No shows.

[Pmh7406]

well Im most of what you said..Im just old and got fat lol

no way

 

[droc19857]

i guess im not one of the fine ones as you say lol

I was talking about you you trying to get a hold of this big black dick

 

[Juicylady]

I can tell you, those aren't real. I won't be surprised if they weren't someone other than a bull or even a black man that was catfishing you. Did you do actual video verification? I know you said you sent them video, but I assume those were raunchy. But there should be video conference at least one time if they refuse, them kick rocks.

There was FaceTime video with me and my husband. My husband insists that he meets the men that I’m going to meet. That still doesn’t make them show up.

 

[FondOfSex]

I hate flakes, they like to live in fantasy land. I want fun sex and experiences not fantasy.

 

[droc19857]

I hate flakes, they like to live in fantasy land. I want fun sex and experiences not fantasy.

Yeah it's a lot of flakes on here

 

[Gr8ego]

There was FaceTime video with me and my husband. My husband insists that he meets the men that I’m going to meet. That still doesn’t make them show up.

The FaceTime idea can help. But I agree, there are guys that will waste your time.

 

[trk258]

well Im most of what you said..Im just old and got fat lol

You are a lovely lady. No matter your age you are beautiful I sure love you not into twigs. Don't sale your self short. Thank you some day maybe I could please you

 

[seeking2019]

Happens to us here in Jacksonville NC all the time . Guys don't show. Guys show up with not even close to what was advertised.....as if we couldn't tell you only had 7 versus 9 or 10! Co ztantly asking for pics. Etc

 

[M-O Mary]

This has happened 3 times in last 2 months with guys I even had to pay for room upfront once and then he never showed up and other lept canceling...Why bother to set it up if youre not gonna show..I know stuff happens but not that much..

This happened just once to us, we found ourselves sitting in a motel room that we paid for, with suitcases of camera equipment. That was the first and last time, after that we told the bulls where to go, get the room, then calls us with the room number, we were ten minutes away,,,when we got there we reimbursed them for the room,,,if they're real all go well, if not, then the back and forth was just masturbatory fodder and ended on the spot!

 

[luvbbc73]

There is just one thing to that , fake profile ... the guy was probably there ,just saying ; always verify the people you are meeting or sharing pics with;hope that help you at all.

 

[Smoothgee20]

This has happened 3 times in last 2 months with guys I even had to pay for room upfront once and then he never showed up and other lept canceling...Why bother to set it up if youre not gonna show..I know stuff happens but not that much..

I think the issue is that there are a lot of people pretending to be someone they are not. Even if the verified as a real person they may be living out the fantasy online but not truly engaging. Add in the people catfishing and you lower the true black bulls down quite a bit. It messes the whole BBC experience on this site up unfortunately.

 

[Nina Rox]

I think the issue is that there are a lot of people pretending to be someone they are not. Even if the verified as a real person they may be living out the fantasy online but not truly engaging. Add in the people catfishing and you lower the true black bulls down quite a bit. It messes the whole BBC experience on this site up unfortunately.

Completely agree. I had two no shows in the last two weeks who were Verified members here. Being verified does NOT eliminate the problem entirely, but adding the live video chat verification within a short period of time of first contact and really vetting them can help. I agree that for many people the online sexting and fantasy part is all they want and they cannot transition to a real meet up. Pains in the ass, these no show time waters. I’ll keep taking it for the NJ team and fronting out the fakes! Lol.

 

[Privatewhtcple]

There’s a lot of reasons why some guys backs off or get cold feet. Here’s some of them:

1. Most inexperienced guys or so called BBC bulls; don’t like to meet in the same room with both couples for first time.
2. Some men will have a hard time, getting hard n to perform in front of another man n his wife.
3. Fear of expectations or unexpected.

 

[mamluke13]

It seems now on social media it's more about collecting pics and playing games before u can meet people offline I have but as time goes on its no more

 

[MrsBumpNGrind]

So this morning my wife was going to meet with a new BBC Friend. Things are looking really good. If they were exchanging pictures and video of each other for the last month or so. She went to go meet him at a Starbucks in a local town and he never showed up. He texted that morning and said he was gonna be a few minutes late. He said he was going to be right there and that was an hour and a half before I told my wife to leave. Why does this happen? Why would someone commit so much time to someone and then not show up at all? Does this happen to anybody else out there?

