N-word as a turn on : yes or no ?

I can't support the use of a term that was used historically to dehumanize and ******* black people. I wasn't even born in this country but I know history. IMO everyone in America regardless of race has some level rasicm within them whether they choose to admit it or not. As a non-black person, have you asked yourself why you want to say such a hateful word (and not that lame ass "if black people say it, why can't I?" justification. And yes there's a difference btw nig*er and nig*a because we assign meanings to words you geniuses). But as a black man, to allow someone to denegrate you in this manner shows internalized self hatred. Not worth it just for some white ass. But to each their own, ignorance is at pandemic levels these days. But if we're going there, I guess I'll start calling you whites neanderthal piggies (unless someone knows a term equally as hateful as nig*er, which I find it hilarious how none of you want to even say the actual word because you know it's gravity), but respectfully just in "sexual situations" lol...foh
"I can't support the use of a term that was used historically to dehumanize and ******* black people."
I agree, 200%.

On the other hand, I really don't care how it's pronounced, it's always offensive.
 
Most black bulls seem to like using it during sex
We've not found that to be the case. I don't know how many Black men my wife has fucked in the several years she's been cuckolding me, but none have ever wanted one of us to use the word, nor used it himself during sex. We've traveled to lifestyle events in several states and had even more chats with potential playmates than she's had actually playmates. Only one man has ever talked to us about the use of that word, and he isn't in our area, so discussion has never gone further than a one-time chat.

I realize that everyone has different experiences, but I'm curious. When you say "most," might you be willing to share what kind of sample size and circumstances you're basing that claim on? If "Most black bulls seem to like using it," can you tell me how many "black bulls" you've encountered, what percentage of them were into the use of that word, and how you are meeting such men?
 
Why cant it just not be your preference and that be it…. There are people who would find this entire site “offensive and degrading” and even try and shame those who enjoy it. So lets not all clutch our pearls, especially the ninjas readin this…
 
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