Changes in Marriages and Relationships

[Pink Lilia]

our situation is different that that, its not that sex groups are not main stream. but for us my wife is fairly open about her nights out or saying with the boys as she calls it for sex and pleasures, so "we" do not attend sex parties or groups, but rather i take her to a group of between 3-6 guys that we have know for several years, or at least 4 of them in the group and she stays for the weekend for pleasure.

to use its the most normal thing in the world, and she is open to her friends about it

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[Tedmonday]

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[hungry4bbcnyc]

Thank you WWM.

I like to think of this as healthy evolution and more of a DESCENT away from manhood rather than FORWARD movement. Anyway I think this is a great question and I will give my opinion on this. I hope others will add their thoughts and experiences.

I think there are three areas for white boys to focus on. First is the physical. If you feminize to some extent it will emphasize the difference between a soft white boy and a hard black man. Some could take supplements or hormones even. Tight chastity might help make you smaller and will certainly stop erections. More feminine dress and hair could help. If a white boy stays limp he cannot compete and this will make it inevitable for the woman to be with a black man. A single exposure to a real man and it is unlikely she will ever want to be with a white boy again. In my opinion this change away from masculinity will likely vary from person to person. Some could become bottoms, sissies or trans. Some just softer white boys. Again the purpose is to draw a distinction. The mental acceptance will almost certainly follow any physical changes that are taken. At least that is how I see this.

The second part is mental. Anything that emphasizes white women with black men will help condition the mind in the right way. In this area porn may be of help. Interracial porn should be the only porn watched and searched for. This will be noticed and gradually this healthy type of sex will predominate. Mainstream media will follow and we already are seeing this. I hope that eventually virtually all mainstream movies and TV shows feature romance between white women and black men only. White boys can be depicted as friendly helpers who are happy when the couple gets together. In this setting hard core scenes are not really needed. Day to day interactions may help more. Of course, most of us have little control over what stuff is made and broadcasted. But we do have control over what we watch. Watching, commenting, observing. Anything that reinforces AWAY from white boys is good in my opinion. I suspect the false masculinity and competitiveness of white boys will disappear after they have been bombarded with the healthy images. I am not sure if ******* would help a white boy and would be interested in others thoughts. I just continue to think that white women and black men do not need all of this help. They are not the problem. If they can get together a single time AND if this is associated with absolute total support and submission by white boys I think things will be permanent. This may be the hardest part for white boys but may be most important. This could be liberating for white boys and make them happier. No need to compete or worry. Just be happy for others and obey and serve. The natural role.

The third part is behavior. White boys can constantly comment to any women in their lives when they see a black man look at the woman. They can compliment her on how that is the utmost in femininity-to attract a black man. They can comment on how attracting a white boy is easy but black men are special. Always positive in this setting. If a black man approaches the white boy can step back and subtly lower his head. He should be silent. He should smile and be positive but not interrupt. Always positive and submissive. At home a white boy can do the housework in a cheerful manner. Finally it seems to me the white boy should not be having sex with the woman. If you are limp or in a chastity device that is not a problem. Also oral on the woman or dildo play (black dildo only) are possible outlets. But it has been said by many that one key to all of this is for the woman to be unsatisfied with the white boy. Needing more. And if given a total green light and support in that setting the magic may begin. Fantasy in media will be followed by real life sex will be followed by real life change in the non-sexual world.

I am sorry to have gone on so long. These are my opinions and everyone will have to decide if they agree or not. There are probably other ways to reach the same goal but these seem to be the best. At least as I see it. Thanks again to WWM.

I love this. Thanks for posting

 

[acwld]

I think the main change for us thus far has been my wife’s realisation that my dick is actually quite small. She loves it, don’t get me wrong, it’s always done a solid job of getting her off…but these days, all her comments about my dick are degrading/emasculating in one way or another (which I love). It’s unprompted from her and just shows that she’s just embraced that she’s married to a guy with a good, but small dick (4.5-4.9 inch - it varies from day to day.

“Your dick is cute, but not very manly.”

(When compared to her black rabbit vibrator) “*laughs* why are you comparing sizes? There is no comparison.”

We joke that my dick is the little chilli emoticon, but the other day she bought some chilli’s home and said “Wow, your dick is actually smaller than these chilli’s…”

Stuff like that is a very common occurrence these days, for us.

