It goes both ways.I am not sure if it is proper ediquite or not to be pushy. I feel it is not... I understand why this site exist and clearly everyone is at different level.
I hate rushing into anything. I get so many guys telling me RIGHT AWAY "let's meet". And I feel pressured and I don't like it. That is how bad things happen to women. Its SCARY to just chat online and meet them as FAST AS POSSIBLE.
And when you try to avoid the conversation going into this pressure, they accuse you of being a waste of time, not serious, fake, blah blah blah.
Is it wrong that I am careful? Are we really expected to just MEET UP with every guy who sends us a message? He could have STD's, he could be a psycho, he could be catfishing, WHO KNOWS.
I feel proper ediquite is to wait for the lady or couple invite the bull. Let us make the move when we feel comfortable. Being pushy is CREEPY
A lot of guys TRY TO be nice and end up with Fakes and Flakes. There's Nothing worse than having your time wasted.
What some women call PUSHY, we just want to get down to business and know exactly what we getting into... People need to be more upfront with their intentions.
This ain't a vanilla dating site, so all the 'Seduction and Courtship' doesn't apply here. Most of us just want to FUCK.
Relationships take time... Sex does not.
Ive had some women message me 3 YEARS AGO talking about 'let's get to know each other first' .... In 3 years a woman can get pregnant and have a 2 year old baby in that time frame