Same here!!
Stag Vixen (non-cuckold)
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Well said! And we agree 100%. We’re not sure if the number of Stag/Vixen couples is growing or just becoming more vocal on this site. Either way it’s good to hear from them.
Your rules are very much like our’s, with either of us having a veto in the matter. To us that’s just common sense because we are primary here and the men who are joining us come next in line. We certainly want them to have as much fun as we do but from the first moment of contact we make it clear that they are being invited to JOIN us and NOT to become some sort of boss or leader of the group. That’s just fine for the couples who want that, but we’re not in that neighborhood.
Isn’t this a FUN thing to do?!?!
Stag/Vixen here. She has the primary veto but he can as well. He does all the contact and talking; we had a bad experience with one guy getting her number and then trying to go direct. We are about sensuality and eroticism....there is no "ownership" or humiliation. Overly macho or super dom males are not getting invites. Most of our guests has been BBC but we have entertained others as well. Yes, it IS fun....and exciting for both of us. Why do it otherwise??!!
Great looking couple....I am a proponent of the stag/vixen relationship.....so fucking hot
As we've said before, we are very much a stag/vixen couple. Hate the idea of humiliation or degradation. From our perspective, if you disrespect your husband THAT MUCH, why do you stay with him?
To be sure, some guys like it, but we don't. For us, it's a 50/50 proposition. We both enjoy it, very much and have no intentions of stopping in the immediate future.
But little is said about the Bull. What perspective should he have when approaching a stag/vixen couple. Well, I think the below graphic really summarizes it very, very well.
So, all you Bull's out there who stumble across a couple that identify as Stag/Vixen, please take note! If you assume the above attitude, you'll be a lot more successful in achieving your goal!
Best of luck to everyone who supports this thread! And please, do us a favor, repost this throughout the 'sharing' community! The more guys who understand this will provide a much larger pool for those people like us!
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Donna
To be sure, some guys like it, but we don't. For us, it's a 50/50 proposition. We both enjoy it, very much and have no intentions of stopping in the immediate future.
But little is said about the Bull. What perspective should he have when approaching a stag/vixen couple. Well, I think the below graphic really summarizes it very, very well.
So, all you Bull's out there who stumble across a couple that identify as Stag/Vixen, please take note! If you assume the above attitude, you'll be a lot more successful in achieving your goal!
Best of luck to everyone who supports this thread! And please, do us a favor, repost this throughout the 'sharing' community! The more guys who understand this will provide a much larger pool for those people like us!
Hugs
Donna
Thx Donna, that expresses our feelings as well.
That's really wonderful! I hope that folks, like you and others, will post it elsewhere! The word needs to get out that there is a difference between the stag/vixen couple and others who have different approaches!
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Donna
I feel the same way.
In our case, the Mrs wanted to try BBC GBs...I didn't even know there WERE such things outside of porn movies. There are quite a few BBC GB groups around, and the ones we found consist of very nice people...couples, women, solo guys ('performers'). She gets as much BBC as she wants (5-25 guys) in an
evening while I am free to play, to watch, or to hang out with the 'non-fucking' guests. No power dynamic, no humiliation, just fucking.
As a matter of fact, I often have to coach the performers to 'use her' more: they're TOO polite.
evening while I am free to play, to watch, or to hang out with the 'non-fucking' guests. No power dynamic, no humiliation, just fucking.As a matter of fact, I often have to coach the performers to 'use her' more: they're TOO polite.
SoJrzycpl2975
Couple
My wife and I are a Stag/Vixen couple. I (hubby) like to make sure a prospective gentleman is honest and respectful. Plus. Only single bulls. Too many married and cheating and we aren't into that drama. Otherwise, I'm very giving when it comes to my wife
Norcalcple
Couple
Great looking couple.
My wife and I identify as Stag/Vixen if people need to insist on a label, but it all comes down to respect. No respect, no playtime....pretty easy rules to follow.
Great thread.
Stag/vixen here too !
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Blksnake34
Male
You hit the nail on the head! We aren’t into anything cuckold and if a guy brings it up during chat with either my wife or myself we are done with him!
We have had guys that show up late and with an attitude they are out the door as well! We were meeting a guy at the motel and he called at the time he was supposed to be getting there saying he would be there in 15 minutes. At an hour and fifteen minutes late he called and said he was 15 minutes out I told him to just turn around there was no need in showing up! That is total disrespect to me no if ands or buts!!
Its our rules we play by and we aren’t changing them for anyone. I pick the guys but the wife has the final word! After a nice meal and a few hours chat we decide if we want to continue the meet on our next date. Thanks
We have had guys that show up late and with an attitude they are out the door as well! We were meeting a guy at the motel and he called at the time he was supposed to be getting there saying he would be there in 15 minutes. At an hour and fifteen minutes late he called and said he was 15 minutes out I told him to just turn around there was no need in showing up! That is total disrespect to me no if ands or buts!!
Its our rules we play by and we aren’t changing them for anyone. I pick the guys but the wife has the final word! After a nice meal and a few hours chat we decide if we want to continue the meet on our next date. Thanks
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Stag & Vixen couple here as well. Same type of relationship as you. No need for the humiliation
100% correct it has to be fun for everyone or it isn’t happening!! 
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