Our Bull wants to public. Thoughts?
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Thirsty123
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No of course not! Why would you say that for?
Why don’t you wanna fuck me then
Would she get “Black Owned” tattooed right above her pussy?
If he wants to go public it can only mean you have his focus. He has no shame and feels you’re special to him.
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Thirsty123
Male
He feels no shame towards our relationship for sure. I am thinking he doesn't want it to end and if he brings it in public, there is no going back after that. I will forever be the cuckold husband. I think it would be a burden on our marriage, sure it would survive but the harm to friends and family there is no coming back from that.
He is looking at it as the Alpha male. From his point of view, it would make sense to bring it to the open. He controls my wife's body, he controls me somewhat as well. He will lock in his position and as I said, I would stay a cuck husband forever. I like this lifestyle we have, not sure I can fully lose all control and have to live with the consequences
Then best you think fully and deeply about that thought
Thirsty123
Male
I have for the last 2 weeks or so. I have decided to keep it private at this point and her Bull has agreed. I know on his side of his friends they all know. He is not married so he has nothing to hid. Not sure if he told his family but I know all of his friends know. I can't do anything about that but I can do something about my side.
I will say it’s always good to be able to keep control of your marriage. With that I’d say again make sure it’s they way you desire to go.
I don't think you have any options here. You've conceded.
This is a good thing though. The only way we will ever de-stigmatize cuckold marriage is by being open & honest
This white boi’s story is
BS just another Lame ass white boi, screwed in his head...No pic’s of his wife & the Bull ?? It must be really sad to have small Dick..
Thirsty123
Male
Doing it the way you describe is NOT doing it his way. It would be doing it my way. I have no issue with doing this in public away from our hometown. He wants to bring it into our regular life. He wants to "date" my wife and have friends and family know and accept our lifestyle. That scares me to death at the thought. I don't think I could face anyone if that happened. I mean how could I if they knew my wife is fucking another guy??
Thirsty123
Male
So the metric if something is true or not is a pic of a wife and her Bull? I see.... Hmm, who would have known? Here I was thinking to post something true and sincere about what was happening in my life and asking for people would I thought would understand my situation makes me fake because of no picture. Insulting me because of my small dick is not going to hurt my feelings. If my dick was huge, I would be doing another man's wife, not the other way around.This white boi’s story is
I guess if I said my wife was ganged by 5 bbc every night 5 days a week, got pregnant 10 times and I am raising 10 black babies...all that would be true if I posted her pic and his....got it
I honestly never understood why people need to post replies saying this is NOT true, just to say it. If my story is bullshit, just move on to the next post and say nothing. That's what I do , just saying
Thirsty123
Male
So I should just suck it up and surrender to the outcome? Regardless how I feel about it?
Thirsty123
Male
I agree with this statement. Once it becomes more normal I think more people will be more open to it. Right now though, we know no one else in this situation.
We did
We do this on vacation with a special bull who moved away. We get together once a year and we behave as a couple while my husband tags along. I find it to be such a turn on to be clearly with him in public, the touches, kisses, putting his arm around me....kind of extensive foreplay that leads to the most fantastic sex. Could never do this near home but would love to find a bull who is closer, like an hour away, where we could openly date more frequently.
Thirsty123
Male
The former... He wants us both to admit that she and he are in a sexual relationship. For instance, say Easter dinner, he would be over and he would be seated next to her and act as her lover.. that would be an example. Doing that, everyone would know. I would have to explain ourselves and I really do not want to.
I think half the people suggesting you let it go public are exhibiting keyboard courage. They'd never do it themselves, but they talk a mean game, like egging on a kid who's about to stick a paperclip in a light socket.
I agree with your desire to keep it private. Especially since you said your wife doesn't seem to be into the concept either.
To someone else's comment above, sure, you can make new friends. But family, especially family you love and want in your future, you don't want to ruin that connection because of a private lifestyle.