 

[down boy]

No dude you have no idea what you are talking about. There are no races out there that have genes that make them immune to chemicals in the body. You see the world through a heavily biased lense. When you say black men are you referring to the 50 bulls on this sight along with the thousands of other muscular fit black bulls out there or are you referring to all the 16 million adult black males in the U.S. that include thousands of gay men, trans men, nerdy men, and fat men? Yes one of the fastest growing segments of the lgbt community is black males so when you look at those statistics not to mention a glance of people at the mall you would be aware that black men are actually suffering from this as well.

I agree I’m my life I had master slave relationships with two different dominant gay black Masters. Too my surprise their is quite a few gay black men and I think dominant gay black men are very sexy actually I’ve had the best sex of my life with dominant gay black masters. The first time I was fucked was by a dominant gay black master when I was 17. I loved him very much he really took care of my masochistic needs he was a very strong tough master. The Master I was with when my wife left me was very strong Master. My wife left me for 2 years and came back and I’m back with her again she with another man now and he’s dominant over me there’s quite a few black men that enjoy fucking over white submissive cuckold husbands it seems my wife has no trouble finding them .

 

[RangerCuck]

I think the main change for us thus far has been my wife’s realisation that my dick is actually quite small.

This is one of the biggest changes most couples will see. Once a woman has been with guys who're on the 8-10" and larger scale, "regular" sized dicks just aren't going to cut it any longer. When I met my GF, she was already a size queen, so she never even considered having my (6") cock inside her. She's kept it locked up since we started going out, basically. But if you're a guy on the average or smaller size on the scale and you have your wife start fucking larger guys, that's going to be it for you.

 

[acwld]

This is one of the biggest changes most couples will see. Once a woman has been with guys who're on the 8-10" and larger scale, "regular" sized dicks just aren't going to cut it any longer. When I met my GF, she was already a size queen, so she never even considered having my (6") cock inside her. She's kept it locked up since we started going out, basically. But if you're a guy on the average or smaller size on the scale and you have your wife start fucking larger guys, that's going to be it for you.

My wife always used to tell me mine was fine and not small at all.

These days she admits that I’m probably equal smallest that she’s ever been with and the first time my pants came off, she was disappointed. Thankfully the sex was still amazing haha.

 

[down boy]

This is one of the biggest changes most couples will see. Once a woman has been with guys who're on the 8-10" and larger scale, "regular" sized dicks just aren't going to cut it any longer. When I met my GF, she was already a size queen, so she never even considered having my (6") cock inside her. She's kept it locked up since we started going out, basically. But if you're a guy on the average or smaller size on the scale and you have your wife start fucking larger guys, that's going to be it for you.

Well my wife would never let me fuck her no chance of that ever happening . Lol My wife has been riding the bbc all her life exclusively. She left me for 2 yrs. I was lucky I was able to get with a dominant Bi sexual black Master that was fucking my wife’s a few years back. I bumped into him by chance gave him my number a few days later he called and I ended up as his slave. When my wife came back I went back with her but he could uses me when he wants. I still do housework for him 2 nights a week and I usually end up swallowing his load on those nights they share me I guess plus he fucks my wife sometimes he likes to dominate white boys but he still gets a lot of white pussy.

 

[down boy]

A man wanting to be a woman whether dominant or not doesn’t fit into the big black bull category no matter how you look at it and will never be associated with high testosterone levels. Listen the guys premise is completely wrong and my reasoning shows that. Now if you want to contend that whites are ahead of blacks in their declining testosterone that certainly could be the case. It makes perfect sense that whites would lead since there is a small component of this in sociology. The attack on masculinity was obviously targeted at white men and not minority groups but it’s ineffective unless the testosterone levels have decreased and that factor is equal across the board. The only people escaping it are probably naturalists and people that eat organically. Interracial cuckolding is a fetish certain people enjoy but the globalists that want weak citizens so they can control the public don’t care if you are white or black or purple.

I’ve seen guys that dress like ladies at Femdom smbd parties who are just like dominant woman. They have a lot of male slaves as a matter of fact I know of one who is a professional dominatrix. She whips their asses they suck her dick and pay her to do so. She not trying to be a male bull she says she’s a chick with a dick. She sold her businesses ,auto parts stores and now she lives in her nice home in upstate New York and has serveral wealthy slaves who keep her living in luxury. My dominant wife is an accountant and she did work for her when she was selling her stores off to a large cooperate franchise parts store. She was business man and a dominant woman like a double life now she lives as a woman all the time. She keeps her dick she still gets pleasure from it. I think Bruce Jenner had his wiener cut off if I’m not mistaken.

