Stag Vixen (non-cuckold)

[MWC43-41]

Hi guys, I know the whole cuckold thing is a whole genre of porn and a lifestyle. I really am interested in finding out some answers so don't go off and get all butt hurt.
What I want to know is where are the non cuckold couples. I personally would never want my man to be a cuck. If you are, then good for you. I would never want my man to do that and I think the Stag Vixen lifestyle is growing.

Bulls, why would you fuck another man's wife and want her husband to clean you up or even want to watch him eat your cum out of her? Doesn't that make you bisexual?

I personally love to have sex with other men. While I am the one with the control and can say no anytime, he can also say no anytime he wants. That means if I want a man but husband doesn't like him, he can nix it right there, and he has done it. Every guy must go through him to get to me. Is there anybody else out there like us? I must say we have some very respectful bulls.

We could have written what you just posted! There are other couples like us on this site, and those are the ones we talk with. We don’t belittle or show contempt for those who enjoy the cuckold/humiliation activities, but neither do we wish to join them in their activities.

Your rules appear to be much like our’s, with each of us having a veto power when someone new is considered. We never tell someone that the wife/husband doesn’t care for him, we just say that we are not a good match and leave it at that. We’ve been doing this for a few years, so that has, on occasion, but done.

 

[MWC43-41]

I think there are way, WAY more non-cuckold such as you guys than actual real life cuck couples and even less where the hubby wants to clean the bulls up. I've been in the IR hotwife/swing lifestyle for around 13 years and I can count the number of actual cuckolds I've run across on one hand. This site and the internet makes it seem like there are more than there actually are. IMHO.

We'll said! We've been wife sharing for about 10 years, with the last three years including black men, and we've never run across a cuckold couple in real life, so your comments are more than welcome. Thanks for speaking up!

 

[MWC43-41]

We agree completely with this, as someone above said, I think that cuckold couples are actually a minority in this lifestyle, but they seem to dominate the online presence with their fantasies.

Agreed! We think that sexual fantasies have always been, and always will be, a part of human sexuality. With us, sexual fantasy has often lead to some very memorable, enjoyable experiences, and has in fact guided our sexual pathway. Lacking numbers, dominance can also be achieved by volume. In any event, as long as THEY like it, let them speak! Just don't expect couples like us to be swayed.

 

[MWC43-41]

This is turning out to be a great thread and very much needed. All this talk about humiliation and breeding of white women to end the white race is comical at times. To us, and I am the wife, it is about sex and my husband watching. That is what he likes and wants. He is a very strong and confident white man who I love to death. We know this is an open forum and some of the things on here are offensive but we have open minds and are not thin skinned. If we were, we would have left already.
Thank you for starting this thread.

What a calm, straight forward and sensible comment! Good on you!!

 

[MWC43-41]

I can see most of you ladies and gentlemen on this thread prefer the terms Stag and Vixen compared to a cuckold relationship. Nothing against the different ways people live and enjoy their sex lives. Many on this site and on the internet are practicing the Cuckold Fetish Lifestyle. The key word being Fetish because it is loaded with a ton of other fetishes over and above the traditional meaning of cuckolding. The Stag and Vixen lifestyle risen on here is still cuckolding, it is the most accurate form of the original definition with just one difference. A cuckold is a man whose wife is having affairs without the knowledge of her husband. A Wittol is a cuckold husband who knows and encourages his wife to have affairs. The Cuckold Fetish lifestyle includes any number of the forms of humiliation that can be practiced. Submission, Domination, cream pie eating, black owned, Bi-sexual sex between a cuckold and Bull, pimping out another mans wife, *******, cock cages, denial, capital punishment and pregnancy from a Bull all fall under the Fetish form of the lifestyle. A Stag is technically a cuckold to his Vixen or Hotwife for that matter. Take comfort in knowing that the latest titles of Stag and Vixen is the closest relationship in the cuckold lifestyle. Just my thoughts no offence to anyone.

Very intelligent comments are always welcome! And your's were well prepared and presented. Good on ya!

 

[MWC43-41]

Well don't be mad at us black men about the white husband being a punk ok and second of all i had plenty of white women b4 i ever knew about the life style so the comment about if it wasn't for the cuckold lifestyle we wouldn't be fucking you that's bullshit you want it because you really want it ok

I think I'm going to respond, if I can figure out what you tried to say. Give me a minute.

 

[24play]

I think I'm going to respond, if I can figure out what you tried to say. Give me a minute.

We agree, not a cuck cpl and have been in the lifestyle for 20 hrs and enjoy swinging with cpls and singles. She developed a taste for chocolate over the years and when she wants it she gets it’s. We both agree on the other players in all circumstances.

 

[mexcpl1]

Hi guys, I know the whole cuckold thing is a whole genre of porn and a lifestyle. I really am interested in finding out some answers so don't go off and get all butt hurt.
What I want to know is where are the non cuckold couples. I personally would never want my man to be a cuck. If you are, then good for you. I would never want my man to do that and I think the Stag Vixen lifestyle is growing.

Bulls, why would you fuck another man's wife and want her husband to clean you up or even want to watch him eat your cum out of her? Doesn't that make you bisexual?