There are a few lifestyle women I have gotten close to over the years, but I eventually backed away from because they want it to be publicly known that they're in a black-only cuckold relationship. Like you, I'm more private with my lifestyle interests. I want a woman who also wants to keep it a secret from people we know.
In terms of an alpha black bull, there are many ways he can continue to exert his will behind closed doors, or even in public far away from friends, and more importantly, family. Your bull's push may indeed be nothing more than a power move, but if it's outside your wife's and your boundaries, then it's too far. And for the people who say a cuckold or beta shouldn't have boundaries, well, they aren't very bright. Cuckolds aren't doormats or slaves. They are very compliant with their wife's desires to connect with an alpha black male, but as soon as that black male puts his wife in a dangerous situation, many of us will kick out of that mentality in a heart beat to protect our women. And that includes their desire to remain private.... because that's a boundary that has permanent consequences if crossed.
If pushing her, and you, into accepting that they go public around people you know is his primary goal, well... he may have reached the end of his creativity. Maybe it's because he needs something like that to remain interested in the dynamic. But if that's the case, what's next? Typically those types keep pushing the boundary to the point where they wear out their welcome.
The good thing is, there are many other black men out there your wife could connect with who could respect your need for privacy.
Easier said than done, especially if she has a connection with him, but you two shouldn't have to compromise on a boundary like that.
I agree with your desire to keep it private. Especially since you said your wife doesn't seem to be into the concept either.
To someone else's comment above, sure, you can make new friends. But family, especially family you love and want in your future, you don't want to ruin that connection because of a private lifestyle.
There are a few lifestyle women I have gotten close to over the years, but I eventually backed away from because they want it to be publicly known that they're in a black-only cuckold relationship. Like you, I'm more private with my lifestyle interests. I want a woman who also wants to keep it a secret from people we know.
In terms of an alpha black bull, there are many ways he can continue to exert his will behind closed doors, or even in public far away from friends, and more importantly, family. Your bull's push may indeed be nothing more than a power move, but if it's outside your wife's and your boundaries, then it's too far. And for the people who say a cuckold or beta shouldn't have boundaries, well, they aren't very bright. Cuckolds aren't doormats or slaves. They are very compliant with their wife's desires to connect with an alpha black male, but as soon as that black male puts his wife in a dangerous situation, many of us will kick out of that mentality in a heart beat to protect our women. And that includes their desire to remain private.... because that's a boundary that has permanent consequences if crossed.
If pushing her, and you, into accepting that they go public around people you know is his primary goal, well... he may have reached the end of his creativity. Maybe it's because he needs something like that to remain interested in the dynamic. But if that's the case, what's next? Typically those types keep pushing the boundary to the point where they wear out their welcome.
The good thing is, there are many other black men out there your wife could connect with who could respect your need for privacy.
Easier said than done, especially if she has a connection with him, but you two shouldn't have to compromise on a boundary like that.
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Thirsty123
Male
Thank you for your thoughtful comment. Makes total sense for sure. I agree most people here would never do it if there were in my situation. The more I think about it, the more embarrassed I would be for both me and my wife. he says he wants to go public because we have something real here. This was not a role-playing game, it was turned into truly a lifestyle change. I wanted something real and tangible, not a one-night stand or a guy who comes over once a year.
In the end, I guess I got what I wanted. many fantasies that turn into realities do not always go as one plans. The reason he hasn't told anyone on my side is because of my wife, she is not ready for that either. I have a feeling if she ever changes her mind I won't be able to stop it. He is the Alpha for sure and he knows it. I am the beta and we all know it. Ultimately though my wife is the one who has the full control over everything. He won't cross her I don't think.
Thank you again
In the end, I guess I got what I wanted. many fantasies that turn into realities do not always go as one plans. The reason he hasn't told anyone on my side is because of my wife, she is not ready for that either. I have a feeling if she ever changes her mind I won't be able to stop it. He is the Alpha for sure and he knows it. I am the beta and we all know it. Ultimately though my wife is the one who has the full control over everything. He won't cross her I don't think.
Thank you again
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