 

[Rene Mills]

A man wanting to be a woman whether dominant or not doesn’t fit into the big black bull category no matter how you look at it and will never be associated with high testosterone levels. Listen the guys premise is completely wrong and my reasoning shows that. Now if you want to contend that whites are ahead of blacks in their declining testosterone that certainly could be the case. It makes perfect sense that whites would lead since there is a small component of this in sociology. The attack on masculinity was obviously targeted at white men and not minority groups but it’s ineffective unless the testosterone levels have decreased and that factor is equal across the board. The only people escaping it are probably naturalists and people that eat organically. Interracial cuckolding is a fetish certain people enjoy but the globalists that want weak citizens so they can control the public don’t care if you are white or black or purple.

You are correct. The rural States aren’t having as much of an issue. We travel a lot and I see so many effeminate black men and it’s very disappointing. We have societal issues for sure. I look at those on the extreme side of this play as completely unhealthy.

 

[Rene Mills]

I started this thread a few months ago. I appreciate all of the responses. There seems to be a lot of different opinions. In my opinion the ideal relationship is black man and white woman. PERIOD. I understand the desire of some white boys to use this as a gateway to them having sex. But I have to wonder if the women are doing it out of pity or some old fashioned sense of duty. That just seems wrong to me on many levels. I have seen some surveys that support the idea that a great majority of women prefer black men. I read somewhere that male hormone levels are decreasing in white boys. I do not think there can be any argument that black men are becoming more alpha and white boys are becoming more beta, sissies or more. I personally think it is safe to assume that black men are superior to white boys and women prefer black men. I know there are exceptions to every rule but I am talking about the general trend in the majority. Having said all of this I wonder if all of us would be better off with white women marrying black men only. Or would we be better off with white boys getting married in a "special" relationship where they work, support and encourage but do not have sex with the wife. That would be left to black men.

I would appreciate opinions regarding three things.
1. Do the people on this site agree with the general idea of black male superiority? Does anyone know about other scientific studies or surveys like I quoted that support this idea or not?
2. Do the people on this site think it would be better to have marriages with black men only? Or marriages that feature advanced cuckolding? Or something else?
3. What does everybody think about feminization of white boys? In my opinion this is less about feminizing than it is about making the white boy less competitive, less masculine. More of a boy than a man. I have a hunch that white boys have a natural urge to submit to black men. It is a source of comfort to not have to compete and to get guidance from black men (and women for that matter). It seems to me that emasculation, feminization, becoming limp, and all that comes with it really speeds up what seems to me to be natural changes in relationships.

I appreciate and respect all opinions about this. Even ones that disagree with my ideas. I thought it would be interesting to see if there is general agreement regarding at least some of this. Thanks to all.

The things you’re describing are a fetish not a lifestyle

 

[cadillacjoe]

In my situation and I realise it is different for most people, I have always been a typical man's man. This is dispite the fact that I have worshiped Black Men since I was 14. I also shared every single gf and wife since I was 15.
However, I tried to hide this from friends family etc. To them, I was a Real Man. But the reality behind closed doors was that I was a cuckold and BBC hungry white sissy boy.
It has always been very easy for me to get women. For some reason women seem to like me. Usually I would date a woman and very quickly bring up my likes and dislikes sexually. Those women totally anti BBC/cuckold either were cast aside or they stopped seeing me.
What has been amazing is how many women knew what a cuck was, loved the idea of having a loving white bf but that they were good to "cheat" ( more about my idea of what cheating is later).
I was one of those lucky cuck's who met a woman that I married, who was already seeing Black Men and, with my encouragsment and me exposing the cuckold lifestyle, continued to see her Black Men.
This leads me to cheating or what I consider cheating. Again I have to say it is only my version of cheating. Others will have a different idea of cheating.
I love women that cheat. Cheating for me as a married white male turns me on simply because my wife Broke every single vow she swore not to break on our wedding day, in front of our families and friends. This, to me, is the hottest thing a white wife can do.
But is it actually cheating? No, of course not in my case. I have encouraged, helped and organised my gf's and wife to see Real Men - Black Men.
I only ever set two conditions on all my women.
1. They had to "cheat" on me.
2. It had to be exclusively with Black Men.
If the went with white men I would consider she actually cheated on me and think of it as infidelity. Our relationship would end. That IS cheating.
A woman fucking a Black Man it Men is most definitely NOT cheating.
For me, it is the most natural thing in the world and I expect this to happen.

Sorry for the long post

Don't be sorry for a long post....OMG it was a HOT analysis on what I believe is happening in a lot of white marriages. Your just one of the real lucky ones.

 

[cadillacjoe]

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[Ntb201]

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