Yep. When it has gone so far you have to ask that question...
You've gone too far
Our Bull wants to public. Thoughts?
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You've gone too far
I personally come from a slight desire to have a poly dynamic with our Bull so I get not wanting to hide a private aspect that fulfills you. But social networks still matter. I would like to think of her Bull as almost a fringe boyfriend myself. But I can't let my family know I feel that way. They simply wouldn't support my happiness in this
Thirsty123
Male
yes exactly. Never really had a reason to bring it back up
has it been the same bull?
Thirsty123
Male
Yes. Same guy. He has brought a couple of friends over the years but he is still her primary guy
you and her might want to talk about some things then ummm.
Thirsty123
Male
Agreed. We always have talks per say. This is just a big one that needs to be done. I know I am coming from a position of weakness as I have given up some of my rights but again, no one is looking to hurt anyone.
two years is a long time and you add in sleep overs and you getting out of their way so they have time alone.
How old are you two?
Thirsty123
Male
we are in our mid 50's together for 25 years
ok lot better in the 20's and 30's have you two talked?
Maybe I am one of the only people here who respects what you and your wife have. I hope it works out well for you two. If you and her are comfortable with being more public I would take it slow. Also, if you are ok with friends/family knowing it might be best to go at that slowly too and have it happen when and where you want it to, maybe with introducing the bull as your wife's bf and mentioning you are all very happy. If everyone is in agreement with what is going then there isn't anything wrong with it.
Thirsty123
Male
we will do more talking about it this weekend. He is coming over Saturday as well and I think it is a conversation we all should have. He is 39 bTW
I think you and her should talk first it should just be about you two on where you all stand and if she would still quit if asked too. with him there she might just be answering how he wants her to be
Thirsty123
Male
Thank you for understanding. I do hope it works out but it is a big step for everyone. Going slow is probably the best approach. Not that there is anything wrong with our arrangement. It works for us. and probably not for most. I think most guys would not understand or would not be willing to sacrifice part of their manhood marriage and wife to another. I just dont want to lose friends over this
Thirsty123
Male
Perhaps it is best to do it along first. I know when he comes over, they have to go to the bedroom and you know, take care of business first. once that happens she might not be in the right state of mind
what dick ******* where she will answer how he wants it?
I like keeping my lifestyle secret, shared solely among those on this venue who are "in the know"
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This is a fake story.
Ok... So you only respond positive to people who cosign on the train wreck you have going on.
You are not here for advice. You ate here for validation.
My best guess is that Most of the people giving you advice are not even real couples.
We have been swinging for 15 years. Our marriage is rock solid.. Because we make the effort to keep it that way.
uslover609 is the only other person here giving you sage advice
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