Hi, don’t know if this is the best thread for what I’m about to post, but I think it fits. I’ve posted about me and my wife going to our favorite restaurant and having a very sexy even muscular black waiter. And on that night my wife made a few comments about him to me. The thing is my wife has never been with a black man before. She, however, has discovered that I have personally had experiences with BBC. On that night, she was obviously smitten with this man. And she asked me if I had been with him jokingly. Well that let me know where her mind had gone with just him taking our ******* orders, she was thinking about sex. I can’t remember how long ago that night was but last night we found ourselves at our favorite restaurant again. It was semi-crowded and the wait was going to be a while so we took seat at the bar. After ordering drinks, she asked if I notice our waiter. Yes, she refers to him as our waiter. so again I know whats on her mind. She told me he was not waiting, but rather appeared to have moved up to a managerial position. Her follow comment was good for him. As she has worked in the service industry when she was in college, she appreciates and recognizes accomplishments in that industry. but that’s not where her recognition ended. She started talking about the first time he waited for us. And mentioned that he has a presence about himself that she’s drawn to. She told me that when he came to our table that night, and I had excused myself to the restroom that he put his hand on the table next to her and leaned in close when asking if she needed anything. She admitted that him being so close had an effect on her. She told me it felt a bit aggressive, but that she really liked it. the fact that she was telling me this I felt was quiet a turn on for me, because she had never admitted to being directly turned on by another man. She went on to ask me what I thought of him, and if he was my type of guy. I told her absolutely I would never tell him no. She smiled at me and said that she thought that was the case. She went on to say that she thinks that’s part of what excites her about him thinking of me with him. I nearly fell off my barstool as those words rang in my ears. I just smiled and said yes, that would be nice. She added that if she and I were to have a threesome with someone, she said he would be perfect. My little dick has not stopped throbbing at her words Friday night. I believe even though she hasn’t had BBC it speaks a lot to her “modern” thinking that she would make mention of such things so freely to me. if that’s not a modern marriage, I don’t know what is. The only thing that would be better is if she had let me go speak to him and introduce ourselves to him. I asked her if I could and she told me no don’t do that. But maybe I should have anyway . Perhaps next time we’re at our favorite restaurant I’ll just do it anyway.
part of marriages as it should be. Both of us wouldn’t have it any other way … it feels natural so there is no hesitations or jealousy we love being owned
