N-word as a turn on : yes or no ?

[dahammer]

het is racistisch dat een gekleurd persoon het wel mag gebruiken, en een blanke persoon niet. Maar dat is mijn mening. Het is van essentieel belang hoe je het woord gebruikt. In Nederland is het zeker geen beledigend woord.

het is onmogelijk dat het niet denigrerend is. het betekent gewoon dat je niet betaalt gezien de culturele context. het woord impliceert: minder dan menselijk, vee dat je kunt bezitten, zonder waarde, en waaraan eeuwenlange moorden zijn verbonden die vandaag de dag nog steeds plaatsvinden. hoe kan een woord met zoveel betekenis niet vernederend zijn?

(in English):
it’s impossible that it’s not derogatory. it just means you’re not paying considering the cultural context. the word implies: less than human, cattle you can own, without worth, and has centuries of ******* associated that still happens today. how can a word with so much meaning not be degrading?

 

[SwirlSexr775]

My Brother @dahammer ... Are you fluent in German? If you are I am very impressed. I have no talent for languages. At times not even for my native one. Lol. Except of course when it comes to what I like to think of as clever profanity. Lol.

 

[dahammer]

My Brother @dahammer ... Are you fluent in German? If you are I am very impressed. I have no talent for languages. At times not even for my native one. Lol. Except of course when it comes to what I like to think of as clever profanity. Lol.

Google translate for the win and that was Dutch. (They’re from the Netherlands). I speak Spanish and Korean.

 

[dahammer]

My Brother @dahammer ... Are you fluent in German? If you are I am very impressed. I have no talent for languages. At times not even for my native one. Lol. Except of course when it comes to what I like to think of as clever profanity. Lol.

Plus, well placed profanity can do an excellent job of expressing urgency and emotion. It’s a skill

 

[SwirlSexr775]

@dahammer I told you I have no talent for languages.Lol. I actually realized it was Dutch after looking at where they were from the Netherlands. Was just about to make the correction but I got a phone call. And I'm still impressed. Trilingual huh? Go head with your bad self. Lol. So who's on our side...?I'm getting a little confused. The first initial of their screen name will be sufficient.

 

[SwirlSexr775]

@dahammer read an interesting article about the use of profanity and it's correlation to a high IQ. I guess I'm just a throwback. Lol.

 

[dahammer]

north black max and go black, seems black men with understanding. Go black was saying something about a twitch response that might happen

@dahammer I told you I have no talent for languages.Lol. I actually realized it was Dutch after looking at where they were from the Netherlands. Was just about to make the correction but I got a phone call. And I'm still impressed. Trilingual huh? Go head with your bad self. Lol. So who's on our side...?I'm getting a little confused. The first initial of their screen name will be sufficient.

 

[SwirlSexr775]

north black max and go black, seems black men with understanding. Go black was saying something about a twitch response that might happen

What about the ones from the land of wooden shoes? Personally I think it's a little rude to post in what I consider a foreign language concerning this thread. To go through the machinations of translation it's tedious. Thinking I'll just ignore that which has become laborious. Wow my language skills have improved dramatically today. Lol.

 

[dahammer]

What about the ones from the land of wooden shoes? Personally I think it's a little rude to post in what I consider a foreign language concerning this thread. To go through the machinations of translation it's tedious. Thinking I'll just ignore that which has become laborious. Wow my language skills have improved dramatically today. Lol.

You’re hilarious. So the guy I responded to said it’s not derogatory in the Netherlands so they use it all the time. Not in our camp

 

[SwirlSexr775]

BlackMaxxx And GaBlack have understanding correct? @dahammer

 

[SwirlSexr775]

You’re hilarious. So the guy I responded to said it’s not derogatory in the Netherlands so they use it all the time. Not in our camp

Got you Brother. He doesn't count anyway. He wears wooden fucking shoes. Lol.

 

[dahammer]

Got you Brother. He doesn't count anyway. He wears wooden fucking shoes. Lol.

Ah clogs.

 

[SwirlSexr775]

Ah clogs.

Hmmm. Have very little experience with clogs. Fortunately by most definitions. LOL. Remember my older brother wearing some in the 70's. Didn't care for them then. Don't care for them now. I do like windmills and tulips though. Lol.

 

[megloveblack]

I prefer to stick with "Daddy" myself, thanks.

My partner does have another girl I know that he fucks, she's in her twenties and very socially conscious and progressive, and he apparently likes to make her say it sometimes because he says it's more humiliating for her than him. Better her than me, and whatever turns on my Daddy, but I'm just not comfortable with it and don't think I could bring myself to say it even if he wanted me to.

 

[Thothhotep56]

That’s a no for me dawg

 

[Thothhotep56]

Regardless of the situation, it shouldn't be used at all. In ANY context by white or black folks. You want people to stop saying it, stop saying it period. Eliminate the word from everyone's vocabulary. It's a derogatory word no matter who uses it. Sorry, see this is a double standard. You don't white people to say it at anytime but it's okay for black folks to say it to each other. We don't walk around calling each other Crackers...It's all derogatory....JMO

I disagree. We took that term and made it a positive within Our culture. We took back the negative connotation for US, just as women do with the word B**** and the LBGT community with f*****. Within cultural groups the taken back of those derogatory words have erased the stigma that came with them from outside their cultures.

 

[dahammer]

I disagree. We took that term and made it a positive within Our culture. We took back the negative connotation for US, just as women do with the word B**** and the LBGT community with f*****. Within cultural groups the taken back of those derogatory words have erased the stigma that came with them from outside their cultures.

While I agree with the assimilation of derogatory/inflammatory language by oppressed groups I also believe that we don’t seem to be erasing the stigma. It’s proving ineffective for us.

anti jewish rhetoric is condemned
The LGBTQIA’s+ Has a flag they can fly with protections
even the use of the B word Is not seen favorably when used by men (the oppressor)

but with the N word everyone wants to use it to be freed of the attachment to its roots when so many have direct connection to the racism it implies.
I can’t condemn black people for using it. To each their own my n I g g a. It may feel good on an individual level. But I don’t think it’s helping us socially any.

 

[Thothhotep56]

Off hand i would say when your having sex this should be left up to the participants. I've had guys and groups of black men coax me into calling them the N word most of the time. They seem to get off on being called big hung N or dirty N the combinations are many. It's not a word i use normally in conversation but the insulting seems to go out of it during sex.
I myself never thought of the word itself being a bad word. It seemed more like the way it was said or used, that's was what made it offensive. My life started in the deep south so i heard that word a lot. More by black people than white. It seemed to be a commonly used word. Groups of black women and men in conversations saying those N down at the store, I saw those N over in the park . That N was a common phrase heard many times most days. Mostly descriptive sometimes offensive.

What self respecting Black Man would want to be called A Dirty N*****? That’s absolutely crazy

 

[dahammer]

What self respecting Black Man would want to be called A Dirty N*****? That’s absolutely crazy

Not everyone is self respecting

 

[Thothhotep56]

Not everyone is self respecting

True