Stag/Vixen married couple here. Been in the lifestyle for close to 12 years. We change; all things change. My wife is not quite as flexible as she was a decade ago. Our most recent bull, whom we met last Thanksgiving, always hosts. He purchased a spanking bench and a ramp wedge for his encounters. It took some getting used to, but my wife loves them now. She reaches a higher level of climax. I am not a spokesperson for the equipment but from my point of view the bull can access my wife much deeper without Deb being smashed into the bed. Anyone had similar experiences?