KinkyDaddy
Male
Being black, I would have to say to the racism in the cuckold lifestyle. A true racist person has nothing but hate in his/her heart. Trust me, no racist white man/female would get involved sexually with any black in any sexual capacity.
On the flip side, we all have some form of Double Standards and Prejudice, unfortunately. Those most likely do exist. For example. I have sucked bot Black and White cock and I get turned on a lot more when Im on my knees sucking a BWC vs a BBC.
booyakahh
Male
I hear what you’re saying. Though, I do know that there are a lot of cuckolds who don’t get physically involved in the sex their SO has, that live in rural America and have some pretty backwards views of what America is outside of their little bubble/all white town. Even more so with straight white men who just watch interracial straight porn but don’t actually have any involvement outside of the internet, which I think is what the majority of folks do on here.
You and I are bi, and I fully agree with the “opposites attract” motto. But with some of the stuff I see people post on here, I not only question their intent and authenticity, but also their real world tolerance of people who don’t fit into the norm of their daily environment.
Some of the politics I’ve seen on this site over the last few years is rhetoric lifted straight from some of the worst people on the alt-right. I have no doubt there are some white people on here posing as people they are not, and that would most definitely include intolerant people who get off on watching women they probably hate doing things they would consider “dirty” to get themselves off. That’s not my opinion but of many black men who I’ve known in person and online.
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I have to disagree. I've been in contact with plenty of husbands and wives that have very negative views of black men, but are still very much into this lifestyle. People can be really good at compartmentalizing. It's entirely possible to have couples that dislike black people, but are able to separate that from sex
I can't give a percentage, but I do wonder if you would count fetishizing under this. The amount of that is pretty high. If I had to guess the number of actual racists is low, but there are still some with pretty questionable views
booyakahh
Male
Fetishizing seems like it could go both ways. I admit I do think I fetishize hung black men and I question my ethos because of that often. I am also 100 percent an outspoken ally of all POC and minorities (I am half Middle Eastern and a former immigrant). I’m basically white… just without any of the privilege
.Also, being bi, I’m part of the LGBTQ community. I use the term “BBC” sparingly only when it’s desired to be said and never as a way to refer to a whole person.
I’m not saying I’m not fetishizing, I’m just saying that I think my attraction to black men and being a size queen has naturally led me to be here.
It depends. I'm not saying this is you at all, but when I think of fetishizing I think of not looking at someone as a person and only an object for sexual pleasure. Something like that is negative because you no longer look at them as a person. The whole "BBC" thing often falls into that. Nothing wrong with admiring guys with big dicks, but once it goes from saying has a bbc to they ARE a bbc that's a problem and many people here use it like that. There are also intentions to consider. I think many of the people that use it as the latter may be well meaning, but that phrase in itself is dehumanizingFetishizing seems like it could go both ways. I admit I do think I fetishize hung black men and I question my ethos because of that often. I am also 100 percent an outspoken ally of all POC and minorities (I am half Middle Eastern and a former immigrant). I’m basically white… just without any of the privilege
Also, being bi, I’m part of the LGBTQ community. I use the term “BBC” sparingly only when it’s desired to be said and never as a way to refer to a whole person.
I’m not saying I’m not fetishizing, I’m just saying that I think my attraction to black men and being a size queen has naturally led me to be here.
booyakahh
Male
Yes! That’s exactly what I was referring to. Calling a person a “BBC” is just so weird. Also, weird is someone calling a person “a black”… WTF??
We should all be trying to use language that's respectful to one another, but when correcting someone be respectful yourself instead of assuming the person is being dehumanizing, racist, etc on purpose. People using language like that may have good intentions or are ignorant and should get that respect
Both are completely unrelated, yet I see them get mixed together often. When it's like that it's never about advocating for black people because they're for a movement, but simply them expressing their fetish. It's weird as fuck. There were actual signs at protests referencing black dick, and these people online do the same
You may be right. But they obviously love getting docked down by BBC.
That’s hot
KinkyDaddy
Male
Ok, I can accept that. I have never had the experience. My opinion is pure speculation.
Some of the fetish comes from racial stereotypes, I’ve even had gay Black men be attracted to my thuggish look back in the day and the perceived danger and dominance that came with it. One was a neighbor, think I talked about him on here, seen me with my friends and made his move. Ended up submitting to me on his knees in a dirty public pool bathroom, I smacked him around and called him names while I made him suck my dick. From then on he would see me with my friends and lust openly, I made a gay joke like he wants to suck us all off and got laughs. Little did they know, he was looking at his favorite thug and wanted another rough encounter. I gave him one more, came home late and horny, texted him like “I want to come over, we need to talk.” He snuck me into his bedroom window and we talked quietly. The “talk” was me arriving angry and taking it out on him by forsing my dick down his throat and calling him a faggot for lusting after me openly in front of my friends. He loved the humiliation so much that he made me like calling someone a faggot as they served me. I pulled out a condom and tried to take his ass, but I was inexperienced and he was too. He must have said something because there was this girl that visited them that caught my attention. She ended up in the bathroom with me at my house and that’s when I discovered (not really) that she was actually a man. I still remember the fear in her eyes when I found out her secret in the bathroom. I’m sure she heard something but wasn’t sure that I wasn’t some violent homophobe. Like I said, the perceived danger is a turn on to some, it makes pleasing the dominant more satisfying. Not only did I not get mad, I laughed and made the Black sissy blow me. Long story short, Black men are racially fetishized, but it comes from a place of lust, not hatred. Even beta Black men love to indulge in the stereotype of being used by an aggressive thug.
Para mi siendo negro y bisexual habiendo nacido en una sociedad donde el racismo no se ve fue más difícil navegar ka sociedad siendo negro bisexual y la cosa que realmente me ha costado es ver como todo lo relacionado al mundo cucklod esta creando una mala manera de ver el sexo y a los hombres negros les ha creado la idea que solo tienen que ir metiendo la pinga bien duro y no es así
