Thirsty123
Male
Well said thank you! I 100% agree with you. it is a balancing act for sure and there needs to be some balance absolutely. Nice. i think I might have gotten the answer I was looking for
Our Bull wants to public. Thoughts?
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Sounds great UNLESS you have a family, friends or coworkers who all might complicate your lives. Not everybody will understand or like or appreciate your life style. Most couples I meet appreciate me respecting their privacy and mine as well.
After all what could go wrong????
After all what could go wrong????
Thirsty123
Male
I don't know what is fake here. I was responding to something someone else said. Nothing more.
don't know about the fake. the profile history is something. but did have the feeling nothing was going to change his mind here. maybe its helping someone else who is reading this. I think the thing is we have seen this type of story so many times. different accounts but the only thing that changes is the wording
Thirsty123
Male
I have been trying to respond to everyone who has taken the time to write some of their thoughts. If I missed anyone I will apologize right now, sorry. There is some rock-solid advice for sure here. Some others just want to criticize and call you out as bullshit. Whatever doesn't bother me any.
I took have a solid relationship but because there is a third person in it, I do have to take his feelings into consideration as well. In this type of situation, there are 3 of us, with different feelings and desires and we have to make it work for everyone.
see this is where people are saying you just live there now. the only true feelings is yours and hers. this is your all house and marriage he is just the fun
Yeah.. What they said.. But As a caveat.. Not only are you and your wife's feelings the ones that matter, and he is the fun.. He is suppose to know he is the fun and respect that. But. . he has usurped you.. And Proven your feelings do not matter.and put his above yours. He is phasing you out.. Regardless of how you feel or what you want
boom goes the dynamite.
re: Our Bull wants to public. Thoughts?
People in hell want ice water, too ... doesn't mean they get it. Going public means he wants his "ego polished" along with other things and he's not sensitive to the risks you take as a married woman.Its no longer a private thing among friends when you expose yourself to the "innocents of others" ... not worth it in so many ways!
And don't try to "straw man" this as a poly relationship... Those.. Like any other relationship are built on mutual love and respect.. Which you do not have from either other party
Thirsty123
Male
why do you think either one of them has no respect for me??? I don't understand why you would think that.
Yep. It seems people want immediate gratification and start wanting to live out every fantasy before making sure they have taken care of their partner and their partner is taking care of them and they have mutual commitment and integrity and SECURITY. We play with couples and it seems there is always one who realizes they are not as secure as they thought halfway through.. And its usually the one who wanted and pushed for the fantasy. We have seen several marriages, even longstanding ones, end in our bedroom. As well as countless boyfriend/ Girlfriend relationships. And god forbid you act a fool and irritate my wife with your pettiness or insecurity.. She will turn up the heat out of spite, like a shark that smells *******, she will show your partner pleasure and intensity that would make Pinhead proud in front of you or even if you have already fled, ruining them for all others for eternity and when she is done she will hand you back a ruined and shaken shell of the person you once knew.
Sometimes I feel bad and think she an ass.. But.. She's only giving what they thought they wanted
Thirsty123
Male
Im not sure he is phasing me out. Im sure he has some feelings and some skin in the game. I am sure there is some sort of power trip he has going on because of the circumstances, I still believe he doesn't want to hurt us any
Because you are banished to the back bedroom when he is there, banished from her vagina forever, and now banished from being her husband in public.
You have been cast out.
Wake the hell up
Thirsty123
Male
I have agreed to be banished from the bedroom, that was my doing. I let him into my bedroom and I went to the guest room. I am forbidden from having sex with her, pussy free he told me is better and I agreed. I did not see it as being banished as her husband in public, you might have a point there that I did not see or think of.
It doesn't matter what you agreed to or did not agree to.
But it looks like you agreed yourself out of your marriage
Now you don't matter.
Here's the reality.. People can play whatever games they want. But once your wife loses respect for you as a man.. Its over.
And you are at that precipice. You may not be able to go back.
Every minute longer this continues your position as a man and husband diminishes.. As does her love.
Grab your sack and man up and stop ALL of this or its over
But it looks like you agreed yourself out of your marriage
Now you don't matter.
Here's the reality.. People can play whatever games they want. But once your wife loses respect for you as a man.. Its over.
And you are at that precipice. You may not be able to go back.
Every minute longer this continues your position as a man and husband diminishes.. As does her love.
Grab your sack and man up and stop ALL of this or its over
Different perspectives..... I think first of all as a couple, you are so very lucky to have a longterm Bull. I also think it is amazing to have a Bull who wants to push boundaries in this caring manner. He is talking with you about his feelings and hoping you will understand. Are you proud of your sexy wife? If so, allow them this public or more open expression of their relationship. It will only enhance things between them and consequently it should emhance your cuckold status further. It may well make your wife appreciate and love you that little more for being so proud and supportive of her.
As suggested above, give it a try. If anyone tells you they saw your wife with a Black man, then be honest, tell them thats her boyfriend and you are very happy about this
As suggested above, give it a try. If anyone tells you they saw your wife with a Black man, then be honest, tell them thats her boyfriend and you are very happy about this
Maybe they don't care.......and once again it is clear that so many Black men on this site simply do not understand the psyche of a cuckold male
Funny thing is.... we understand you Very well.
I don't mean any offense, but it's hard for me to even imagine even having this conversation.
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