flag? Or am I being selfish and should just let her have fun ? She's only been with me in 12 years and slept with 1 person before she met me so I feel she's entitled to want to feel them urges . I slept with alot of women before we met . I partly find that's why I find it hot her fucking someone else cos she's only ever really been with me ?
 
Well on the plus side it is something she seems into as well so at least both of you are finding enjoyment in the fantasy. In my opinion you two need to have some great sex and then sit down and honestly discuss if you would enjoy a threesome together. Keep it simple at first with just adding another man to the mix. Yes he can be black but do not necessarily make it about cuckolding or anything too kinky at the moment other than just having a threesome. If you both want to proceed find a willing man and proceed. This is going to show you the most important thing about all of this. You are going to see an actual other man having sex with your wife. She will be letting a man have sex with her as you watch. How that effects both of you will tell you how to proceed. You might be all in and wanting more. Maybe you want something a little softer than all out sex. Maybe you will find out it something better as a fantasy. Do it together and make the decisions together.
 
Silvaa said:
Well on the plus side it is something she seems into as well so at least both of you are finding enjoyment in the fantasy. In my opinion you two need to have some great sex and then sit down and honestly discuss if you would enjoy a threesome together. Keep it simple at first with just adding another man to the mix. Yes he can be black but do not necessarily make it about cuckolding or anything too kinky at the moment other than just having a threesome. If you both want to proceed find a willing man and proceed. This is going to show you the most important thing about all of this. You are going to see an actual other man having sex with your wife. She will be letting a man have sex with her as you watch. How that effects both of you will tell you how to proceed. You might be all in and wanting more. Maybe you want something a little softer than all out sex. Maybe you will find out it something better as a fantasy. Do it together and make the decisions together.
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She says after we do it she means it in the moment . It turns her on a lot too . Yeah she says to me you would like it to be real wouldn't you and always jokes about me getting a bbc date for us at the hotel for a threesome and she giggles and says she's joking . We haven't actually had a serious chat about making it a reality but she did say maybe when we are abit older as we got young ******* she said who knows how we will feel in the future . We spoke about swinging events etc probably would be a good idea to break the ice . She is very naughty though when we do it she's fully into it . I'm definitely not for the cuckold thing humiliation. I'd like to join in and please her too and then maybe sit back and watch her with him . I said to her yesterday I didn't ever think we would be here . She wasn't even into black guys this time last year . A few months ago we watched IR porn together for the first time and since that and the dildo it just flowed well . Got naughtier everytime so to speak . Especially when we been ti the hotel without the ******* a few times with the dildos and porn been great.
 
whitepvnda said:
She says after we do it she means it in the moment . It turns her on a lot too . Yeah she says to me you would like it to be real wouldn't you and always jokes about me getting a bbc date for us at the hotel for a threesome and she giggles and says she's joking . We haven't actually had a serious chat about making it a reality but she did say maybe when we are abit older as we got young ******* she said who knows how we will feel in the future . We spoke about swinging events etc probably would be a good idea to break the ice . She is very naughty though when we do it she's fully into it . I'm definitely not for the cuckold thing humiliation. I'd like to join in and please her too and then maybe sit back and watch her with him . I said to her yesterday I didn't ever think we would be here . She wasn't even into black guys this time last year . A few months ago we watched IR porn together for the first time and since that and the dildo it just flowed well . Got naughtier everytime so to speak . Especially when we been ti the hotel without the ******* a few times with the dildos and porn been great.
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It's time; she seems SO ready. Why not arrange another dildo hotel BBC porn date and arrange a BBC to meet you at the hotel bar to hit on your slut wife? Oh, post pics of her and get verified...
 
CoolDuo said:
It's time; she seems SO ready. Why not arrange another dildo hotel BBC porn date and arrange a BBC to meet you at the hotel bar to hit on your slut wife? Oh, post pics of her and get verified...
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That would be good but would be good if he knocked on the door whilst we are mid way whilst she's horny and in the mood she's like a different person when she's horny to sober wifey . Her naughty side comes out 😈
 
whitepvnda said:
She says after we do it she means it in the moment . It turns her on a lot too . Yeah she says to me you would like it to be real wouldn't you and always jokes about me getting a bbc date for us at the hotel for a threesome and she giggles and says she's joking . We haven't actually had a serious chat about making it a reality but she did say maybe when we are abit older as we got young ******* she said who knows how we will feel in the future . We spoke about swinging events etc probably would be a good idea to break the ice . She is very naughty though when we do it she's fully into it . I'm definitely not for the cuckold thing humiliation. I'd like to join in and please her too and then maybe sit back and watch her with him . I said to her yesterday I didn't ever think we would be here . She wasn't even into black guys this time last year . A few months ago we watched IR porn together for the first time and since that and the dildo it just flowed well . Got naughtier everytime so to speak . Especially when we been ti the hotel without the ******* a few times with the dildos and porn been great.
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Sounds like you two are have a great time playing the fantasy and good for you. Swinging is a great way to step in as well because you can do it with another trusted couple and everyone is on pretty even playing ground. It's a great sexual starting place to see how you do with other people coming into that world with you.

Also maybe just try some dating. Do not worry about getting into the bedroom. Find a man looking for a couple and go out to dinner and some drinks with no promise of sex and just see how things feel. ******* do make it a trickier situation.
 
Silvaa said:
Sounds like you two are have a great time playing the fantasy and good for you. Swinging is a great way to step in as well because you can do it with another trusted couple and everyone is on pretty even playing ground. It's a great sexual starting place to see how you do with other people coming into that world with you.

Also maybe just try some dating. Do not worry about getting into the bedroom. Find a man looking for a couple and go out to dinner and some drinks with no promise of sex and just see how things feel. ******* do make it a trickier situation.
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Yeah exactly I'm just gonna see where it leads I'm sure it will just come naturally 😌
 
If I can make just one suggestion, don’t push too hard on the transition from fantasy to reality. She definitely sounds intrigued by the idea, but let her slowly make that transition with your loving support. Enjoying the fantasy, dildos, porn, dirty talk, etc….savor it all. These are great and extremely hot memories you are making together, take your time and enjoy it together. Good Luck!
 
My wife finally had her first bbc this week after wanting it for a couple of years, watching ir porn and using bbc dildos and I gotta say it was great for everyone!
I was nervous AF before and when we got there but once they started I soon joined in too!
Long story short we feel closer than ever since and our sex drive has rocketed! We're having meet number 2 tomorrow afternoon!
I'm 33 she's 30 we've got ******* and Ben together 12yrs this month.
My advice is if you're close and trust eachother GO FOR IT!
 
KeikoandSarge said:
If I can make just one suggestion, don’t push too hard on the transition from fantasy to reality. She definitely sounds intrigued by the idea, but let her slowly make that transition with your loving support. Enjoying the fantasy, dildos, porn, dirty talk, etc….savor it all. These are great and extremely hot memories you are making together, take your time and enjoy it together. Good Luck!
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Thank you
 
Dicknjane123 said:
My wife finally had her first bbc this week after wanting it for a couple of years, watching ir porn and using bbc dildos and I gotta say it was great for everyone!
I was nervous AF before and when we got there but once they started I soon joined in too!
Long story short we feel closer than ever since and our sex drive has rocketed! We're having meet number 2 tomorrow afternoon!
I'm 33 she's 30 we've got ******* and Ben together 12yrs this month.
My advice is if you're close and trust eachother GO FOR IT!
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Thats great
 
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