Have you ever met the guy before? If you haven't met him before....don't exchange a lot of media with him. Sharks out there just wanting your media to post online.
I have that happen all the time. I don't give out a lot of pics or videos.....anything I share has my watermark on it.
Too many fakes out here just trying to get free porn.
I make guys send me a selfie holding up something I pic for them to hold up.....after they have already sent a "selfie" just so I can see if they mach or not. Make them say your name in the videos they send....I don't accept anything that doesn't have them saying my name. I hate being thos way but to many people out there that are fake.

 

[MrsBumpNGrind]

There’s a lot of reasons why some guys backs off or get cold feet. Here’s some of them:

1. Most inexperienced guys or so called BBC bulls; don’t like to meet in the same room with both couples for first time.
2. Some men will have a hard time, getting hard n to perform in front of another man n his wife.
3. Fear of expectations or unexpected.

I've heard these same excuses....if you have these issues don't say you will meet, don't bother me and don't waste my time.
There's no excuse to not meet if you are an adult and understand what you are walking into. I don't cancel unless its an emergency. I had to cancel this last weekend because I had an infected tooth....I tried to get it better to be able to make it, I couldn't. Other than that....I met when I say I'll meet. People need to grow up and stop making excuses.

 

[asian_fever]

Any Asian or white black cock loving sluts in Australia want to meet up with me? I DEFINITELY will not flake.

 

[MrsBumpNGrind]

We had chatted with a few men here and on other sites. Finally, we have found one guy and he seemed to fit what we are looking for. First we chatted with him, then we skyped a few times but we didn't show our full faces. After one month chatting back and forth, we finally agreed to meet him in public place for a ******* to break the ice.

We've waited for him as we all have agreed. 10 minutes later, he texted me asking if I could send him a picture of my wife fully nude to make sure, we are real and serious about him. I have texted him back right away and told him, we are here to meet him for first time for a ******* as we all have promised. We are not here to play games and don't waste our time if not interested. He texted me back and said, he is already here sitting in his car but he needs a picture of my wife laying on the bed with her legs wide open as his slut, or he will leave and drive off. I've texted him back again and I said, we are not at home now or in a hotel that she can open her legs for you to take a picture of my wife wide open, besides she is the type of shy, nervous and conservative wife that no one suspects her to do anything outside of our marriage.

My wife started to feel nervous and asking me what's going on, and is he coming. I tried to explain to her, everything is fine but he wanted to make sure we are for real to do this, and not wasting his time and he wanted a nude picture of you. My wife said, can you send him a picture of us here? and where can you get a nude picture of me now? I said, babe I have some hot sexy nude pictures of you in my private phone collections that I can send him one for now. We started to go through her pictures album, and she picked one almost fully clothed but I said no babe, he asked for fully nude one, with your legs wide open on the bed. She said omg, we haven't even met him yet and she is not sure about this whole thing now. I said, babe we are already here and I will crop your face in the picture, only your body he can for now, and I send it to him.

He texted me back and said he is very pleased with my pretty hot sexy wife and he will come in a minute. He finally showed up and came to our table. He was much better than we expected, very big, tall black man, polite and well spoken. We've chatted with him for a while and we talked and laughed .....then we all left and promised to see him again.

Have you ever played with him. I would have told my hubby to not send him anything. If he hasn't seen enough then he can take a hike. I show a lot more on TW and I still get these dumbass guys that want more.....naw...if you want more, come meet us. Don't let them dictate what is going to happen. I guess thats the difference, I'm not submissive (love to please) so if they aren't going to come see me without anything more than I have posted then too bad. I have guys travel from all over the country to fuck me....im not catering too anyone.

 

[Mootje]

Completely agree. I had two no shows in the last two weeks who were Verified members here. Being verified does NOT eliminate the problem entirely, but adding the live video chat verification within a short period of time of first contact and really vetting them can help. I agree that for many people the online sexting and fantasy part is all they want and they cannot transition to a real meet up. Pains in the ass, these no show time waters. I’ll keep taking it for the NJ team and fronting out the fakes! Lol.

Daymn That really sucks !! Sorry to hear u sexy ass !

 

[biggrasp]

Too common, I just count it as a lesson learned! I’ve been on the phone while driving to someone’s house and when I get there they back out. It’s just a part of the lifestyle. People aren’t actually ready for it like they talk about it. It’s a fantasy and when reality shows up they clam up and skip out!