I personally love to have sex with other men. While I am the one with the control and can say no anytime, he can also say no anytime he wants. That means if I want a man but husband doesn't like him, he can nix it right there, and he has done it. Every guy must go through him to get to me. Is there anybody else out there like us? I must say we have some very respectful bulls.

That’s how we are she’s my hotwife and you have to respect me to fuck her nothing against the cuckold couples or any lifestyles

 

[Gr8ego]

Hi guys, I know the whole cuckold thing is a whole genre of porn and a lifestyle. I really am interested in finding out some answers so don't go off and get all butt hurt.
What I want to know is where are the non cuckold couples. I personally would never want my man to be a cuck. If you are, then good for you. I would never want my man to do that and I think the Stag Vixen lifestyle is growing.

Bulls, why would you fuck another man's wife and want her husband to clean you up or even want to watch him eat your cum out of her? Doesn't that make you bisexual?

I personally love to have sex with other men. While I am the one with the control and can say no anytime, he can also say no anytime he wants. That means if I want a man but husband doesn't like him, he can nix it right there, and he has done it. Every guy must go through him to get to me. Is there anybody else out there like us? I must say we have some very respectful bulls.

We are a stag vixen couple. I lay down the rules and she complies

 

[MWC43-41]

We agree, not a cuck cpl and have been in the lifestyle for 20 hrs and enjoy swinging with cpls and singles. She developed a taste for chocolate over the years and when she wants it she gets it’s. We both agree on the other players in all circumstances.

I think we have a voice here! Had no idea we were so many.

 

[24play]

I think we have a voice here! Had no idea we were so many.

20 yrs not hrs lol

 

[CSCouple]

Hi guys, I know the whole cuckold thing is a whole genre of porn and a lifestyle. I really am interested in finding out some answers so don't go off and get all butt hurt.
What I want to know is where are the non cuckold couples. I personally would never want my man to be a cuck. If you are, then good for you. I would never want my man to do that and I think the Stag Vixen lifestyle is growing.

Bulls, why would you fuck another man's wife and want her husband to clean you up or even want to watch him eat your cum out of her? Doesn't that make you bisexual?

I personally love to have sex with other men. While I am the one with the control and can say no anytime, he can also say no anytime he wants. That means if I want a man but husband doesn't like him, he can nix it right there, and he has done it. Every guy must go through him to get to me. Is there anybody else out there like us? I must say we have some very respectful bulls.

AMEN , you described our situation and what we do to a T, we’ve kicked a few to the curb before meeting, just before starting, and 1 in the middle of getting Fucked. We are all in this for a Fun and Enjoying Great Sex.

 

[DubbteeTX]

This is spot on in how we think about it too

Same with us. No disrespect, no rough stuff and hubby usually participates.

 

[EarthC137]

We are a stag vixen couple. I lay down the rules and she complies

Actually that would be slutwife lifestyle, stag/vixen/hotwife is about equality

 

[whtcpl4fun]

Hi guys, I know the whole cuckold thing is a whole genre of porn and a lifestyle. I really am interested in finding out some answers so don't go off and get all butt hurt.
What I want to know is where are the non cuckold couples. I personally would never want my man to be a cuck. If you are, then good for you. I would never want my man to do that and I think the Stag Vixen lifestyle is growing.

Bulls, why would you fuck another man's wife and want her husband to clean you up or even want to watch him eat your cum out of her? Doesn't that make you bisexual?

I personally love to have sex with other men. While I am the one with the control and can say no anytime, he can also say no anytime he wants. That means if I want a man but husband doesn't like him, he can nix it right there, and he has done it. Every guy must go through him to get to me. Is there anybody else out there like us? I must say we have some very respectful bulls.

Our relationship is the same he has as much say if not more, but the understanding is during the sex if I say no about anything it stops.

 

[MWC43-41]

We totally agree with whtcpl4fun because we do this primarily for OUR pleasure and enjoyment. As an aside, our black 'friends' thoroughly enjoy their role as animated sex toy, so all three of us gain from this arrangement. We also have the No Means NO rule.

 

[britt]

Hi guys, I know the whole cuckold thing is a whole genre of porn and a lifestyle. I really am interested in finding out some answers so don't go off and get all butt hurt.
What I want to know is where are the non cuckold couples. I personally would never want my man to be a cuck. If you are, then good for you. I would never want my man to do that and I think the Stag Vixen lifestyle is growing.

Bulls, why would you fuck another man's wife and want her husband to clean you up or even want to watch him eat your cum out of her? Doesn't that make you bisexual?

I personally love to have sex with other men. While I am the one with the control and can say no anytime, he can also say no anytime he wants. That means if I want a man but husband doesn't like him, he can nix it right there, and he has done it. Every guy must go through him to get to me. Is there anybody else out there like us? I must say we have some very respectful bulls.

yes ma'am there are my husband and Myself are the same way no cucky BS for us he is straight as an arrow...

 

[Hornycouple778]

I like that concept.. I just had my husband find me a BC for me to fuck and he watched...I don't want to humiliate him Other men should be respectful to the husbands he is sharing ?..

 

[BeijingCouple]

Same here. Totally not into submission play! It’s so much hotter to truly share wife, and be doing her together, than the submission fetish.

 

[MWC43-41]

Same here. Totally not into submission play! It’s so much hotter to truly share wife, and be doing her together, than the submission fetish.

We certainly agree! It loses so much if all three aren't involved, happy and satisfied.